@Wildhorsesrun90
7 Years
At what point will he expose himself
When Will He Reveal His True Feelings
Pisces men often take time to open up emotionally due to their shy and reserved nature. Their playful teasing may continue until they feel confident and safe enough to express their genuine feelings. Patience and understanding are key, as their actions often reveal more than words. Trust your intuition and give him space to come forward naturally.
it sounds like he's already "exposed" himself and you are holding back because u want a big romance
I feel like it's just a fling situation or a flirty situation maybe. Why don't you ask him? Seems like a long time of hanging out. I feel like maybe you should be comfortable enough to ask him @ this point? I don't know. Good lahk x
Flirty? yes, I’m small doses. Fling? totally not. He knows I’m not like that. We don’t ‘hang’ out. We’ve both been super busy and haven’t even asked for time together. His friends are always inviting me places though, where he will be. When I was over loaded with stuff to do, he went to a friends place and then his friend asked me if he could help me. I wondered if he’d asked his friend to help me.
He’ll talk to me through the day sometimes but mostly talks to me before he goes to bed at night.
Thanks for your insight.
it sounds like he's already "exposed" himself and you are holding back because u want a big romance
I’ve reacted how I’d always react. A big ‘romance’ is not what I seek. It has potential to be real romantic though. I am seeking more of a connection that I feel, to explore it, to me that’s different than a big romance. He has not exposed himself to me physically or what he feels/thinks of me. Will he? Or do I have to flat out ask him?
It’s the tests, games, manipulation... whatever it is. All of his friends are reaching out to me, one by one..getting to know me and then after a while they’ll drop the ‘let’s sleep together’ bombshell which upsets me and I tell them off but they all still talk to me.
Pisces man knows I like him but he’s ‘too hard to get with’ I dunno, feels like he’s challenging me but that’s just it, I don’t want to just get with him. I’m attracted to him, I’m a ‘feeler’ and I feel his being.. a lot this doesn’t seem to be him, to me?
Pisces man continues to upset me but we still talk everyday.
Pisces man will cheekily ask me for sex or tell me that I need it.
He won’t come near me but wants me to know where he is all the time which is pretty much always at work or with a friend.
He wants to know how I am, what mood I’m in which is mostly stressed lately.
There’s an intense attraction there, I’ve seen it in his eyes and felt it in his presence. It scared me. This could be something out of a fairytale book. I feel he is sweet, caring and passionate even though he’s a man of few words. He’s so shy but bold.
so I want to know, can this playful teasing, testing etc. thing go on for a really long time?
"All of his friends are reaching out to me, one by one..getting to know me and then after a while they’ll drop the ‘let’s sleep together’ bombshell which upsets me and I tell them off but they all still talk to me. "
In your last thread for this exact topic, you said he is testing you via his friends. Then you said (in that topic) that it is just one mutual friend
now you back again to the "all of his friends"
edit: and the "and I tell them off but they all still talk to me. "
I wonder how you are still talking TO THEM
only you know what is going on, if anything at all 🙂
It’s the tests, games, manipulation... whatever it is. All of his friends are reaching out to me, one by one..getting to know me and then after a while they’ll drop the ‘let’s sleep together’ bombshell which upsets me and I tell them off but they all still talk to me.
Pisces man knows I like him but he’s ‘too hard to get with’ I dunno, feels like he’s challenging me but that’s just it, I don’t want to just get with him. I’m attracted to him, I’m a ‘feeler’ and I feel his being.. a lot this doesn’t seem to be him, to me?
Pisces man continues to upset me but we still talk everyday.
Pisces man will cheekily ask me for sex or tell me that I need it.
He won’t come near me but wants me to know where he is all the time which is pretty much always at work or with a friend.
He wants to know how I am, what mood I’m in which is mostly stressed lately.
There’s an intense attraction there, I’ve seen it in his eyes and felt it in his presence. It scared me. This could be something out of a fairytale book. I feel he is sweet, caring and passionate even though he’s a man of few words. He’s so shy but bold.
so I want to know, can this playful teasing, testing etc. thing go on for a really long time?
"All of his friends are reaching out to me, one by one..getting to know me and then after a while they’ll drop the ‘let’s sleep together’ bombshell which upsets me and I tell them off but they all still talk to me. "
In your last thread for this exact topic, you said he is testing you via his friends. Then you said (in that topic) that it is just one mutual friend
now you back again to the "all of his friends"
edit: and the "and I tell them off but they all still talk to me. "
I wonder how you are still talking TO THEM
only you know what is going on, if anything at all 🙂
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Yeah I understand the confusion, my bad. At first it was only one of his friends, then more and more of them started to talk to me. I wouldn’t know at first until they’d say something off or I’d see them together, that they were his friends... I’d always find out they were friends after a while of talking to them. I talk to a lot of people. I joke a lot but I do not entertain their advances. Why wouldn’t I still talk to his friends? Some of them are cool.
And I do not have much of an idea of what’s going on? I’ve never been in a weird situation like this with a guy before. They’ve always chased me, whereas now I think I’m chasing him. I know he likes me. I just want to know how long a Pisces man can go on like this? If I’m wrong, he could simply just tell me.. obviously it’s going on for ages.
This thread isn’t actually going to help me is it? Lol
I’m used to dealing with aquas and sagis where I had to learn to learn to hide all emotion. This is actually hard for me.
In my experience Pisces will make it clear if they’re into you, they’re not shy or passive.
And why do his friends feel comfortable enough to say “let’s sleep together”? How old are you guys?
‘Let’s sleep together’ Was not what was said to me exactly. The things said were more explicit.
I’d laugh, tell them I wasn’t interested and they’d talk about normal things again. One guy who asked me for sex was with the Pisces guy one day when he asked me. I found out from a friend that he has a girlfriend and is loyal to her so I thought they were just seeing if I got around.
If Pisces men are not typically shy when they like you then maybe he has just been playing games with me because he knows I like him. Maybe I am wrong about him and just believing what I want to believe. 🤷🏽♀️
So confused right now.
In my experience Pisces will make it clear if they’re into you, they’re not shy or passive.
And why do his friends feel comfortable enough to say “let’s sleep together”? How old are you guys?
‘Let’s sleep together’ Was not what was said to me exactly. The things said were more explicit.
I’d laugh, tell them I wasn’t interested and they’d talk about normal things again. One guy who asked me for sex was with the Pisces guy one day when he asked me. I found out from a friend that he has a girlfriend and is loyal to her so I thought they were just seeing if I got around.
If Pisces men are not typically shy when they like you then maybe he has just been playing games with me because he knows I like him. Maybe I am wrong about him and just believing what I want to believe. 🤷🏽♀️
So confused right now.
If he has an earthy moon that might make him more shy. Do you know his other placements?
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He has a Taurus moon
In my experience Pisces will make it clear if they’re into you, they’re not shy or passive.
And why do his friends feel comfortable enough to say “let’s sleep together”? How old are you guys?
‘Let’s sleep together’ Was not what was said to me exactly. The things said were more explicit.
I’d laugh, tell them I wasn’t interested and they’d talk about normal things again. One guy who asked me for sex was with the Pisces guy one day when he asked me. I found out from a friend that he has a girlfriend and is loyal to her so I thought they were just seeing if I got around.
If Pisces men are not typically shy when they like you then maybe he has just been playing games with me because he knows I like him. Maybe I am wrong about him and just believing what I want to believe. 🤷🏽♀️
So confused right now.
If he has an earthy moon that might make him more shy. Do you know his other placements?
He has a Taurus moon
Ahh, that might explain it. I feel like an earthy moon would make him more shy/reserved versus a typical Pisces. I have Venus in Virgo which I think makes me more shy than the typical scorp.
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His Venus is also in Taurus. I don’t know, I just ‘sense’ he likes me a lot but is scared to be around me. I sound nutty but that attraction, that pull scared me too. I still feel butterflies when I go around town knowing that I could bump into him. I’m the last person he talks to at night before he goes to sleep. To me that says something.
In my experience Pisces will make it clear if they’re into you, they’re not shy or passive.
And why do his friends feel comfortable enough to say “let’s sleep together”? How old are you guys?
They are just good friends...🤦♀️
Caps friend asked me that when we started to date. Cap explained that he used to share his dates with friends...👀🤔🤷♀️🤕
In my experience Pisces will make it clear if they’re into you, they’re not shy or passive.
And why do his friends feel comfortable enough to say “let’s sleep together”? How old are you guys?
‘Let’s sleep together’ Was not what was said to me exactly. The things said were more explicit.
I’d laugh, tell them I wasn’t interested and they’d talk about normal things again. One guy who asked me for sex was with the Pisces guy one day when he asked me. I found out from a friend that he has a girlfriend and is loyal to her so I thought they were just seeing if I got around.
If Pisces men are not typically shy when they like you then maybe he has just been playing games with me because he knows I like him. Maybe I am wrong about him and just believing what I want to believe. 🤷🏽♀️
So confused right now.
If he has an earthy moon that might make him more shy. Do you know his other placements?
He has a Taurus moon
Ahh, that might explain it. I feel like an earthy moon would make him more shy/reserved versus a typical Pisces. I have Venus in Virgo which I think makes me more shy than the typical scorp.
His Venus is also in Taurus. I don’t know, I just ‘sense’ he likes me a lot but is scared to be around me. I sound nutty but that attraction, that pull scared me too. I still feel butterflies when I go around town knowing that I could bump into him. I’m the last person he talks to at night before he goes to sleep. To me that says something.
I understand what you mean, I’ve felt that magnetic pull before. What is your sign? Maybe you can be more direct and ask him out? Suggest something light-hearted like going out for ice cream. If all his friends are hitting on you and you’re turning them down, maybe he’s intimidated by you and thinks you might reject him too? Idk..
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I’m a Cancerian, moon and Venus both in Gemini. Our mercuries are both fire signs.
He’s asked me for sex too, I’ve rejected that and told him I’m not like that. I told him I want to know him, which I really really do but I don’t know if I want to give in to him and then discover that’s all he wanted from me? That would really hurt me. I’ve got feelings for this guy, I didn’t want them but I’ve got them and I know he has the power to hurt me a lot. I’m actually so emotional about this right now. Haha
it sounds like he's already "exposed" himself and you are holding back because u want a big romance
I’ve reacted how I’d always react. A big ‘romance’ is not what I seek. It has potential to be real romantic though. I am seeking more of a connection that I feel, to explore it, to me that’s different than a big romance. He has not exposed himself to me physically or what he feels/thinks of me. Will he? Or do I have to flat out ask him?
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but he's told u he wants sex, and asks how u are. he has already exposed himself
In my experience Pisces will make it clear if they’re into you, they’re not shy or passive.
And why do his friends feel comfortable enough to say “let’s sleep together”? How old are you guys?
They are just good friends...🤦♀️
Caps friend asked me that when we started to date. Cap explained that he used to share his dates with friends...👀🤔🤷♀️🤕
I would flip the fuck out if someone approached me like that. But I’m easily offended. 🤷🏼♀️ Lol like don’t ever feel so comfortable to think you can ask me if we can fuck like you’re asking for something casual like a handshake. Hell no. The audacity... lol
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Was I shocked!!! But Cap said it was his fault! He didn’t tell them I am not to share!!! I should had ran then...I think...🤦♀️
it sounds like he's already "exposed" himself and you are holding back because u want a big romance
I’ve reacted how I’d always react. A big ‘romance’ is not what I seek. It has potential to be real romantic though. I am seeking more of a connection that I feel, to explore it, to me that’s different than a big romance. He has not exposed himself to me physically or what he feels/thinks of me. Will he? Or do I have to flat out ask him?
but he's told u he wants sex, and asks how u are. he has already exposed himself
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Are you joking? Many a man have asked me for sex and asked me how I am. That exposes nothing? Maybe all these other things he does... songs he’s played? But he won’t tell me that he has a thing for me.
Usually I start by expose myself on the first date so she knows what she's getting & there are no unpleasant surprises a few dates down the line Wait what's this thread about?
In my experience Pisces will make it clear if they’re into you, they’re not shy or passive.
And why do his friends feel comfortable enough to say “let’s sleep together”? How old are you guys?
‘Let’s sleep together’ Was not what was said to me exactly. The things said were more explicit.
I’d laugh, tell them I wasn’t interested and they’d talk about normal things again. One guy who asked me for sex was with the Pisces guy one day when he asked me. I found out from a friend that he has a girlfriend and is loyal to her so I thought they were just seeing if I got around.
If Pisces men are not typically shy when they like you then maybe he has just been playing games with me because he knows I like him. Maybe I am wrong about him and just believing what I want to believe. 🤷🏽♀️
So confused right now.
If he has an earthy moon that might make him more shy. Do you know his other placements?
He has a Taurus moon
Ahh, that might explain it. I feel like an earthy moon would make him more shy/reserved versus a typical Pisces. I have Venus in Virgo which I think makes me more shy than the typical scorp.
His Venus is also in Taurus. I don’t know, I just ‘sense’ he likes me a lot but is scared to be around me. I sound nutty but that attraction, that pull scared me too. I still feel butterflies when I go around town knowing that I could bump into him. I’m the last person he talks to at night before he goes to sleep. To me that says something.
I understand what you mean, I’ve felt that magnetic pull before. What is your sign? Maybe you can be more direct and ask him out? Suggest something light-hearted like going out for ice cream. If all his friends are hitting on you and you’re turning them down, maybe he’s intimidated by you and thinks you might reject him too? Idk..
I’m a Cancerian, moon and Venus both in Gemini. Our mercuries are both fire signs.
He’s asked me for sex too, I’ve rejected that and told him I’m not like that. I told him I want to know him, which I really really do but I don’t know if I want to give in to him and then discover that’s all he wanted from me? That would really hurt me. I’ve got feelings for this guy, I didn’t want them but I’ve got them and I know he has the power to hurt me a lot. I’m actually so emotional about this right now. Haha
Ugh, yeah I don’t know what I would make of that. I mean I guess guys are going to try their luck, but if he’s asking for sex, it doesn’t sound like he’s very shy after all. 🤨 just be careful with this guy.
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He’s asked me when he’s figured I’m upset, if that makes a difference?
it sounds like he's already "exposed" himself and you are holding back because u want a big romance
I’ve reacted how I’d always react. A big ‘romance’ is not what I seek. It has potential to be real romantic though. I am seeking more of a connection that I feel, to explore it, to me that’s different than a big romance. He has not exposed himself to me physically or what he feels/thinks of me. Will he? Or do I have to flat out ask him?
but he's told u he wants sex, and asks how u are. he has already exposed himself
Are you joking? Many a man have asked me for sex and asked me how I am. That exposes nothing? Maybe all these other things he does... songs he’s played? But he won’t tell me that he has a thing for me.
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it sounds like he pays u a lot of attention... he doesn't owe u anything more if u are holding back. guys get tired of chasing lol
I have these tendencies of flirting on a fine line. I’ll playfully navigate the waters and at the same time be slightly possessive. I can’t help it. I’m currently seeing a Cancer girl and my entire motive is to get in her head, like seriously get in her fucking head. I’m not doing this for any ill reasons. I just find it extremely fun to know that I can twist her in all kinds of ways for my own enjoyment. I genuinely like her too, but I enjoy bringing out the crazy and I want to see it and witness it by my own hands. Call me manipulative and what not, but I want to watch as whoever is on my mind get silly stupid. It’s pure enjoyment yet slightly sadistic and I know it.
I find it like a mental type of foreplay and that’s the kind of things I revel in. It’s like my way of edging but through the mind and I can’t get enough of it. I’m also far from shy, definitely direct, and will say what I need to say, so I guess people find that endearing in me. I don’t know what I can say about your buddy there, but if we have similar tendencies, the flirting can last a while and the mental foreplay can definitely extend further than you’d be familiar with.
For your own enjoyment as in she makes you feel so good that you wanna make sure she doesn’t want to let you go? Haha
Yeah he’s definitely giving my mind a workout. I just told him I want him to come over so I don’t know. I mean, if he does then that’ll give me a chance to read his body language but if he rejects to come then I’m walking.
Usually I start by expose myself on the first date so she knows what she's getting & there are no unpleasant surprises a few dates down the line Wait what's this thread about?
Haha dobro
"I just told him I want him to come over "
I am dead 😄
just for the continuity of the story, have you told him to bring his girlfriend with him? 🙂
"I just told him I want him to come over "
I am dead 😄
just for the continuity of the story, have you told him to bring his girlfriend with him? 🙂
Haha oh that’s right!! 🤣 he doesn’t have a girlfriend. Just wanted to see what I’d do I suppose lol
It’s the tests, games, manipulation... whatever it is. All of his friends are reaching out to me, one by one..getting to know me and then after a while they’ll drop the ‘let’s sleep together’ bombshell which upsets me and I tell them off but they all still talk to me.
Pisces man knows I like him but he’s ‘too hard to get with’ I dunno, feels like he’s challenging me but that’s just it, I don’t want to just get with him. I’m attracted to him, I’m a ‘feeler’ and I feel his being.. a lot this doesn’t seem to be him, to me?
Pisces man continues to upset me but we still talk everyday.
Pisces man will cheekily ask me for sex or tell me that I need it.
He won’t come near me but wants me to know where he is all the time which is pretty much always at work or with a friend.
He wants to know how I am, what mood I’m in which is mostly stressed lately.
There’s an intense attraction there, I’ve seen it in his eyes and felt it in his presence. It scared me. This could be something out of a fairytale book. I feel he is sweet, caring and passionate even though he’s a man of few words. He’s so shy but bold.
so I want to know, can this playful teasing, testing etc. thing go on for a really long time?
The guy sounds like me😃
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Lovely, anything else you want to share with the class? Like what are you and why are you like this?
Pisces men are just weird af. I have an incredible attraction to them but they scare tf outta me and I don't understand their tactics. They wont come right out and tell you how they feel they just expect you to know by their actions...which doesn't work for me. But you can't be to direct or they will swim away so you have to ease into it I have found. Altho, they usually do ask me out upfront and make it known that they are interested. I've never had one beat around the bush when it came to that. So I dunno. Like I said. Weird af.
Have his friends made these sexual advances towards you in front of him?
I.... I dont understand anything going on here, that makes me mad, this is so stupid... are you people in high school?
what does "expose" even mean? he did "cheekily" ask you for sex, so he was willing to expose his willy to you, although considering you say his friend did also ask you for sex I believe you're either misinterpreting what people actually mean during convos or you might need to reevaluate the image you're projecting.
---I feel his being.. a lot this doesn’t seem to be him---
that's and oxymoron, aren't you saying you can feel him? how can that not be him then? his actions are him.
---There’s an intense attraction there, I’ve seen it in his eyes and felt it in his presence---
this and the other thing make me wonder if that's only on your head.
so you don't hang out, cuz he don't ask you out, you say is cuz he know you both are busy, but his friend "always" do ask you out, and he's gonna be there, so he's not that busy.... neither are you cuz I presume you do end going with the friends
about his friends flirting with you... I imagine in his bro group they talk about you, and he haven't called dibs or even expressed interest, cant say that would be a good sign.
"I see only red flags.... before me!"
Have his friends made these sexual advances towards you in front of him?
Only one did that I know of. I asked him what was going on with that. He said he didn’t know. It’s actually come to the point where it’s really upsetting me so I said to him that I couldn’t help how I’m feeling and it’ll take me some time to drop it. He did not say anything. Next day he asks me how I am and what’s got me in a mood. Told him that I wasn’t used to having the calmness. He told me I needed sex.
Have his friends made these sexual advances towards you in front of him?
Only one did that I know of. I asked him what was going on with that. He said he didn’t know. It’s actually come to the point where it’s really upsetting me so I said to him that I couldn’t help how I’m feeling and it’ll take me some time to drop it. He did not say anything. Next day he asks me how I am and what’s got me in a mood. Told him that I wasn’t used to having the calmness. He told me I needed sex.
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I’d find it hugely disrespectful for his friends to creep on you in front of him/period. He obviously doesn’t see you as anything more than a bit of fun by allowing it to happen.
If he was into you not only would you know, his friends would know and be more respectful. Or he just has shit friends and poor judgement. Idk about this one 😐
No it won't go on forever. As a Pisces man I've had chicks tell me I similar things that you've stated but I stayed away until I felt the need to pursue. We don't like to be smothered so just relax and things will work out.
Cancers love to smother
Scorpios love clingy
Pisces don't like either
Yeah at this point, I think I’m just going to drop it. From what others are saying, it doesn’t sound like he likes me like that after all. Thanks tho
Ew
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It’s the tests, games, manipulation... whatever it is. All of his friends are reaching out to me, one by one..getting to know me and then after a while they’ll drop the ‘let’s sleep together’ bombshell which upsets me and I tell them off but they all still talk to me.
Pisces man knows I like him but he’s ‘too hard to get with’ I dunno, feels like he’s challenging me but that’s just it, I don’t want to just get with him. I’m attracted to him, I’m a ‘feeler’ and I feel his being.. a lot this doesn’t seem to be him, to me?
Pisces man continues to upset me but we still talk everyday.
Pisces man will cheekily ask me for sex or tell me that I need it.
He won’t come near me but wants me to know where he is all the time which is pretty much always at work or with a friend.
He wants to know how I am, what mood I’m in which is mostly stressed lately.
There’s an intense attraction there, I’ve seen it in his eyes and felt it in his presence. It scared me. This could be something out of a fairytale book. I feel he is sweet, caring and passionate even though he’s a man of few words. He’s so shy but bold.
so I want to know, can this playful teasing, testing etc. thing go on for a really long time?