Aquarius Sun Polar Opp. Moon, + Gemini Trouble?

Aquarius Mars, sun, leo moon Venus Pisces, him Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon Leo mars Venus in Aries. I feel as if he is selfish, he never expressed emotion. He is scared to be with me in public, but says he cares. He is a very manipulative Gemini. With my mars and sun in auqarius, im more action oriented, specially with a moon in leo. But my Venus in Pisces got too hurt. He hurt my pride ( Leo Moon) and took advantage of my venus. However, im still trying to understand him ( Aqua Sun).

Well the Aries venus explains the selfishness... I have it and I can have a very self-centered, "me first" attitude in relationships. The Leo mars might also contribute the selfishness. Cafeastrology explains the venus-mars combinations: http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/venusinariesmarsinleo.html

Gemini's are also a bit flighty, especially the men. They get bored with women really easily.

If you can guess his ascendant (which should allow you to kind of ball-park the time of his birth), I would pull up his natal chart on a website that explains the aspects. I know from experience... it may initially seem as though y'all have harmonious aspects (Aqua & Gem Sun, his sun sextile your moon) but there could be aspects in his chart that explain his behavior much better. Cafeastrlogy does this, and I've also used astromatrix which I like a bit better -- longer, more in depth descriptions.

Sorry that I couldn't be of much help myself! 🙂