Everyone's got their own personal thing, and it has to make sense to them in order to work. Although, as it seems common, I wouldn't call it personal 'truth.' That term is relative or absolute depending who you ask and can make an awkward dinner with in-laws even moreso.
Aqua Sun - Virgo rising - Sagittarius Moon - Pisces Venus - Capricorn Mars
I find it goes in waves......some people have just disappeared from my life over time. Evolving to a higher dimension consciousness for me meant restoring my inner balance. One of the things that I needed to learn was that I put way to much energy and effort into relationships. It became unbalanced (too much masculin energy). When my inner balance was restored (feminine and masculin balance, balanced ying/yang if you will), some people just vanished from my life. So I took it as those relationships were unbalanced, I was the only one putting effort into them.
Other people have stayed in my life and I hope to attract more reciprocal relationships in the future. I think it's almost inevitable to lose some people as you ascend. Especially because the veil is lifted an you can see beyond their superficial masks. It's up to you what to do with what is revealed then.