@_Dazed
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Exaggerating life experiences on DXP?
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchJust kidding...lol
Are they exaggerated though or is it the presentation of which they are shared?
Maybe it's because of social media in general?
I know I share here because there is no consequence. I share what I want, when I want with no fear.
Sharing with non strangers involves letting people know what is going on in my life and then they start measuring and asking questions and telling cousins and talking about you behind your back.....and most people closest to me don't have a single clue about anything in my.life and I like it like that. I get entertained at the stories they make up because I'm so private.
Here...I don't care.
There's a difference in sharing and verifiable exaggerations.
Posted by tizianiOh yeah, I know a friend that tried that.
Water sign?
I think for the people that do it. They are just dreaming out loud and wishing they had more of an exciting life.
There’s nothing exciting right now with me and all my canceled flights for 2020. I wasted money and am not going anywhere at all. 😭😭😭😭😩😩😩😩
Posted by tizianiPosted by _DazedPosted by tizianiOh yeah, I know a friend that tried that.
Water sign?
Air sign, water rising though
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For the sake of cat lady statistics, we shall use their rising sign as evidence.
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by MrsElleCappysnatchJust kidding...lol
Are they exaggerated though or is it the presentation of which they are shared?
Maybe it's because of social media in general?
I know I share here because there is no consequence. I share what I want, when I want with no fear.
Sharing with non strangers involves letting people know what is going on in my life and then they start measuring and asking questions and telling cousins and talking about you behind your back.....and most people closest to me don't have a single clue about anything in my.life and I like it like that. I get entertained at the stories they make up because I'm so private.
Here...I don't care.
There's a difference in sharing and verifiable exaggerations.
Not really. There is only difference in perception.
Example.....I shared when I bought my new SUV in 2019. Barely nobody noticed.
Whorpio shared her new ride. People were like....you're lying....even years later (❤ you)
Why?
Because of the perception of that person which has been built over time with posting history.
It's not fair, but it is what it is.
There was a time here that I couldnt say 2+2=4 without being called a liar. You as well.
So....at the end of the day....stop caring about it. Let people share because they want to. Who cares if it's bullshit. It doesnt affect you.
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It effects the ratings for DXP: The Reality Series!
Posted by ScheherazadeI had a friend IRL quite literally make up everything about her life that she told our whole group.
She didn’t know any other way to make friends.
Didn’t feel she had anything to bring to the table.
Water sign?
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchUnless of course, you've invested in likes as currency...that's a game changer.
Personally, I prefer the old school +1 or "cosign" because nobody kept track of that and it was more intimate.
-1
Posted by ScheherazadePosted by _DazedPosted by ScheherazadeI had a friend IRL quite literally make up everything about her life that she told our whole group.
She didn’t know any other way to make friends.
Didn’t feel she had anything to bring to the table.
Water sign?
Capricorn
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Must have water in their somewhere.
It makes me chuckle that I get under your skin.
Squirm bitch.
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchNot really. There is only difference in perception.
Example.....I shared when I bought my new SUV in 2019. Barely nobody noticed.
Whorpio shared her new ride. People were like....you're lying....even years later (❤ you)
Why?
Because of the perception of that person which has been built over time with posting history.
It's not fair, but it is what it is.
There was a time here that I couldnt say 2+2=4 without being called a liar. You as well.
So....at the end of the day....stop caring about it. Let people share because they want to. Who cares if it's bullshit. It doesnt affect you.
I can’t remember where I heard this, but I once heard it’s easy to fall in love online because your mind fills in the blanks of things you don’t know about the person you’re pursuing (i.e. since you don’t date them IRL, you obviously don’t know everything about them regarding body language, daily routine, etc. so your mind just comes up with fantasies as to how that person is in regards to those unknowns).
I imagine it’s the same when people get online to call each other liars: their imaginations fill in the blanks they don’t see of the accused person (especially if the accused only shows bits and pieces of their life).
Posted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
Posted by LadyNeptuneIt makes me chuckle that I get under your skin.
Squirm bitch.
You sure it's not the other way around?
You've tried so hard to ignore me.. yet here we are.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by _DazedWhat is the purpose?
I did it when I first joined DXP, but I'm not sure why I felt the need to do so with strangers on the internet.
From homemade crab legs..
To credit cards with $ 100,000 credit limits..
To made up volunteer positions..
To having that one friend that seems to have experienced every situation presented on DXP..
Why? And what placements are most notorious for doing so?
I believe Water suns are in the lead currently.
😧 you exaggerated about volunteering? Like getting groceries? It inspired me so much... I feel duped😩
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I was only able to do it once before every place started delivering!
Posted by LadyNeptuneIt makes me chuckle that I get under your skin.
Squirm bitch.
You have him trained like a circus monkey!
Posted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
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Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by LadyNeptuneIt makes me chuckle that I get under your skin.
Squirm bitch.
You have him trained like a circus monkey!click to expand
I'm just glad I can give him something to fill his days.
Posted by _DazedWell I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer
@wild_flo was definitely not part of that.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI'm just glad I can give him something to fill his days.
Your charity is profound 🙌
Posted by WhorpioPosted by _DazedWell I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer
@wild_flo was definitely not part of that.click to expand
I'm referring to something more recent.
Posted by _DazedPosted by Whorpio@wild_flo was definitely not part of that.
I'm referring to something more recent.click to expand
Her and I have only talked about two people from here. Not really comprehensively, more like “that person is really annoying”.
If you’re referring to what I was talking about with Nikki, I was referring to a different user trying to turn me against @wild_flo. This person is friends with nikki so I figured I’d ask nikki if she personally heard of anything wild_flo has done to betray friends, for my own sake.
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Different topic.
This is just not right.
I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.
Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?
That shit is annoying.
Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?
That's dumb.
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Please tell me that 55" is a 4k..
Posted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Out another dxper?
First off, I have no idea what you’re talking about and second, considering that we actually hang out IRL, we’re not plotting against anyone. Instead we’re worrying about ourselves and having girl time but if there’s anyone who truly knows her it’s me.
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That's not what i heard.
Posted by dillpicklejust the pattern i noticed
all inflammatory lil shit stirrers lol
i only know dazed’s merc...
@whorpio you a sag merc or nah? vague recollection the ladynep is pisces merc?
Libra merc is mine
Posted by MaddestofHattersI'm just here for all the stolen Insta pics
IT WAS A GLITCH
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Different topic.
This is just not right.
I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.
Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?
That shit is annoying.
Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?
That's dumb.
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I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao
Posted by dillpicklePosted by WhorpioLibra merc is mine
🤯wooowwwww did not see that coming
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That’s awkward because I feel like my communication matches what they say bout libra merc
LadyNeptune even said I give off libra vibes way back when!!!
Posted by saggurl88Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Different topic.
This is just not right.
I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.
Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?
That shit is annoying.
Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?
That's dumb.
I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao
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Behind the scenes mean girls.
Posted by Wild_Flo Lmaoo yeah that user is annoying but that’s pretty much it.You know I don’t like drama seeping into my real life so I don’t have shit to say to others about you. I love you
I luff you too
Posted by dillpickledoes your moon sextile your merc?
we might have a double whammy in our synastry happening here
idk maybe i pick up too much on your sag moon vibes. gift o tha gab
Yes, 6° sextile. My mercury is also in my 7th house.
Posted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Different topic.
This is just not right.
I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.
Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?
That shit is annoying.
Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?
That's dumb.
I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao
Behind the scenes mean girls.
No
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Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?
over the years, my personal favorite are users who draw from a seemingly bottomless reservoir of anecdotes around their "close friends" that are horrible people who do horrible things, and coincidentally share the same sign as the person who hurt them....
Posted by _DazedWhat is the purpose?
momentary relief for hemorrhoidal flare-ups, and continuing to spread the gospel of "you in danger gurl"...
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Different topic.
This is just not right.
I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.
Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?
That shit is annoying.
Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?
That's dumb.
Please tell me that 55" is a 4k..
Nope! Got it at Best Buy for $ 400!!
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Can you see ALL the "details" clearly?
Posted by dillpickleidek why im up in this thread tbh
😪
Leeb moon
Posted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Different topic.
This is just not right.
I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.
Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?
That shit is annoying.
Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?
That's dumb.
I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao
Behind the scenes mean girls.
No
Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?
Because she’s hella paranoid
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Paranoid about what?
She seems open with information? what could she possibly be hiding?
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by saggurl88Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Different topic.
This is just not right.
I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.
Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?
That shit is annoying.
Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?
That's dumb.
I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao
Me too...it's like, what is the point?
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I would be the worst and spreading even more rumors about myself. People are so funny. 😆
DXP Telephone game lmao
Posted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Different topic.
This is just not right.
I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.
Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?
That shit is annoying.
Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?
That's dumb.
I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao
Behind the scenes mean girls.
No
Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?
Because she’s hella paranoid
Paranoid about what?
She seems open with information? what could she possibly be hiding?
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Quit talking about my Yacht, please and thank you.
Posted by WhorpioThis person is friends with nikki so I figured I’d ask nikki if she personally heard of anything wild_flo has done to betray friends, for my own sake.
What friend? I am only super close to a few users, and most of them are the dudes, or lesbians. lol I still don't even know who the person you were referring to, because you were too vague.
And as I answered you, about @Wild_flo so there is no miscommunication and me "supposedly" gossiping. I don't know flo well enough to judge her, or make a judgement about her. I don't have the rapport with her to make a judgment. And I don't think mariposa is a bad person, I just don't know her on that level.
Posted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloNo
Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?click to expand
It’s like PTSD. I’ve already been burned by two chicks I considered friends. I ain’t finna let it happen a third time.
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _mudraThe purpose is to invoke the same feelings of excitement in all of you when I have a blessed ass day when that avocado seed is tiny as hell and I get more meaty, beautiful avocado.
"To invoke the same feelings of excitement"
This!!!! ^^^^^^
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Looks like I'll be buying a 55" porno TV this weekend.
Posted by nikkistarWhat friend? I am only super close to a few users, and most of them are the dudes, or lesbians. lol I still don't even know who the person you were referring to, because you were too vague.
And as I answered you, about @Wild_flo so there is no miscommunication and me "supposedly" gossiping. I don't know flo well enough to judge her, or make a judgement about her. I don't have the rapport with her to make a judgment. And I don't think mariposa is a bad person, I just don't know her on that level.
Yeah, I sensed a little confusion from my vagueness in your response. I thought about replying saying ”I think I get what you’re saying. The beef the two have between each other is strictly between them, and unless I have firsthand experience of either of them doing something to hurt me I should just focus on my individual ‘relationship’ with each person”. But I figured that would just be a waste of space in your inbox lol like “duhh whorpio you don’t need to reword what I said”.
Posted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloDazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.
😒
Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
Different topic.
This is just not right.
I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.
Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?
That shit is annoying.
Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?
That's dumb.
I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao
Behind the scenes mean girls.
No
Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?
Because she’s hella paranoid
Paranoid about what?
She seems open with information? what could she possibly be hiding?
She’s not hiding anything. That’s just how she is. Our friendship has gotten extremely close through the years and it takes a lot for her to trust.
I mean you were the same way when we started talking years ago.. remember? Guarded.
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Not guarded with my emotions, but rather my body.. cuz I thought you were going to murder me.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by _DazedPosted by Wild_FloNo
Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?
It’s like PTSD. I’ve already been burned by two chicks I considered friends. I ain’t finna let it happen a third time.click to expand
I've known @Wild_flo and she is the sweetest. I've talked with her off DXP and I don't see any reason to think she would betray or burn you at all. She's pretty upfront, if you can't tell. She also gets hurt pretty easily by things but she will tall you about that as well. I have nothing bad to say EVER about her.
I don't hang out with her since we are in a different state. But you shouldn't place your friendship or experience with her based on previous people.
Also a lot depends on how shady you are with someone (Not saying you are)
Your friendship is on an individual basis, getting info about her from other dxp members, most likely won't help you much because it will be based on your interactions with her. She is super cute and a great friend, from my experience.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by _DazedWhat is the purpose?
I did it when I first joined DXP, but I'm not sure why I felt the need to do so with strangers on the internet.
From homemade crab legs..
To credit cards with $ 100,000 credit limits..
To made up volunteer positions..
To having that one friend that seems to have experienced every situation presented on DXP..
Why? And what placements are most notorious for doing so?
I believe Water suns are in the lead currently.
are you trying to talk shit about @ladyneptune?
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ARe you jealous?
Posted by WhorpioPosted by nikkistarWhat friend? I am only super close to a few users, and most of them are the dudes, or lesbians. lol I still don't even know who the person you were referring to, because you were too vague.
And as I answered you, about @Wild_flo so there is no miscommunication and me "supposedly" gossiping. I don't know flo well enough to judge her, or make a judgement about her. I don't have the rapport with her to make a judgment. And I don't think mariposa is a bad person, I just don't know her on that level.
Yeah, I sensed a little confusion from my vagueness in your response. I thought about replying saying ”I think I get what you’re saying. The beef the two have between each other is strictly between them, and unless I have firsthand experience of either of them doing something to hurt me I should just focus on my individual ‘relationship’ with each person”. But I figured that would just be a waste of space in your inbox lol like “duhh whorpio you don’t need to reword what I said”.click to expand
Yup, that was my exact intent. Sometimes, its better to just allow the beef to be between the individuals without getting sucked into the mess. Base your own friendships, on your own experiences.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsAre homemade crabs legs something to boast about?
Is posting a pic of your dinner on the front page 'bragging' lol
Truth is I get under his skin thats why he's singled me out.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsAre homemade crabs legs something to boast about?
Is posting a pic of your dinner on the front page 'bragging' lol
Truth is I get under his skin thats why he's singled me out.
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Those experiences were of three DXPers.. not just you.
You're not that special.
Posted by Black-MambaHaving a 100k credit limit for work isn't really a big deal though.
It is if you claim it as your personal card.
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What is the purpose?
I did it when I first joined DXP, but I'm not sure why I felt the need to do so with strangers on the internet.
From homemade crab legs..
To credit cards with $ 100,000 credit limits..
To made up volunteer positions..
To having that one friend that seems to have experienced every situation presented on DXP..
Why? And what placements are most notorious for doing so?
I believe Water suns are in the lead currently.