What are the signs that a Pisces man is inlove?

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saggirlius
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Im a Scorp with a Pisces bf, we've been seeing each other for almost 10 months now. We have great chemistry and sex is awesome.But we always argue about his ex gf. I dont know but I kinda feel that he's still inlove with her. Even he said over and over that he really didn't want to get back with her. Maybe I feel this way because he has never said " i love you " to me ever. He could be one of those guys who believes that action speaks louder than voice. So what are the signs to know that he loves me? And can someone tell me if we are a good match! Thank you!!!

His chart
Sun Pisces 15.55
Moon Scorpio 4.19
Mercury Pisces 15.43 R
Venus Aries 29.30
Mars Virgo 1.53 R
Jupiter Virgo 3.55 R
Saturn Virgo 24.15 R
Uranus Scorpio 25.33 R
Neptune Sagittarius 22.36
Pluto Libra 21.19 R
Lilith Virgo 26.46
Asc node Leo 29.14

My chart
Sun Scorpio 29.14 scorp-sag cusp
Moon Aries 14.00
Mercury Sagittarius 17.30
Venus Scorpio 14.26
Mars Leo 8.51
Jupiter Cancer 4.50 R
Saturn Virgo 0.11
Uranus Scorpio 13.10
Neptune Sagittarius 15.16
Pluto Libra 15.46
Lilith Gemini 23.41
Asc node Libra 14.12
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Nefer
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16 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

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Mmm just a quick one, something for you to think about.

You do not trust him, Ms. Scorpio, and I realize that's also your nature. You do not trust his motives or his intentions, despite being together for nearly a year. He's done nothing to make you not trust him, and that's key with a Pisces. We aren't generally cheaters or liars or game players. We EXPECT your trust, especially after so long, and if we have done nothing wrong to have it taken away. Without your trust, it is extremely difficult for us to love, but even MORE difficult for us to SAY we love you, and risk being left that open and vulnerable... with someone who does not TRUST us. He has said over and over that he does not want this girl. He CHOSE you, and continues to choose you. His words and actions back his claim that he doesn't want her... it's all in your (Scorpio) MIND that he's still so in love with her, and it makes you insecure and distrustful. YOU are preventing him from saying he loves you, and YOU are keeping him at arm's length because you're secretly afraid he's going to leave you for his ex. YOU are sabotaging your relationship with him, and frankly, I'm surprised he's sticking it out this long - he must really care about you.

But I'll let you know something: I don't know his history with the ex, if they were together a long time, married, kids, deeply in love, whatever. But if he loved her, really loved her - then he always will. That's Pisces love. We CANNOT just flip it off like a switch, *poof*! We can swim away, yes. We can stop reacting to that love, yes. We can walk strong and proud like we never hurt or cared at all when the end came. But we love many, in many different shades and ways, and we love forever. So. If you cannot deal with the concept that a Pisces loves FOREVER, even if they never want that person back, even if they find love again with someone else, even if they are ecstatically happy and content in their relationship now... then you cannot deal with the REST of the mess that is dealing with us crazy Pisces.

Hmmm. Scorp and Sag both, when the relationship ends, they ruthlessly cut the other out and deny it was ever love in the first place. They're so good at this, they can convince themselves of it rather easily. A Pisces though - if it was ever love to us, it won't be "changed" into something else in the future, it will always be that we loved them. Maybe "stupid" love or "foolish" love or "blind" love... but still love.

This does not bode wel
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Nefer
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16 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

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Eeeps, I just read your thread from this past March, when you and he had been dating only 2 months. I assume your relationship now is exclusive and committed by this point?

Girlfriend, you have been carrying around this... insecurity about this ex of his for EIGHT months now. That has GOT to be affecting this guy - you don't TRUST him, and he NEEDS your trust! I read through the list of txt messages from whats-her-face (I must point out something here: Pisces are naturally secretive and like to keep private things very private. However, romantic partners are sometimes allowed more liberties in this area. Lucky for you he's a Pisces - most guys would FLIP OUT over you getting into his phone, you know that, right? This means he felt he had nothing to hide!)... and honestly, it seemed like they were ex's who were still friendly/friends, still talk.. clearly he told her about you, possibly a bit of jealousy from her (like pointing out that THEY once went to that restaurant, etc).. she had a new bf, he had a new gf (YOU).. he TOLD you he still cares for her and wishes her the best, and is just friends with her... TOLD you he didn't want her back and that you have nothing to worry about... BUT YOU WON'T LISTEN! You didn't listen then, and you're clearly STILL not listening to what he's showing and telling you!

Has anything changed since then? Is he sneaking around, coming home late, strange lipstick on his collar, all that trite bullshit? I honestly think not. I think it's all in your Scorpio mind, and you are having trouble letting it go! This guy MUST love you - I wouldn't stay for nearly a year with someone who didn't trust me, who doesn't believe in me... and I sure as hell wouldn't be handing them my tender heart for them to ALSO not trust and believe in, by saying that I loved them. Uh uh, no way. Even if I DO love them, I sure wouldn't open myself up like that, not until they could trust me and trust my love.