Taurus man w/ Pisces woman

I've been dating this Taurns guy for about 7 or 8 months now. In the beginnng he was soooo sweet. Calling or texting everyday. Going out for lunch everyday. After about 3 1/2 months of dating we had sex. Me being a Pisces, my feelings shift. I was calling him more. Wanting to spend more time. I cook for him (which is hard, he's so picky. And he doesn't mind telling me if he doesn't like it. But he will eat it anyway). I spend the night when I want( about 4 or 5 times out of the week). But I still didn't feel like the feeling was mutual so I told him. He said that I allow my feelings to get involved and why do I have to be soooo mooshy—— Well to sum everything up, he basically let me know that he isn't looking for a girlfriend but a wife and if so I wouldn't be. At least that's how I took it. The next day he apologized and told me what he said wasn't right. Next night, we were back at it like nothing ever happen. I'm confused. Am I being too sensitive or am I being stupid and wasting my time with guy?

My gf is a Taurus, and we def have our differences when it comes to communication. Its just something both of you need to realize and strive to either work around it, or over come it. Communication makes or breaks relationships, take that as you will.

I concur with Starfish. Both the bull & the fish communicate in different ways but both mean the same thing. The fish will have to rely more on her intuition & watching for his body language/reaction as the bulls can often clam up.

(I was calling him more.) Wanting to spend more time. I cook for him .... I spend the night when I want( about 4 or 5 times out of the week ). ....

There's your answer. Stop spending so much time with him. No one likes to be suffocated. And as a man, he's probably like to do some of the chasing too 🙂 Cut down to meeting him about 3 times a week then slowly to only twice a week. The cooking part is very clever, though. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. And bull guys love eating.

He said that I allow my feelings to get involved and why do I have to be soooo mooshy——

What he means by "sooo mooshy" is that you're not giving him enough space.

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I'm a Pisces and my mans a taurus we dated seven years what u need to do is do NOT call him so much let him call u cuz every guy not just by their signs like to do the chasing trust me on this. chill a little go do something else and not with him when he calls do not answer let it go to voicemail it will make him think an visit u don't pickup the phone after a couple of days either do not even hang out with him if u do wait a few days then act as friends it wil make him change his feelings and run after u more and want u more. Trust me I did it an it works. If you keeep smothering him he will leave you.

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please advise on my taurus boy.....


i am a pisces/pisces and my boyfriend a taurus/libra.. well, ex now. we were together 6 months officially, 5 months unofficially before that.

we recently broke up because i went to his house last saturday night after being ditched by my friends (woo, we were supposed to go to a show). he and his friends tony and kayte had been drinking since 1 that day (not a usual thing for hiim).. i pick him up from the bar (right by his house) and go back to his place.

hes pretty wasted and tells me he didnt really want me over in the first place (after i remarked on how drunk he was.. right, im pathetic i obviously knew this before and was bitching for the fun of it). i was asking for it.

the other two come back, friends he grew up with and this girl.. most popular in her super small town school, big ego, hot blonde. she kneels in front of us and looks at me and says ".. (taurus) told me you two broke up two days ago" i look at him and he cant look at me, hes turning red in the face. she continues "yeah hes been talking about it all night, saying how sad hes been seeing you at work" blah blah blah.

obviously im pissed and get that crazy pisces anger in my eyes. he cant speak but finally spits out lets go upstairs and talk.

anyways, we talk and he tells me ive been draining him and that i take him for granted. and its true, i can be quite draining when i am unhappy. he basically said if i wasnt ready for such a serious relationship we shouldnt take it any further. i said i wasnt ready. he was hurt and i know he could have let me go.. but then the seduction of our relationship became fun for me again.. and i continued to hold on (i know i know i know.... but i dont listen, even to myself)

i just wonder...
when i get into a relationship, after about 4 months i start to get a little weird. touch starts to uncomfortably tickle.. so i dont want to be touched, i mean, my skin.. like romantically, most of the time. i act irritable, snappy, grouchy... the list goes on. i mean i still have my sweet side.. but its like this other horrible side comes out that i dont show friends or strangers.

i want to know if anyone has anything to say about this.

The things i could put the blame on him with my unhappiness of our relationship is the communication for sure. like others have been saying on this topic. also, i feel like a much deeper person.. like he will never ever understand what is going on inside of me, straight

faced, straight laced kinda boy. we have such a fun time together.. he makes me laugh like crazy.. and we have an aammazing "sex-life" .. so sensual, passionate, releasing. yadda yadda.

He suggested i am trying to control every situation by this sulky attitude i get.

At this point we arent together but i did spend a lot of my weekend with him... i was confused on whether or not i wanted to heal things between us.. because i do really like him and we have so much fricken fun together. i just feel so misunderstood. gawd and probably because i am so all over the place... i might as well be answering my own post?

now he seems to be ignoring me. i flirted with my ex boyfriend (pisces, 1.5 years together 1.5 year long breakup) on saturday at a big party and pretty much probably ruined any chances of getting back with the taurus.. that is if i decide i want to.

how absolutly selfish am i being?

well.. thanks for your thoughts.

could my being so terrified of change in love have anything to do with my venus in taurus? seeing as it took me 1 1/2 years of on/off with the pisces.. and now this unwillingness to let the taurus go for both our good?



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No offense, but with being treated like that, I would have only stuck around so long myself. I understand ppl have their issues and I normally try to help, but Im also not going to subject myself to treatment like that..

To further explain what I was saying regards to Cat_Faces. Can you really expect him to know how deep it is you flow, with you treating him in such a way? How can he get close to you, when simply touching you is a no-no. I would say you are being very selfish and need to stay out relationships for awhile until you figure somethings out about yourself. Im sure you are a wonderful person and have much to offer, just learn to let go of some of those things you mentioned and maybe things will be ok.

Thank you, i absolutely agree with you.. its what i have to do.. its just so hard because i love his company and im not sure he will want to continue a friendship.. bah. 😢 but even so its probably for the best.

this girl.. most popular in her super small town school, big ego, hot blonde. she kneels in front of us and looks at me and says ".. (taurus) told me you two broke up two days ago"

What a creep. She did that deliberately.

Yeah it was super creepy haha but im glad she said something. That girl would be worth some college psychology class study.

To Cat Faces: I have sort of had that feeling of being into someone and then being standoffish physically and not wanting to be touched. My ex husband would always call me a touch-me-not, because everything he did would be uncomfortable. but it wasn't like that in the beginning. Mine took a long while to progress to that, not just 4 months, but I think it's because I wasn't really feeling that loving feeling anymore. I started to resent him more than anything. I don't know that that is what you are going through, but I think you have to be totally attracted and feeling someone or you don't really want to be touched by them.

The sulky attitude I think is part of being a Pisces. I am usually in a good mood all the time, but when I get down, I get really down and everyone knows about it. I think we like to pity party ourselves, which keeps us down even longer than normal. I know for me, it takes me at least a day to get over stuff and then usually I am good.

As far as flirting with the ex...I'm sure you tried it because he was basically ignoring you and you want his attention, but that is absolutely not the way to do it. Communication would be the best solution for you. It seems like you guys do not communicate, as the girl said he told her you were broken up 2 DAYS AGO. And then you hung out for a weekend but then was ignored by him. I think you and he both like the fun times you have, but life is hard and isn't all fun and games and it doesn't seem like either of you really want to deal with life, you just want to have fun. So, maybe you need to just have fun together for now and see if something stronger forms in the future.