Prevent me from doing something stupid

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So I was browsing the calendar for this dive bar/small music venue I've wanted to checkout for a really long time

and the thought of the last girl I was into popped into my head as she is a super fan of live music.

I smile to myself and continue scrolling......30 seconds later

I discover her dude or ex dude's band(I don't know if they are still dating) is playing there in a couple of weeks.

What are the odds?

They both live over 3000 miles away in my home state.

His band also isn't the type of band that you'd expect to play at a dive bar.

Should I go?

I don't want to run into her.

But I'm curious to see what this dude looks like in real life as well as witness "his great talent".



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Go in disguise 🎃

damn I wish...smart idea.

it's in November so costumes are no longer appropriate

Costumes are always appropriate.....go as the joker lol 😎

maybe a giant care bear or hot dog

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Yes, perfect....nice and inconspicuous lol 😂
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Go. He's in your city. Let it be a coincidence.

also half of it technically is......

since i was actually looking to visit this bar in the next couple of weeks....

and such i was on their website looking at all of the bands performing there in the next couple of weeks
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Obviously you frequent the place enough, that it can easily come off as a coincidence. Go and IF you run into the girl just have a chat and say you stopped by on the way to another spot. You don't have to stay the whole night. You know how the LA scene is! 🙂
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

So I was browsing the calendar for this dive bar/small music venue I've wanted to checkout for a really long time

and the thought of the last girl I was into popped into my head as she is a super fan of live music.

Should I go?

I don't want to run into her.

But I'm curious to see what this dude looks like in real life as well as witness "his great talent".

think about it, mercury retrograde yo, heck you have no idea the weird shit that just happened this week to moi, fuck no, I ignored it last year, this time is no coincidence.

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So I was browsing the calendar for this dive bar/small music venue I've wanted to checkout for a really long time

and the thought of the last girl I was into popped into my head as she is a super fan of live music.

Should I go?

I don't want to run into her.

But I'm curious to see what this dude looks like in real life as well as witness "his great talent".

think about it, mercury retrograde yo, heck you have no idea the weird shit that just happened this week to moi, fuck no, I ignored it last year, this time is no coincidence.

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OF COURSE!!!!

this makes so much sense......

this chick mind you always texts me when mercury is retrograde

and vice versa....

it's literally the only time we talk

Fuck man
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Go. He's in your city. Let it be a coincidence.

also half of it technically is......

since i was actually looking to visit this bar in the next couple of weeks....

and such i was on their website looking at all of the bands performing there in the next couple of weeks

Obviously you frequent the place enough, that it can easily come off as a coincidence. Go and IF you run into the girl just have a chat and say you stopped by on the way to another spot. You don't have to stay the whole night. You know how the LA scene is! 🙂
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The bar is NYC.

She and her dude are from and currently live in Norcal i think
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Posted by saggurl88

Go. He's in your city. Let it be a coincidence.

also half of it technically is......

since i was actually looking to visit this bar in the next couple of weeks....

and such i was on their website looking at all of the bands performing there in the next couple of weeks

Obviously you frequent the place enough, that it can easily come off as a coincidence. Go and IF you run into the girl just have a chat and say you stopped by on the way to another spot. You don't have to stay the whole night. You know how the LA scene is! 🙂

The bar is NYC.

She and her dude are from and currently live in Norcal i think
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I don't know why I keep thinking you're in LA lol My bad, but the scenes are still pretty similar.
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Are you gonna torture yourself afterwards if he's all hot and perfect?

I'd do it. Curiosity is too strong.


Nobody's perfect...but I think he's well suited for her.....

from what i know about him which is not much...it seems like her dream guy

( ethnicity wise, tall , comes from a family with money, similar hobbies and he's a musician).

so I am happy for her.....

but i am super curious to see what he looks like irl.....

on the gram in some of the pics she's posted of them together...he always looks different.
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Go. He's in your city. Let it be a coincidence.

also half of it technically is......

since i was actually looking to visit this bar in the next couple of weeks....

and such i was on their website looking at all of the bands performing there in the next couple of weeks

Obviously you frequent the place enough, that it can easily come off as a coincidence. Go and IF you run into the girl just have a chat and say you stopped by on the way to another spot. You don't have to stay the whole night. You know how the LA scene is! 🙂

The bar is NYC.

She and her dude are from and currently live in Norcal i think

I don't know why I keep thinking you're in LA lol My bad, but the scenes are still pretty similar.
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i am during breaks.... i was just there last week.

it was lovely!

but anywho yeah....higher chance of me running into someone i know in nyc than in LA since nyc is smaller.
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I am feeling woozy...

What would be the accomplishment AFTER you see what he looks like?

Does the band have website?

This shit is mind blowing...

yeah i just googled it....

the concert isn't even mentioned on their website.

Is there his pic?
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yeah a couple ...he looks different in every photo
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Go and then when you see him make out with a groupie after the show you can swoop in with the shoulder to grieve on for her.

Haha

He is cancer...so that might actually be a possibility

.

Def a possibility...Ugh Cancer men SO easy!
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lol funny how your profile pic is the Brooklyn Bridge!

This event/ spying mission took place in Williamsburg !
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Go and then when you see him make out with a groupie after the show you can swoop in with the shoulder to grieve on for her.

Haha

He is cancer...so that might actually be a possibility

.

Def a possibility...Ugh Cancer men SO easy!

lol funny how your profile pic is the Brooklyn Bridge!

This event/ spying mission took place in Williamsburg !
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Darn it! I could have been the support! Lol
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Go and then when you see him make out with a groupie after the show you can swoop in with the shoulder to grieve on for her.

Haha

He is cancer...so that might actually be a possibility

.

Def a possibility...Ugh Cancer men SO easy!

lol funny how your profile pic is the Brooklyn Bridge!

This event/ spying mission took place in Williamsburg !

Darn it! I could have been the support! Lol
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have you been to Pete's candy store?

I highly recommend it!
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Go and then when you see him make out with a groupie after the show you can swoop in with the shoulder to grieve on for her.

Haha

He is cancer...so that might actually be a possibility

.

Def a possibility...Ugh Cancer men SO easy!

lol funny how your profile pic is the Brooklyn Bridge!

This event/ spying mission took place in Williamsburg !

Darn it! I could have been the support! Lol

have you been to Pete's candy store?

I highly recommend it!
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Nope I haven’t been but after looking it up ironically I use to work in that area!

I’ll def check it out 😉