Any advice from a Virgo?

I met this guy a month ago I was not into him at first i liked his friend. But as the party was going on, once I was observing him I started to like him. And him the same. You can clearly see it and feel it with Virgos! (through their body language, especially in a room with people) He mentions me and him being married , when friends and I were discussing weddings .

So, I got his number and messaged him saying thank you for a nice evening etc . His messages were short but he replied.
Then nothing , so I needed to make a excuse to meet so I made one , we both knew that it was to meet up and not for "some advice" on an issue we were discussing at the party.

Our first night I met his friends who liked me and was giving him compliments about me etc
We have similar upbringings. we shared stories about our lives and opened up about deep subjects
He said "You need a big strong man to take you away" I was not happy at home .

Then After meeting him on a few dates ,I fucked it up by going to his house coked up - even though he takes it , but what I relized was - not to that extreme! I have had an addiction for a while and I am in recovery .
When Id meet him we used to take it together. (only twice) So I used to message him nearly night, wanting to meet after my night had finished.

He told me "You are clingy thats why I have not been answering." The two times I apologised he always replied straight away
"Get well soon."

Then I sent another message a week later "I am still in recovery." Basically saying, give me a chance to meet up -(during the day)
and see the real me off coke and booze. He replied straight away saying "Yes for sure" "stay safe"
My friend said "stay safe" could mean GOODBYE .....

But last time when I left his place he did say "Be safe, don't take any more drugs or alcohol."

I know men don't like to read long messages so I sent him some photos of my Family house etc .
To show I am having a normal life etc


I think... because I shared stories about my life and being on coke it had been ruined too soon.


He only replied to one photo of some antique cups I asked cute lol and he replied : "Nice"

After the cup photo he didn't reply to any of my family house pics (WhatsApp)

so I reminded him that I would be coming to London and asked if he wanted to meet for a coffee this week, if not then some other time.

He read it but now , not one answer .

From beginning he did not write that much in messages

I think him and I bonded well , we have similar backgrounds and we opened up to each other a lot. He was married for 8 years and I was with someone for 6 years .

Is he saying without words - I don't want anything more to do with u ?

Answer is probably staring at me in the face but I cannot help going over in my head about it all.

If he thinks I am clingy then why not END our communication why to let it go on ??

And he put a photo of Jonny drop and Phenelopie cruz on his profi

I mean to say FUCKED IT UP not Tree trunked
This keypad keeps messing up

Again it's doing it , Fucked it up NOT tree trunked it

Ok you oveously can't swear . I mean I messed up not tree trunked it up ahhhh