Sex........ Is it in the cards?

Pisces women especially reply.

If you friend zone someone you admit that you are sexually attracted to....is there a chance that you'll hook up with them ever? Not necessarily a FWB situation ...but at least one night of uninhibited passion?

No more like a vacation hookup after a night of drinking and proper/adequate communication with someone you've been friends for a little while.

Pisces mooners need apply?

Posted by LillyPetal
Pisces mooners need apply?

Go for it!

My topics are always inclusive even when I specifically mention a particular gender/sun sign/sexual orientation etc......

All opinions are welcome and equally valued. 🙂

It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Oh and sometimes drinks were involved, but wasn't necessary.... we both knew what we were doing..

Posted by DeeLovesRed
It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Don't you have an Aries moon?

If I remember correctly.

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It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Don't you have an Aries moon?

If I remember correctly.

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Yes

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It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Don't you have an Aries moon?

If I remember correctly.

Yes

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I'm going to take this/interpret this as a positive sign.

This "friend" of mine is a Pisces with an Aries moon.

She texted me around 3am..telling me how soft her sheets were.

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It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Don't you have an Aries moon?

If I remember correctly.

Yes

I'm going to take this/interpret this as a positive sign.

This "friend" of mine is a Pisces with an Aries moon.

She texted me around 3am..telling me how soft her sheets were.

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Ooooo —...

so, it's clear that you guys have a sexual attraction.. what's the hold up? (If you don't mind me asking)

It's in the sheets

Not a Pisces but I have some close Pisces friends and yes. Don't be pushy about it, but a Pisces certainly can friendsone someone they have sexual relations with, or want to have sexual relations with. It's FWB. Don't expect anything further though.

If I text a guy at 3am telling him how soft my sheets were it's the biggest green light I could give. I don't flirt like that with my friendzone guys.

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It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Don't you have an Aries moon?

If I remember correctly.

Yes

I'm going to take this/interpret this as a positive sign.

This "friend" of mine is a Pisces with an Aries moon.

She texted me around 3am..telling me how soft her sheets were.

Ooooo —...

so, it's clear that you guys have a sexual attraction... what's the holdup? (If you don't mind me asking)

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I'm not sure.

It could be many things.

I think I blew my chances the first night when I told her that I had only really been intimate once with one other person and that I still consider myself a virgin.

Mind you I wouldn't have told her that if I knew she was into me at the time which I later found out she was.

We've since hung out and that attraction was still apparently there ..especially when she came down to visit LA but ...at that time she had just started seeing his guy who also lived in LA and told me that she "thought he could be the one".

She tried to make an excuse to stay over at my place but I shot her down.Major turn off.lol

She's since broken up with that guy and I recently visited her or rather surprised her by driving up North to SF for her birthday party she was throwing for herself.I thought maybe something would happen after everyone left ...but

She made me sleep on the couch.

The next morning though...oh god .

Nothing happened......

We just talked for a couple of hours before I headed back to LA

... BUT the whoIe time I couldn't even look at her I wanted her so badly.

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If I text a guy at 3am telling him how soft my sheets were it's the biggest green light I could give. I don't flirt like that with my friendzone guys.

That's what I would think ...but literally about two weeks ago she gave me this whole talk about boundaries and why they are important...

and that she doesn't pretty much want to date me because she wouldn't want to lose me as a friend if things didn't work out.

Even though...again she's physically attracted to me and was from the very beginning.

Opposite Moons. ( Libra-Aries)

Conjunct Mars. ( Cap- Cap)

Conjunct Venus.(Taurus-Taurus)

Venus opposite pluto for both of us....both of our plutos are in Scorpio.

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If I text a guy at 3am telling him how soft my sheets were it's the biggest green light I could give. I don't flirt like that with my friendzone guys.

That's what I would think ...but literally about two weeks ago she gave me this whole talk about boundaries and why they are important...

and that she doesn't pretty much want to date me because she wouldn't want to lose me as a friend if things didn't work out.

Even though...again she's physically attracted to me and was from the very beginning.

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How long have you been friends for?

I am sure sex is not in the cards!

It is somewhere between left and right toes...

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If I text a guy at 3am telling him how soft my sheets were it's the biggest green light I could give. I don't flirt like that with my friendzone guys.

That's what I would think ...but literally about two weeks ago she gave me this whole talk about boundaries and why they are important...

and that she doesn't pretty much want to date me because she wouldn't want to lose me as a friend if things didn't work out.

Even though...again she's physically attracted to me and was from the very beginning.

How long have you been friends for?

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September of last year.

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If I text a guy at 3am telling him how soft my sheets were it's the biggest green light I could give. I don't flirt like that with my friendzone guys.

That's what I would think ...but literally about two weeks ago she gave me this whole talk about boundaries and why they are important...

and that she doesn't pretty much want to date me because she wouldn't want to lose me as a friend if things didn't work out.

Even though...again she's physically attracted to me and was from the very beginning.

How long have you been friends for?

September of last year.

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She'll cave. Without sounding rude but I thought you were going to say years and years. She's trying to convince herself she only wants a friendship but texting you that at 3 am proves otherwise.

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It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Don't you have an Aries moon?

If I remember correctly.

Yes

I'm going to take this/interpret this as a positive sign.

This "friend" of mine is a Pisces with an Aries moon.

She texted me around 3am..telling me how soft her sheets were.

Ooooo —...

so, it's clear that you guys have a sexual attraction... what's the holdup? (If you don't mind me asking)

I'm not sure.

It could be many things.

I think I blew my chances the first night when I told her that I had only really been intimate once with one other person and that I still consider myself a virgin.

Mind you I wouldn't have told her that if I knew she was into me at the time which I later found out she was.

We've since hung out and that attraction was still apparently there ..especially when she came down to visit LA but ...at that time she had just started seeing his guy who also lived in LA and told me that she "thought he could be the one".

She tried to make an excuse to stay over at my place but I shot her down.Major turn off.lol

She's since broken up with that guy and I recently visited her or rather surprised her by driving up North to SF for her birthday party she was throwing for herself.I thought maybe something would happen after everyone left ...but

She made me sleep on the couch.

The next morning though...oh god .

Nothing happened......

We just talked for a couple of hours before I headed back to LA

... BUT the whoIe time I couldn't even look at her I wanted her so badly.

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Wowww... one last question before I moment on the situation. Is she into girls? Have she ever been with a girl? Because you are a female right..

yeah why not!

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It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Don't you have an Aries moon?

If I remember correctly.

Yes

I'm going to take this/interpret this as a positive sign.

This "friend" of mine is a Pisces with an Aries moon.

She texted me around 3am..telling me how soft her sheets were.

Ooooo —...

so, it's clear that you guys have a sexual attraction... what's the holdup? (If you don't mind me asking)

I'm not sure.

It could be many things.

I think I blew my chances the first night when I told her that I had only really been intimate once with one other person and that I still consider myself a virgin.

Mind you I wouldn't have told her that if I knew she was into me at the time which I later found out she was.

We've since hung out and that attraction was still apparently there ..especially when she came down to visit LA but ...at that time she had just started seeing his guy who also lived in LA and told me that she "thought he could be the one".

She tried to make an excuse to stay over at my place but I shot her down.Major turn off.lol

She's since broken up with that guy and I recently visited her or rather surprised her by driving up North to SF for her birthday party she was throwing for herself.I thought maybe something would happen after everyone left ...but

She made me sleep on the couch.

The next morning though...oh god .

Nothing happened......

We just talked for a couple of hours before I headed back to LA

... BUT the whoIe time I couldn't even look at her I wanted her so badly.

Wowww... one last question before I moment on the situation. Is she into girls? Has she ever been with a girl? Because you are a female right..

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Yes I am and yes she is.

We met at a queer women's camp.

She frequently attends queer sex parties aka "play parties" which are very common where she's from.So I'm assuming she's done stuff...she's definitely alluded to doing things in the past.

Now come to think of it...this also probably explains the hesitation on her part. I've only had one sexual encounter with someone (a girl) and honestly, I thought I was asexual afterward. I felt nothing before, during and after. :/

I told her this the first night we hung out which I'm somewhat regretting now.This is a big red flag in the lesbian/queer world. She might think I'm just experimenting or something. Idk

But anyway on a positive note this is honestly the first time in my life that I've actually sexually desired someone..and I'm feeling all of the things you are supposed to feel.

It's awesome. 🙂

Posted by Piscoxo
Probably not.



And as someone previously said, I am not the type to flirt or send alluring messages to a person I put in the friend zone. I know what kind of person I am, and if you lost my interest in the realm of romance, it's gone entirely.

Please elaborate.

So you are saying .....

you wouldn't you have sex with someone you friend zoned?

BUT also you wouldn't be texting them flirty messages at 3am either?

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Posted by Piscoxo
Probably not.



And as someone previously said, I am not the type to flirt or send alluring messages to a person I put in the friend zone. I know what kind of person I am, and if you lost my interest in the realm of romance, it's gone entirely.

Same

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Also isn't there a difference between romance and sex?

I thought that was the very definition of an FWB situation which is pretty much that, that type situation lacks the romantic element that is essential in dating, even though you pretty much do all of the rest of the stuff normal couples do namely hanging out and having sex.

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It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Don't you have an Aries moon?

If I remember correctly.

Yes

I'm going to take this/interpret this as a positive sign.

This "friend" of mine is a Pisces with an Aries moon.

She texted me around 3am..telling me how soft her sheets were.

Ooooo —...

so, it's clear that you guys have a sexual attraction... what's the holdup? (If you don't mind me asking)

I'm not sure.

It could be many things.

I think I blew my chances the first night when I told her that I had only really been intimate once with one other person and that I still consider myself a virgin.

Mind you I wouldn't have told her that if I knew she was into me at the time which I later found out she was.

We've since hung out and that attraction was still apparently there ..especially when she came down to visit LA but ...at that time she had just started seeing his guy who also lived in LA and told me that she "thought he could be the one".

She tried to make an excuse to stay over at my place but I shot her down.Major turn off.lol

She's since broken up with that guy and I recently visited her or rather surprised her by driving up North to SF for her birthday party she was throwing for herself.I thought maybe something would happen after everyone left ...but

She made me sleep on the couch.

The next morning though...oh god .

Nothing happened......

We just talked for a couple of hours before I headed back to LA

... BUT the whoIe time I couldn't even look at her I wanted her so badly.

Wowww... one last question before I moment on the situation. Is she into girls? Has she ever been with a girl? Because you are a female right..

Yes I am and yes she is.

We met at a queer women's camp.

She frequently attends queer sex parties aka "play parties" which are very common where she's from.So I'm assuming she's done stuff...she's definitely alluded to doing things in the past.

Now come to think of it...this also probably explains the hesitation on her part. I've only had one sexual encounter with someone (a girl) and honestly, I thought I was asexual afterward. I felt nothing before, during and after. :/

I told her this the first night we hung out which I'm somewhat regretting now.This is a big red flag in the lesbian/queer world. She might think I'm just experimenting or something. Idk

But anyway on a positive note this is honestly the first time in my life that I've actually sexually desired someone..and I'm feeling all of the things you are supposed to feel.

It's awesome. 🙂

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There you go, that's why she's holding back

"she might think I'm just experimenting"

You are going to have to prove this isn't the case.

Nope, not unless you're talking about rekindling a relationship and even then... it will take awhile if I reconsider a relationship?

Posted by Piscoxo
Probably not.



And as someone previously said, I am not the type to flirt or send alluring messages to a person I put in the friend zone. I know what kind of person I am, and if you lost my interest in the realm of romance, it's gone entirely.

I second this??

To elaborate, I wouldn't sleep with someone I genuinely consider to be a friend. If it's someone I just met, yeah I'd be fine with it. It's just sex.

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It's possible!!

Don't judge me, but I friend-zoned a person once and we ended up being intimate for a year straight. I didn't catch feelings for him and neither did he for me. Before we started hunching, He wanted to leave his girl friend for me, but I had a bf at the time....plus I just didn't like him in that way, so I told him we can be friends, but I wanted to have sex with him.

As of right now, he's my best friend. No one knows we were hunching, and no one will ever find out. But, when we use to hunch...right afterwards we would talk about our problem and stuff (this is what made me keep him as a friend). And I'm the one that stopped the sex. I just felt like we "out grew" the sex —.. idk I'm kinda weird..

Don't you have an Aries moon?

If I remember correctly.

Yes

I'm going to take this/interpret this as a positive sign.

This "friend" of mine is a Pisces with an Aries moon.

She texted me around 3am..telling me how soft her sheets were.

Ooooo —...

so, it's clear that you guys have a sexual attraction... what's the holdup? (If you don't mind me asking)

I'm not sure.

It could be many things.

I think I blew my chances the first night when I told her that I had only really been intimate once with one other person and that I still consider myself a virgin.

Mind you I wouldn't have told her that if I knew she was into me at the time which I later found out she was.

We've since hung out and that attraction was still apparently there ..especially when she came down to visit LA but ...at that time she had just started seeing his guy who also lived in LA and told me that she "thought he could be the one".

She tried to make an excuse to stay over at my place but I shot her down.Major turn off.lol

She's since broken up with that guy and I recently visited her or rather surprised her by driving up North to SF for her birthday party she was throwing for herself.I thought maybe something would happen after everyone left ...but

She made me sleep on the couch.

The next morning though...oh god .

Nothing happened......

We just talked for a couple of hours before I headed back to LA

... BUT the whoIe time I couldn't even look at her I wanted her so badly.

Wowww... one last question before I moment on the situation. Is she into girls? Has she ever been with a girl? Because you are a female right..

Yes I am and yes she is.

We met at a queer women's camp.

She frequently attends queer sex parties aka "play parties" which are very common where she's from.So I'm assuming she's done stuff...she's definitely alluded to doing things in the past.

Now come to think of it...this also probably explains the hesitation on her part. I've only had one sexual encounter with someone (a girl) and honestly, I thought I was asexual afterward. I felt nothing before, during and after. :/

I told her this the first night we hung out which I'm somewhat regretting now.This is a big red flag in the lesbian/queer world. She might think I'm just experimenting or something. Idk

But anyway on a positive note this is honestly the first time in my life that I've actually sexually desired someone..and I'm feeling all of the things you are supposed to feel.

It's awesome. 🙂

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Yea, I can see how that rung as a red flag. Because you mentioned that she could think you're experimenting.. try to show her you aren't. Like when she sends you flirty text, say something naughty back...

And maybe if y'all do have sex, maybe she might take back her decision placing you in the "friend zone"