Calling all Scorpio Venus or those who have been attracted to ViS

As a 0 degree Scorpy Venus, I have somewhat had the "curse" in love. Not that I'm complaining, but I wish I was not so attention-seeking. For the most part, I am quite detached due to how I was raised and some of my other placements, but sometimes I have full-on "I want attention" moments. It can be pretty heavy.

So far, I've been attracted to mostly fire and air Venus signs. normally those are also combined with a fire/air Mars. I did once like a Virgo Venus/Libra Mars, Aries Venus/Cancer Mars, Pisces Venus/Gemini Mars but none of those were long-lasting.

My most stereotypical ViS "obsessive" loves were: Aries Venus/Sag Mars and Gem Venus/Aqua Mars. Not so ideal for the little Scorpy Venus. I have a Sag Mars but it's that darn Scorpio Venus that yells "why won't you give me attention" once in awhile. Normally I am totally content with doing my own thing, but not all the time. Sometimes I just want to be a big ball of laziness and eat with my lover. I didn't date either of these guys. They were just out of my reach. We went on a couple dates/hung out a little, but I never captured them. However I had the strongest connection with them. My heaviness was a little much for them I think. Both of them were earth-dominant, but overall that had no match for my Scorp Venus.

Unlike a Scorp Venus though, I just kind of let them go and do their thing...my heart was sad, but I never turned completely neurotic. I just quietly addressed my sadness and move on. I just let guys walk out of my life and don't fight for them to stay, but it definitely takes a toll on my soft heart. I'm quite unemotional regarding most things, and I can take insults for days, but when I'm rejected in love I feel true pain and sadness. Neither of them are completely gone from my life, but love has not fully blossomed.

I just jump into relationships though, so maybe that's half of my problem. I mean I've known both of them for about 2 years, but I just want to dive in and get to know them later. I like getting to know people, but I want to date right away. It's not very ideal lol, but it's how I operate. I crush a lot too, but these two captivated me on a higher intellectual and spiritual level. Aries is my third dominant. Scorpio is still #1 though. My 7th house cusp is Aries too though, so I guess that's where my rush stems from. Water and Air dominant. It's a rough life living like a human paradox.

What are your Scorp Venus experiences?

Well my Venus is in Scorpio and I guess my big thing is that my two real serious relationships are my least compatible; cancer and Capricorn. (I'm a Libra) I'm really attracted to Aries, Leos and capricorns... Geminis love me but I hate them (well the gems I have met) yeah don't know the in depth stuff but there you go

Had a moment of late night talks outside a bar with a Libra Scorp Venus. I thought we were having a good time. He then proceeded to date someone else. I must have scared him off or bored him to death. Oh well. They broke up 6 months later. It's so weird now.