My first Pisces man

I am in a new (3 month) relationship with a Pisces man and he is dreamy! Ive been lurking and reading like crazy on this board so that I can try to wrap my mind around him...so different than any other guy Ive dated. I must say that Im fascinated by the similarities in so many Pisces men although I realize that every person is different when it comes to the little details.

Being a Gemini of course I want to know how to go about keeping this relationship fun, sexy and long term! I realize it may be a little more work for me since I am a Gemini...we have incredible attraction but its not a promising long term thing according to what Ive read?

Can some of you experienced folks give me a little insight to our charts and how they may work together? Thanks for any help...I truly dig this pisces!!

HIM ME
Sun Pisces Gemini
Moon Taurus Leo
Venus Aries Aries
Asc unkn Leo
Mars Taurus Sag
Jupiter Cap Virgo
Saturn Taurus Taurus
Uranus Libra Virgo
Neptune Sag Scorpio
Pluto Libra Virgo
Lilith Libra Cancer
Asc Node Aqua Pisces

If you want this to have a chance ... the first thing you have to purge is the thought of making it a long-lasting relationship.


To make a relationship with a Pisces is what will be its demise, because the energy of making it will be in place for the Fish to pick up on and as soon as s/he does sense this vibration, the Fish swims as fast as it can away.


It has to flow out naturally ..... two people coming together with no expectations in mind to subconsciously drive the relationship in a particular direction.

"I want to know how to go about keeping this relationship fun, sexy and long term"


You can't keep it anything, you can't approach this relationship with (((ways))) in mind to want this relatinship to lead to .... or, it's doomed before it ever starts.


I has to just be ... in its raw form, without any expectations.

Aaahhhh...I see! So thats why its been working so well up to this point...I havent been having any expectations and have kept it light and fun. He has been doing the swim in / swim away dance with me a few times and Ive been very patient (extraordinarily for me as a Gemini)in giving him his space as I know how important that is.

I will keep this in mind and continue on with no pressure or expectations towards him...except I do have expectations or hopes rather...secretly in my heart. I hope he doesnt intuitively feel it and swim away...

He did swim away at one point saying he wasnt ready for a relationship...so I said I understood and didnt contact him again but after 3 days he called me saying he wanted to see me again and since then its been really sweet and nice. There has been the occasional day with little contact but we usually speak at least once or twice a day and see each other a few times a week so all is well so far!

The more you dwell on how to make it fun, the more fun you'll be missing out on. Go with the flow.

"He did swim away at one point saying he wasnt ready for a relationship...so I said I understood and didnt contact him again but after 3 days he called me saying he wanted to see me again and since then its been really sweet and nice. "

Don't confuse this with him changing his mind. Keep your hopes alive, but don't over analyze his actions.

have fun!

Thx Houstonpeach! This awesome Pisces board is the only reason I was able to give him his space when he did that. I was secretly heartbroken and freaked out when he told me as I didnt want it to end so soon but everything I read here said that if a pisces truly likes you he will come back so I just kept telling myself "he will come back if its meant to be...just give him his space and let him think about it and miss me!" and it worked! Whew!

You know I constantly over-analyze every thing he says or doesnt say and have to really struggle not to let it get to me! The minute I sense him swimming away I get all insecure and weirded out...it definitely takes alot of self talk and patience to get used to the pisces mans ways....

@girlygem

if until now you have spended 3 months and you are fine .. then you will be ok. It is impossible to lose the sexyness or the passion. You are too different to get bored of each other and as far I see you are too similar to be ok together.

There is another member here (I dont know if he still has his accoung) called Hizaki and his gf is a gem. He had said pretty good things about this combo 😉.

I had my best quality relationships with pisces and my best 3 male friends are all pisces. They are the best!..

All the best luck and wishes fellow Gem!

Keep the relationship light and airy, then take it one day at a time.