sag on the cusp of capicorn male

I just wanted to know if anyone had any insight on sag on the cusps of capicorn men. I am a Pisces woman and dealing with him is a bit confusing and difficult.

Walk away...

haha maybe you want to explain what is confusing about him?
What you need help dealing with?

I can't think of any men I know of this specific cusp.
Also it may be more helpful to look at other placements. Do you happen to know his whole chart?

lol or.... what lildol said.

Sag mixed with Cap is one fuck of a cusp, I will agree there.

I have been trying to get him to see that my feelings for him are genuine but he is naturally pessimistic, cynical and negative only sometimes can I break him out of it but only in person. He has told me he doesn't want to lead me on yet contact is still made and time is still spent. I don't believe a lot he says because actions and words don't match.I believe he fears feeling and me naturally I have no issue with emotion but also have logical sense. Of course he is a workholic and it does not bother me because i can pull him from
that and the moments we share are filled with joy at least to me they are but does not last long. I call him the moment ruiner because we will connect on a higher level then he has to be his rude self. I tickle him in his rude moments he laughs and we are back to normal. I feel he cares but he wont say it always boils down to money on his mind. I adore him
his ambition and the time he gives but there are those moments of where we get to close for his comfort and he flips the script and I'm back to breaking him down again hes back to rejecting me we start all over the positive moments come again he makes the time. How do I stop the cycle?

Posted by fishoutofwater
He has told me he doesn't want to lead me on yet contact is still made and time is still spent. I don't believe a lot he says because actions and words don't match.

.... and I'm back to breaking him down again hes back to rejecting me...

Well, the only way you will be successful in breaking the cycle, is if he wants it to be broken.
From what you said - I don't get the feeling he does. I get the feeling he likes things the level they are at right now.

Can I ask why you are pushing for more, when he has given you every indication that he can't offer that at this time?

I recently just stopped pushing for more and I have changed my communication pattern. I think before I just really liked him and was moving
to fast for him. I am now taking a step back focusing more on me and trying to give him space to come around and also reflect and work on myself. I just feel like when he wants the time I need to come but when I want the time its not as easy to get him to come.

Well... that's all your choice to -go when called, or -ask him to come... right?
There are no obligations. If you don't want to go/don't. If he's a baby about coming/forget him lol

I think space is good. He sounds like quite the mix. Saggie freedom, cap love for money and hard work. Sag and cap fear of commitment/emotions 😄

Don't fear losing him. I'm not sure what the extent of your relationship is with this man... but if you feel like you're going to lose him if you don't hold on tight - you're going to lose him eventually anyway, because he's not really in it. Holding on tight won't change anything except for maybe speed up the process and make you more invested.

It's easy to lose yourself as a pisces when you like someone, and can't seem to lure their attention the way you like. You go about changing to try and change their mind. You are doing exactly what will change the cycle. Don't forget about you. Never. You've changed back to focusing on you first, and don't ever let that go. That's what will break this, for better or better.