Gemini and Aqua

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Aria on Sunday, May 19, 2013 and has 19 replies.

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@Aria
13 Years

As y'all know, I'm a gemini. My bf is an aqua. I was reading some stuff online about aqua men, love, etc. And they all said aquas : disappear every now and then, aqua men flirt but unaware of it, aqua men are honest, aqua men are cold and detached and they do not like to commit. Now, this is a big question for me... Observing my aqua, he is:
1. Still pulling some disappearing acts. Started from weeks but now it lessened to 2-3 days. If he does that, he doesn't totally disappear because he likes my posts on facebook. Just no chit chatting.
2. Tells me he feels so comfortable with me. That even if we're not having sex, he will always love my face and we will be bestfriends.
3. Asks me where I want to live. Where I want to go and what I want to do in the coming years.
4. Tells me he can imagine a life with me.marriage, kids, etc.
5. Said that he likes to always talk to me and that it's strange for him.
6. When I said I can't have sex until I'm ready, he said he will wait. He will be happy with a hug and kiss.
7. He was honest. Told me about his kid and ex-wife.
8. Tells me he cannot lie to me.
9. Tries to learn my native language.
10. Always initiates first contact and surprises me all the time.

I'm curious, is this a usual aqua gesture? Should I trust it with all my heart? Or not so much? ๐Ÿ™‚ let me know what you think! ๐Ÿ™‚ it's like... The first time I ever got along so well with a man... Strange for me too!

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@Aria
13 Years

Posted by truecap
I think he likes you.

He just likes me after all these months. Bummer. Hahahahahahahahahahaha ๐Ÿ˜„ but probably, that's why it's light and easy. ๐Ÿ™‚

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@Aria
13 Years

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by candi3bb
#10 contradicts #1.

I don't see why one can't disappear ... and then initiate BUT I'm not trying to argue about it either just saying.
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Lol. That was exactly what I meant. He would disappear then he would initiate contact all because I'm too busy to initiate. I think that's one thing we like about each other. Hahaha. I don't bother when he disappears knowing he will come back anyway. Lol ๐Ÿ˜„

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@Angeleyes17
13 Years500+ Posts

I think thats how your relationship is working. Even with the dissapearing acts he does, he makes the first move.. not you.. He's really into you from what you've mentioned. He's a keeper x

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@Aria
13 Years

Posted by Angeleyes17
I think thats how your relationship is working. Even with the dissapearing acts he does, he makes the first move.. not you.. He's really into you from what you've mentioned. He's a keeper x

I hope so! Haha. Yeah, he disappears and comes back. I don't wait for him so it's always a surprise that he still comes back. Lol. And it's really funny how things workout that way. It seems unusual. But I guess it's thrilling that way. Like today, we didn't communicate but yesterday morning he messaged me to wish me luck in my meeting. I have a feeling that tomorrow evening he will message me again. ๐Ÿ™‚

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@Aria
13 Years

I was wrong. He sent me a message just now. Hahahahaha. He viewed me on a social networking site this morning. I thought it was just that. But when I checked my phone, he sent me a message asking how my day was. Hahahahahaha amazing. ๐Ÿ™‚

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@geminidude
13 Years500+ Posts

Hi Aria of all what you have read about Aquarius is much similar to yours (Gemini) as well, I bet you are not gonna find a perfect match like him unless you find another Aquarius. If I am wrong then ask candi3bb

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@Aria
13 Years

Posted by geminidude
Hi Aria of all what you have read about Aquarius is much similar to yours (Gemini) as well, I bet you are not gonna find a perfect match like him unless you find another Aquarius. If I am wrong then ask candi3bb

I guess so! Actually, it's such a wonder that this is the first aqua I ever dated and got in a relationship with. I know a lot of aqua men but the attraction wasn't there until I met this one! ๐Ÿ™‚

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@GemStar05
14 Years1,000+ Posts

My ex never pulled disappearing acts! In fact I wanted to hide from him sometimes! He wanted to be with me ALLLL the time. You will probably always be friends if it doesn't work out; but I hope it does for you. Gem and Aqua rock!

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@Aria
13 Years

Posted by GemStar05
My ex never pulled disappearing acts! In fact I wanted to hide from him sometimes! He wanted to be with me ALLLL the time. You will probably always be friends if it doesn't work out; but I hope it does for you. Gem and Aqua rock!

Thanks!!! I can see that now. He was frequently around, lately. Oh, btw, we found a house where we will move to soon! ๐Ÿ™‚ friendship is great between us and I hope we stay that way. It will make our bond stronger ๐Ÿ™‚