for some reason, women with a lot of water in their charts rub me the wrong way...nothing bad, really, just very uncomfortable...
its like they are trying to probe my thoughts and my emotions all the time..
its very unsettling for people who value their privacy like myself...
i just don't like the feeling that my mind is being remotely probed by some kind of human brain scanning device....
pisces women have this ability to the 1000th degree, more so than cancer and scorpio i find..
and i have never found myself attraced to pisces on anything more than a superficial level...
when a girl tells me she is a cancer, i run...if she tells me she is a scorpio, i stay around just long enough to get my fix of mind blowing sex, and if she tells me she is a pisces, well...let's just say, it usually doesn't get that far...
if you like privacy, stay away from water signs, especially pisces...
pisces women are some of the most emotionally needy women i have ever met and have the tendency to turn out to be real emotional vampires....like they want to commingle their emotions with their spouses like some kind of joint bank account...
if you like emotional distance and space, stay away from these women...
if you want a woman who you can dominate and one who will be submissive, get a woman with a lot of water in her chart...
if you want total submission in a woman, get a pisces girl....
stating bluntly like you did in the pisces board isn't a nice thing to do, nobody likes a complete stranger to reduce them to two nasty paragraphs ar tell them they are not attractive, althought I am sure nobody gives a toss about your friday night ramblings ... get a hooker or have some honey, i hear it soothes the bitterness
in general water signs are moved by emotions, they are emotional and therefore can relate to others on that level, it's one of their gifts, to make others in touch with their emotions too .. like a great artist, when you listen to their songs you go like "man! that's exactly how i am feeling"
in this highly materialistic and fast paced world we are forced to disentangle ourselves from emotions in order to get things done, but we all crave a moment of inner reflection and what's more joyful than someone who can tap into your inner human without any judgement.
I find that whenever I interact with water signs I get more inspiration and perspective, be it my cancer mother, my scorp best friend or my pisces girl.
since i met my girl i was introduced to a world of magic, i stared at beautiful eyes before but never felt the bliss I felt when I stared into hers, i enjoyed walks in the park before but never felt the same funny feeling inside me when we were walking together, that feeling that force you to break a smile-to-self
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usually the interaction you have with water signs is a reflection of who you are somehow, you say you had a superficial one with pisces ... that might be an indication that you were superficial on some level.
pisces will sense your intentions and play along while laughing their ass off at your foolishness, what you preceive as submission is absorbing your swing then using it against you when you are most volunerable or they will just part away laughing at the nature of humans
but if you take the time to know them deeply you see eyes open wide with joy, you see open mouth smiles and an amazing spirit that makes you admire them more and more
water signs are very deep and complicated and amazing ... but you have to take the effort to look deeper and have the open mindness to take it in, then you find that you sumbled across a sea bed full of shiny perls and can't help but stare in awe
"if you like emotional distance and space, stay away from these women..."
I actually understand this statement, seeing that it came from an Aquarius. It's the nature of the Aqua beast to hold tightly to their emotions and remain distant, aloof as it's described. Seeing that water people are emotionally-based, I can see how this would feel disrupting to a man who wants to keep his emotions guarded.
As much as it makes him uncomfortable with this kind of emotional needing person .... it is equally uncomfortable for emotional people to be around a person that is percieved cold.
"if you want a woman who you can dominate and one who will be submissive, get a woman with a lot of water in her chart..."
By that ^^ quote above, it is concluded that he hasn't experience with a Piscean female, for we are far from submissive, and refuse to be dominated for it resembles "control" too much .... and any person who has actual experience with us KNOWS we won't be told what to do, and will defy anything or anybody to keep our individuality.
So, I'm thinking that this man is just having a problem with emotions at the moment, and is venting this off ... it's like, whatever a person practices often, they become an expert at. Well, if a person shrugs off or refuses to practice emotional introspection, then they have little experience in this department.
So, I think he's having some emotions, and not quite sure what to make of them .... like being in a foriegn land.
I do find irony in the reference that water people, mainly Pisces, are so emotionally deep that they are emotionally probing, and want to commingle these emotions ... while also stating that the only experience with a Pisces has been on the superficial level.
That's a contridiction .... if a person's whole life force that drives them in relationships is this emotional depth, then that is the complete opposite of being superficial, which would be shallowness of emotions.
You know, the more I think about this, the more I'm beginning to understand that a Piscean female has gotten under his skin, and he's having deep feelings for her, and it pains him to think that he's feeling this because it's like being vulnerable.
since i met my girl i was introduced to a world of magic, i stared at beautiful eyes before but never felt the bliss I felt when I stared into hers, i enjoyed walks in the park before but never felt the same funny feeling inside me when we were walking together, that feeling that force you to break a smile-to-self
What was your point in life then? I mean I know I would never date a Pisces male (as a Pisces female myself), but that doesn't mean that resorting to asinine generalities is a great thing either.
And people sometimes wonder why we come off the way we do, like I really want to know where you were trying to go with this one; because either it was intended to be a short ride, or you never planned to leave at all.
these are not "asinine generalities" as you would so like to dismiss them...
these are true statements based upon my experiences with pisces women throughout my life..
they are walking emotional train wrecks and i would be the same (as a man) if i did not learn to manage myself and my emotions over the years...
it was a lot of work, trust me...pisces ain't the last sign and hardest sign to traverse for nothing...
which brings me to another topic which i will start in another thread...
and mind you, these are mere observations on my part...
reading through most of the threads in this pisces forum, i have noticed that the pisces women on here have no problem repeating the fact that pisces males are not so attractive to them...
now a guy does it and its a problem?
thats a pisces for you...
god, why did i choose this path?
i know why, but i will have to start another path in order that i don't murky up these waters here...
and i had no intention other than to simply vent...early this morning i was kind of anxious and i wanted to write and interact with (or bother) people in a new space...
so, there went nothing...or something or another...
from my experiences, i know that the men who end up with pisces women are controlling, manipulating and extremely jealous, either that, OR they are extremely emotionally unavailable to the point that the pisces woman more often than not wants desperately to change this perceived defect in the hope that he will become emotionally available to HER! (a futile effort most of the time)....
just my observations...
and my step-mom is a pisces who is with my dad who is a *ding**ding**ding**ding**ding**ding**ding*--------------------
SCORPIO!
just one example i could site out of many though....
why do you pisces women invite so much pain and suffering into your lives?
i was mad at your delivery still ... there are negative/positive aspects to all signs but you shouldn't just come and start blasting.
if you think you have succeeded in bypassing many of your shortcomings congratulations but that doesn't mean you can come here to brag about it and falsely pity the rest.
everybody in here loves a good read so why don't give you some advice on how you changed ... i'm sure everybody is eager to hear how you went from an emotional black hole to the arrogant simpleton who took our breath away.
"reading through most of the threads in this pisces forum, i have noticed that the pisces women on here have no problem repeating the fact that pisces males are not so attractive to them..."
You are crazy. My hottest ex was a pisces. We are all just a fine looking people 🙂
typical of you scorpions to lash out and fail to take responsibility for lashing out...
you said,
"i have mostly water in my chart and i'm fine the way i am. thank you."
obviously you took my post as an affront....there is nothing wrong with weird, though...weird is good so don't take it as an offense...
and secondly, you came back and said,
"What are you talking about? I didn't take anything personally. Actually, I didn't read most of what you wrote. I might go back and do it though."
come on now...don't you know a scorpio, no matter how superior you think they are (and you all think you are superior in some way or another) has nothing on a pisces, especially when it comes to scorpio males and females dealing with pisces males?
we always see right through you and play along with you...sure you guys are mysterious and powerful and sexual dynamos *wink*...
we just don't want to burst your bubble sometimes because it will hurt us just as much as it hurts you!
when pisces loves a scorpio, we really love you....
with that being said, maybe you should have read my whole post before lashing out due to emotional impulses to which scorpions are so prone...
save your stinger already.... you will need it for your real enemies....
i have no problem with crazy...people call me that all the time..i am used to seeing myself as such...no worries...
and you are soooo right....pisces women tend to be hot in a very seductive way like no other sign and also sensual like no other sign...intuitive and understanding like no other and complementary to their mates as well as accomodating....
i am a guy and i rarely have problems getting the girls i want...in all of my circles of friends, even the completely unrelated circles, i have developed a reputation as a player, and it was hard work, but not THAT hard...i mean, the fine art of seducing the opposite sex comes quite naturally to most pisces....
but even so, usually for me when it comes to pisces women, the attraction ends there...its never more than skin deep...
i already knows what lies beneath after all, and i am not interested....
Crazy stillwater--- i understand your lack of desire for a pisces broad-----mine was surely killed by my former pisces man. its difficult to date someone with the same neurosis as yourself. plus i never felt like i really knew him-----even after 3 years. could have been because his birthday was the day after mine.....who knows?
"i am a guy and i rarely have problems getting the girls i want...in all of my circles of friends, even the completely unrelated circles, i have developed a reputation as a player, and it was hard work, but not THAT hard...i mean, the fine art of seducing the opposite sex comes quite naturally to most pisces...."
.......I find the same to be true. I have never encountered a man who could resist my charms 😉(but that may have nothing to do with me, and everything to do with the fact that men will rarely turn a chick down) ah, the age old double standard....while you are a player......a lady fish would be considered a ho......
i am definitely with you on that...pisces women can just soooooo draining at times and so emotionally demanding...
but i definitely understand they have a lot to offer...
its funny, because whenever i get together or meet with a pisces girl, everything is usually just cordial and nothing more...
we just never seem to be interested in each other, and honestly, i have dated EVERY of the signs either casually or otherwise but i have never dated a pisces girl....
and as far you never meeting "men rarely turn a chick down", let me introduce myself...
i feel like sometimes i can't fend women off fast enough before the next one is breathing down my neck...
its ok, as long as i like them, but sometimes, setting a standard for yourself so high that you develop a "player rep" becomes a burden when that becomes constantly expected of you...
sometimes i just wanna be by myself, or hang out with my guy friends...but everyone always expects to see me with some hot girls when i go out...
the other day, i went to one of my favorite bars with a male friend of mine who had never been there...
mind you, everytime i hang out in this bar, i always have different hot chicks around me, and i have developed a reputation there as a player...i am always either coming or going into this bar with a hot chick...
now when i went with my male friend the other day, one of my fave bartenders glanced over me and then glanced back and said, " hey, (Stillwaters) i didn't even recgonize you without all your girls!"
i was like, "okay..."
but i know that about myself and i am not coy about it...its a strength to me....
and when it comes to the word player, it is totally unisex...a girl can definitely be a player without being a ho...that is the BEST player there is because she will take you for your cash, affection, time, and everything else while she puts out NOTHING!
and she will gladly play you until you catch on to the fact that you ain't gettin' any, but by that time, you are already in the hole!
i know women like this and keep them very close...
and as far as a man not being able to be a ho, allow me to introduce myself...
i am not proud of it, just honest... but its just sex...its not that serious...
i am not very inhibited sexually...sexual inhibitions are for the closed minded....
well of course all of the juicy secrets would be found on the pisces board of all places!
i mean, this is the dxp neptunian headquarters, is it not?:-)
you wanna know a juicy secret?
read the pisces board!
@ mcclure50:
pimp daddy stillwaters here, you rang:-)
hahahaha...
you come off like a pimp or too i know myself!
why don't you help me make it a complete set?:-)
i always found that female pimps and fellow players and make the best matches for me...
we just relate so well to each other!
@ piscesbeauty:
i think virgolibra has a thread you might like to post in then then....well maybe 4 threads, actually, even though they all say the same exact thing! LOL
I like to please people because I want to not because I'm being instructed to do so. I generally run my mouth when someone tells me what to do or bosses me around.
As for probing people from a mile away, sorry can't help it, it just happens automatically especially when I'm bored teehee!
Being emotional doesn't mean one is a cry baby. I rarely cry but I do get angry a lot when people get on my nerves, must be the fire in my chart. I don't put up with BS.
Pisces is emotional yet very intellectual. We're a sign that is knowlegeable in many aspects of life, curious/inquisitive, and deep (not like two-faced, superficial geminis who like to gossip all day, and annoying (without trying) tactless sags. Notice they have two of the most dumb celebrities - britney spears and miley cyrus.
Where would our great artists in all of world history be without embracing emotion and sensitivity? Our poets, singer/songwriters, dancers, actors, dreamers, visionaries, etc.. I agree being emotional doesn't have to mean only cry-baby..
In the most idealistic sense, passion, sensitivity & emotion "are" an artist's most favorite muse.. The yin & yang, the positive & negative. Opposite sides of the very "same" coin. Every sign having their "own" special coin..
its like they are trying to probe my thoughts and my emotions all the time..
its very unsettling for people who value their privacy like myself...
i just don't like the feeling that my mind is being remotely probed by some kind of human brain scanning device....
pisces women have this ability to the 1000th degree, more so than cancer and scorpio i find..
and i have never found myself attraced to pisces on anything more than a superficial level...
when a girl tells me she is a cancer, i run...if she tells me she is a scorpio, i stay around just long enough to get my fix of mind blowing sex, and if she tells me she is a pisces, well...let's just say, it usually doesn't get that far...
if you like privacy, stay away from water signs, especially pisces...
pisces women are some of the most emotionally needy women i have ever met and have the tendency to turn out to be real emotional vampires....like they want to commingle their emotions with their spouses like some kind of joint bank account...
if you like emotional distance and space, stay away from these women...
if you want a woman who you can dominate and one who will be submissive, get a woman with a lot of water in her chart...
if you want total submission in a woman, get a pisces girl....
submissive women are so not sexy...