aries ex bf

Hi all,

Pls help me, especially aries man. so here is the story:

I have known this aries man for around a year plus, he suggested to date 6 months ago, and for me, I'd prefer either friendship or relationship. so i talk to him (want to ask him if he want to get into a r/s), took me quite a while to say it out, while we sitting in the park.. I think he thought i don't like him? He actually cried while we were sitting there and he's waiting for me to said what i want to say.

So, after that he agreed to go on a r/s with me. I felt he is not so enthu aft we went on a r/s, (took longer time to reply text and the way he act when i was with him). & He had never posted our pic online, which i saw many of my guys friends did (post gf pic, even when they just started their r/s) Like action speak louder then words? was a bit upset with him never post our pic too, like yea) i was quite upset and texted him (when 2months plus in r/s, this is not the main reason, like when he's with me, feel he didnt like me more than last time). So i told him talk when we meet.

As usual, took me very long to say what i want to say. So he asked if i want to start first, i let him start first, and he said he prefer to be friend and all. I was definitely heartbroken hearing what he said. Why did he choose easy way out? & i will not ask him to stay since he choose to go. & he asked if i have anything to said, i said no.
Think back now, I'm wondering if he breakup with me because he think i want to breakup with him, so he said it first? He apologies for quite a few times, saying it is hard for him too.
During our r/s, he did intro me to his friends and family, sharing all his thoughts/childhood etc with me. I feel he is serious? but he still initiate the breakup. So it mean he didnt love me enough? if not would not choose to let go? He did said im not very open up to him, which i actually very open to him already? btw, I'm cap.

After a month of NC, he texted me on my bday. & ask to meet up and pass me my bday gift. We have been texting on and off recently. & we are suppose to meet up recently, i suggested we can meet up, he said sure sure. Yet when i text him to meet up on a day, he said he has plan, i should had asked him the day itself, as he was free. But I'm so pissed? As I felt who on earth know which day he's free? Since he is free on that day he shd have contacted me instead of waiting for me to ask him? As i have to work and all.

So do you guys think he still like me or just being friend? did he breakup because he thought i wanted to? I have not reply his last text (about meeting up). should i reply him or ignore him? see if he will text me again? I read a lot of forum (ask guys opinion) about if aries/guys cry means they really likes you? But he did not salvage our r/s like other aries guy do? & his dont have a very happy childhood, will it be because of that? Yes, i still hope

reading 🙂 appreciated!!