TO TUFFIE

Thank you, seriously, seriously for your advice, it was exactly right on, we talked on the phone and she was mad because she thought I didn't care anymore so your advice about needing to make a Pisces feel like she is needed and cared for was exactly what I needed to know, so your advice is invaluable.

I want to respond to your Virgo questions but I need you to be clearer cause I'm not sure what exactly you're asking ? Do you mean all Virgos or the piece of crap Virgo ? I want to help.

I'm so glad things worked out for you. Truly I am. Just remember...all Pisces love attention...not constant, but some acknowledgement. They need to feel as though they are included in whatever you do...not excluded, otherwise, they will feel isolated and left out; therefore creating unwanted tension. And you'll end up thinking you did something when you probably didn't.

Well, I want to know how to keep the piece of crap Virgo out of my life. Since I don't really feel that this is worth any more of my time or effort, there is no need to continue with a so-called friendship.

He would target my sons and act like he wanted to be their friend by playing video games with them all night. My kids didnt feel threatened by him, but I sort of felt odd because he would pay more attention to them than me. He acted childish one minute then an adult the next...which always caused confusion for me. He would tell me to think of a cute but still masculine nickname to call him instead of calling him by his name. It took a lot of tries on that one before he finally accepted one, but even though I KNOW he liked it, he wouldn't admit it. The only way I knew he liked it, was when I kept calling him by that name. Hidden stubborn trait?

Like I said before, I have been very distant to him, not accepting any phone calls, or visits, but he still has his family calling my kids practically everyday trying to get them to come over to his house. Why? If you know that somebody doesn't want to be bothered, why continue to haunt them? Is this a hidden "stalker" characteristic of any Virgo?

i don't know about virgo. bt on that stalker tenendessay i would have to say i followed around my crush and try to force at times to meet. When i'm at my grandma's i'll walk in the neigbhoord I won't stop and stare. OR call cause we never talked before this anyway.

James, that justs sounds like a major crush or infatuation. Sometimes you can be driven to that just because you want to see the person every now and then. Are you seeing her?

i could only hope. it's all in my dreams that's the only meeting place. well i did get to say hello once. she drove into her driveway and waited until i was near to get out. that was it. a simple hi and wave. one time i was walking and she hid her face from me all of a sudden, yeah 'bmarased? i think so. oh well.