Why aquarius?

why do i butt heads so bad with all my aqauarian friends. i mean i keep aquarian friends for a long time probably the longest but we always have very heated arguments... especially when i drink with them they all gang up on me.

yeah i can totally see why he's your ex. i dont think i could deal with an air sign as a boyfriend

oh yeah my dad is born right on the cusp (feb. 19) of pisces and aquarius and its really hard to figure him out i recognise some pisces in him but a lot of aquarius as well. not hard to get along with though we dont fight unless he wants to control a certain aspect of my life.

but my post is abut a certain few who get together and gang up on me but ive known em for a lot of years, they're like family so im used to their bashing i just ignore it now but it still annoys me. they are know it alls, they like to pick fights and i just walk away from them when they start in on me now. ones a complete chauvinistic prick who thinks that women are lower than him.

I get on great with Aqua women never had any trouble with them at all, I have a lot of air in my chart though so that may be it. The men on the other hand, not so much.

Yeah one of my best mates is an Aqua and is TONS of fun. She's by far the most popular person I know, but it's not for the sake of being popular that she talks to people, she's just genuinely friendly and interested in people. So yeah it works on a friendship level.

I went through hell with my Aqua ex though, total douchebag.

Yeah, best friend list: two Libras, one Aquarian. Emotionless? Au contraire! She does carry her emotions very deep, though, and presents an almost unflappable exterior to the world, which makes her an incredibly reliable friend and a very good judge of character -- she can sort of "sit back" and observe someone in a way that I can't. But wow -- the one time I really, really stupidly got under her skin and hurt her... Oh man. I'd rather have kicked a dozen puppies. Repeatedly.

They do have the huge advantage over Pisces, though, of being able to keep their emotional shields in place through a LOT. In my slow investigation (prompted by a wicked crush :p) of the Pisces personality, one thing I definitely have learned is not only do they seem to be constantly awash in a sea of changing moods and impressions, but that they pick up and reflect everybody else's, too. I've learned that being calm, even cavalier around him is a good thing. Maybe even a kindness.

That is one cute little kitten in your avatar btw.

How much? Seriously.







😛

MissP, she *is* precious, isn't she? She was a stray, one of the three since I moved here who've insisted I take them in and love them and feed them and otherwise be at their every beck and call. Only one kitten though, luckily! How could I have said no to that face? Her name's Siam -- short for "Yes I am", actually, which is her answer to everything:

"Are you hungry?"
"Yes I am!"
"Are you adorable?"
"Yes I am!"
"Are you the cutest kitten ever?"
"Yes I am!"

LOL! She was about 5 weeks when I found her, way too little to be out on her own. She's doubled in size in the last three weeks, but she's still a doll.

LOL! The same thing could be said of me in some ways, KP. I haven't been above jumping in bed with a guy who fascinates me after very short acquaintance -- the hard part with me is keeping me interested enough to want to come back for seconds. Which means, yes, in my earlier days I could probably have been considered a ho :-) (more like impulsive an friendly, but hey. I'll cop to the behavior and let others judge it.)

With my friend Melanie, at least, what that shield means is she's really good at setting her own emotions aside and being there for someone else, despite whatever might be going on in her own heart and life. Have I known some Aquarians who weren't anything like mature and incredibly emotionally shallow? Hell, yeah. But I know of at least one Aquarius where that surface stillness covers a very warm, generous heart and a ton of caring. (Hey, she's my friend, I'll defend her to the death; doesn't mean there aren't plenty of assholes who share her sign, though!)

I'd rather hear the lovers' perspective from a Pisces point of view 😉 I'm still trying to figure that one out! But at heart, once he really gets to know me, it simply boils down to either I'm someone he wants to be with or not. If not, that's no reflection on my qualities or character; it simply means I'm not the right one for him -- and who can better be the judge of that than him? :-)

KP, that was wonderful! Thanks for posting that 🙂 Great music, great kitties. Ironically, I've always been primarily a dog person but this time around, the cats needed me more 🙂

Don't get me wrong, I like my space and independence and sometimes I can come off a bit cold shouldered (I have a Cap moon for a reason and thus Cancer gals suffer with me) but there is a whole difference from having your own space and making your BF/GF look like one of your friends...With benefits.

Yeah. BIG difference. That just struck a chord with me, although it's hard to find words to describe my reaction right now -- 'nother bout of errands to run in a minute, here. And it took me a long time, I have to admit, to figure out that for guys, that whole "easy into bed=don't have to respect her" thing ISN'T some hogwash made up about men. They really DO act that way. Not all of 'em, but a lot. Which always bugged the hell out of me, and eventually put me in the position of having to say no to guys I would really rather have slept with, to avoid that reaction :eyeroll:

Oh, and I should probably mention... I'm a Gemini 😉

NOOOOOOOO! Must.... resist.... adorable.... puppies....

LOL! Besides, I think my trio of feline miscreants'd kill me if I got a dog. Of course, if one wanders up to me in the parking lot, homeless and hungry, I'm probably a goner.

I think you and your brother probably shared a lot of characteristics she really prized. That said, um....

I have to admit, KP, being 46 helps a LOT. At 25 I was a royal mess. Not entirely from when I was born -- I suspect the family I was born into had a lot to do with it, too. But much as I miss the elasticity of youth, I wouldn't go back for anything in this world.

And absolutely no offense was taken -- there was just no way I could leave a set-up like that alone 😉

Well dang. I was trying to put the most charitable reading on it I could. But yeah -- going back and forth between brothers? Not cool, in my book.

One gets harder to offend as one gets older, I've found -- you've lived with yourself and your own shortcomings a lot longer, so it gets harder and harder to get on that high horse. Of course, arthritic knees don't help, either 😉

Have a good night, KP! Cya soon.

Posted by impromptu
MissP, she *is* precious, isn't she? She was a stray, one of the three since I moved here who've insisted I take them in and love them and feed them and otherwise be at their every beck and call. Only one kitten though, luckily! How could I have said no to that face? Her name's Siam -- short for "Yes I am", actually, which is her answer to everything:

"Are you hungry?"
"Yes I am!"
"Are you adorable?"
"Yes I am!"
"Are you the cutest kitten ever?"
"Yes I am!"

LOL! She was about 5 weeks when I found her, way too little to be out on her own. She's doubled in size in the last three weeks, but she's still a doll.

My kitty was a stray too, she's 15 months now and black as the night with big yellow eyes. 🙂

Siam is such a pretty name too. She is cute as a button. 🙂

Posted by impromptu
But wow -- the one time I really, really stupidly got under her skin and hurt her... Oh man. I'd rather have kicked a dozen puppies. Repeatedly.

I busted out laughing at this.

my aqua mate is one of my best friends, he can be very stubborn though, frustrating to deal with. he also isn't very reliable, yet he still manages to be one of the best friends i've had 😛

Leave aquas alone!!!

Okay that "youtube-guy-bitching out-over-Britney" is played the fugg out - cha-cha, cha-cha!

The Pisces dudes I've known have been wet gushing puzzays.

Majority of them have had that obnoxious Shia Lebouf I'm-trying-to-act-macho-but-failing vibe about them.

No identity whatsoever. Actually a lot of guys under signs that aren't aquarius TRY so hard to be, well, guys.

They don't understand how good it feels to be able to think like a man AND a woman, instead going for the bone-head thing.

You know, the "I have to get married so my wife can cook for me" mentality?

A man that isn't independent? Gay...

Anyway, the pisces ones come off as Shia Leboufs. Puny Chihuahuas trying to act tough.

Now, the one Pisces chick I knew attracted nasty scorpios like shit for flies. She was genuinely cool. Down-to-earth chicca.

Posted by KingPisces
Aquarians are as emotionals as cinder blocks can get....

I don't believe that... I think they're actually scared of their emotions because it makes them feel weak and powerless. That's not a knock on Aquarians though. Sometimes I wish I didn't have to "feel" every damn thing I come into contact with because it can get so distracting. But I have noticed it gets easier to deal with as I get older.

Posted by KingPisces
Aquarians are as emotionals as cinder blocks can get....

And just because YOU say it means that is true? Generalizing much?

Meh, let's have a look at the Pisces...

Most Pisces males are a bunch a closeted f^gs and really deserve to have their heart broken. Perfect for one night stands and most of them are a lousy shag anyway. And though they say Pisces have tons of emotions, they never show them at the required time. They hide what they feel so well, especially when they want to see how far an object of interest will go to prove their feeling for them.

Most are so wishy washy, indecisive and do that disappearing act that can drive a woman to suicide. Inconsistent to the bone, bunch of manipulator twats, insecure yet pretend they are so strong emotionally when in reality, they aren't; possessive, and, oh la la, let's not forget that needy, clingy nature almost stalkish and psycho behaviour most of them show. Oh ya, PLAYAS!!!

Interested in a Pisces? Don't risk it if you want to die of 'emotional drainage'. Just make sure you play with them, just like a cat does with a mouse... tease them, lure them, tell them what they want to hear and once you get their heart, squeeze it till it dries and then chuck it like a spoilt nappy. There.

Female Pisces,yes, they still bear some of the males traits but yum yum... so flirty, so sexy and so angelic, I always feel I need to protect them, reassure them, make them feel better about themselves. We get on so well. however, if we had arguments, if they provoke me, and think they can read me, I'd always make sure to go under their skin until they crack. I always win.