What makes us so approachable?

Ive noticed that alot of us are known for being one of the most approachable people especially with one pisces that I know.

People love to small talk with or socialize with them when they aren't nice people deep down so I don't get why they are approached most often when other pisces that I know like myself and another freind. We are truly good people but not sought out most often. Give you an example:

Pisces #1: Down to earth, humble, intelligent, inquisitive, social but also has great work ethic, studious, politically correct etc. They are approached occasionally and is liked by most people that know them but is always has limited interactions from the beginning.

Pisces #2: Super outgoing, impressionable, inquisitive but they are also clingy, nosy, easily offended/sensitive, high standards, high expectations but is liked by everyone unless they take the time to get to know them then people start to realize how she is and eventually try limit interactions.


I have known both for a couple of years. I like pisces #1 due to the fact that even though she may always not be approachable I know dip down she doesn't behave as if everything is about her and she doesn't care an ego.

With Pisces #2 in the beginning i thought she was a great/fun person to be around but as I got to know her she became annoying, frustrating and I started noticing everything she did was about getting attention or all about her wants/needs and nosy.

But yet people are ALWAYS drawn to pisces #2 especially in the beginning and some do eventually learn to distances themselves from her but alot of times they don't learn to for months to years and eventually regret knowing her. I'd say within a year 75% of people stop associating themselves with her but I just don't get what they are drawn to in the beginning and why do they stick around for a long time.

Someone explain this to me I don't get it.

They were drown to #Pisces2 because she seemed outgoing & extra friendly. But as they got to know her, they got tired of her selfish & vindictive ways. She used her outgoing/friendly nature to hide who she really was. Pisces#1 may seem a lil closed off at first, but can be really kool if you have patience. I haven't meet many Pisces women, & it's weird because im a water sign too lol

It's very appealing for people to project their wishes and fantasies on Pisceans. Very common too.

Alot of us that know pisces #2 really dislike her now becuase all she does is talk about herself and her personal business to every single person around one right after another and always talks as if she's tryinig too hard...its also been annoying that she's always laughing all the time (not that its a bad thing in general) but her laughing is often too loud too constant and really annoying.

No one surprisingly has had the balls to say something about it but it is annoying if i'm talking to a friend of mine and there she pops up wanting attention and people give it to her.

Sounds like you or whoever with her, needs to tell her about herself. It might be time to cut her off from you

@tavrine most people do eventually but it usually takes 1-2 years. I just don't get it. People don't like her because their jealous, that's not even it. Its the fact that she gets so many compliments and attention and she doesn't deserve it. She may be inquisitive and interested and how life is going with you but then that's when the clinginess and nosiness develops and that's when her high expectations and standards kick in to the point where you are walking on eggshells around her.

If that's not going on then you're constantly annoyed by her loud laughing (she thinks anythinig anyone says is funny), she talks about herself all the time and she interrupts conversations youre in, and she always makes things about herself even when you are talking about some other topic entirely. She's not really that helpful and/or generous but yet expects everyone to help her with whatever thing she needs.

She's 26 and her mommy and daddy still pay for everything and she's snobby and god forbid she has to live in a low income neighborhood.

Sorry I'm just ranting but she's been far too lucky for being a dirtbag.

Posted by jengoesboom
@tavrine most people do eventually but it usually takes 1-2 years. I just don't get it. People don't like her because their jealous, that's not even it. Its the fact that she gets so many compliments and attention and she doesn't deserve it. She may be inquisitive and interested and how life is going with you but then that's when the clinginess and nosiness develops and that's when her high expectations and standards kick in to the point where you are walking on eggshells around her.

If that's not going on then you're constantly annoyed by her loud laughing (she thinks anythinig anyone says is funny), she talks about herself all the time and she interrupts conversations youre in, and she always makes things about herself even when you are talking about some other topic entirely. She's not really that helpful and/or generous but yet expects everyone to help her with whatever thing she needs.

She's 26 and her mommy and daddy still pay for everything and she's snobby and god forbid she has to live in a low income neighborhood.

Sorry I'm just ranting but she's been far too lucky for being a dirtbag.

jealous woman cattiness

you don't have a high opinion of her... that's fine you don't have to like her. What makes your rant jealous and catty... is the fact that you don't think others should like her either. You don't think she deserves what she has and would probably be happy if something negative happened to her (like losing friends, falling on hard times etc.)

This is jealousy, whether you think so or not.

Don't worry about her, what she has and what people think of her. It's not your business. Do for yourself and don't waste your energy on envy.

@shell

From my end its not jealousy. I guess I'm at the point where I'm far beyond annoyed by her that anything she does that's even remotely geunine which I don't see coming from her often is overlooked because she pisses people off more than she doesn't.

I'm not tryinig to convince others of anything. I don't see her around that often but my other friends do and that's one of the first few things I hear about especially the ones that are around her the most they tell me about the things she says and the judgemental coments she makes such as:

i.e. women in the military deserve to get raped, she would never want to live in low income neighborhood because that's where bad people live, she would never be caught did in anything that's not a high end brand name apparel

What people inclduing myself find unappealing is her "snobby" attitude and how its spent always trying to get compliments. It pissed everyone off the only people I see that talk to her or even rarely hang out with her are the people I know and most of them don't talk to her much by now.

We often find ourselves wondering why can't she just be a normal genuine person that has hobbies, talents is kind genuine and caring instead of making it a "ME" train.

take care of your looks

I find this thread absolutely hilarious ... considering you've made several post in here which describes you as being a Pisces #2 type.

I'm actually more like #1. It takes alot for me to be annoyed by someone and now I'm at the stage where pisces #2 has done alot to know me and others to the point where her presence alone kills the mood.

Everyone else won't say anything to her so they just allow themselves to be annoyed without no solutions but I've decided to just ignore her as much as possible or leave the room.

It works half the time unfortunately

Actually, your view of yourself is askewed due to your ego not wanting you to be other than what you want ... but, according to the threads you've made in dxp where you desperately cling to the feelings for an Aqua man who couldn't care a less .... you have the attributes of the Pisces #2

So, the reality is .... you don't like the person you are, and you are clueless to how you are perceived, and falsely believe you are Pisces #1.

Which of course you would be since you have an inflated ego ... because according to you, you think Pisces #1 are pretty amazing, so no wonder you would put yourself in that category.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Hmm. Are Pisces approachable? I find they take time to get them to warm up. Probably all that probing your intentions thing. Silliness and honesty usually works. But it takes time I think.

The face might seem approachable but to really get to know Pisces on a certain level? Not so much.

My opinion.

It's probably because we're naturally inquisitive people? People see that as a good thing...the wanting to know about others.

The internal intentions we each have as far as why we want to know about people beyond inquisitiveness is different i guess from person to person.

Posted by P-Angel

Actually, your view of yourself is askewed due to your ego not wanting you to be other than what you want ... but, according to the threads you've made in dxp where you desperately cling to the feelings for an Aqua man who couldn't care a less .... you have the attributes of the Pisces #2

So, the reality is .... you don't like the person you are, and you are clueless to how you are perceived, and falsely believe you are Pisces #1.

Which of course you would be since you have an inflated ego ... because according to you, you think Pisces #1 are pretty amazing, so no wonder you would put yourself in that category.

So easy to label people you don't know, huh? 🙂

Anger issues much?

Looks like I struck a nerve .... that only happens to guilty people in denial because they can't handle the truth about themselves.

You came in here to talk trash about someone .... but, you can't handle it when it comes back to you. You can't take what you dish out, and that's because you think more of yourself than you are.

Again ... according to the threads you've made in dxp ... you're Pisces #2.

so, you are that person you don't like

Sooo essentially you're saying Pisces can only be one of those two types...hmm that's very limiting and very off base.