Cancer Guy and Libra Girl

Right so my guy and I have been together for a bit now. It was heavy at first. We met online and we met a few times and we were both extremely open to each other. Like we talked about kids, I don't know how and why we even talked but we had the same visions for things. He was so affectionate in the beginning and till I actually got pissed at him.

Then a few weeks later; he deletes every social media. I mean every thing. I panic and don't even hesitate to go to worst conclusion; i call him and ask him to tell me if he's alright. I worry, I can't help it okay. (By the way, it was out of no where when he did this, like no convo or text about it).

He says that he's going to go off media and not do online dating because he feels he's not being "real". I go bitch mode, like "wait so this whole time you've been fake to me?" and yah dah dah like that stuff. He's trying to reassure me and say that wasn't the case and I honestly don't believe him. But then it got bitter and a lot of hate happened after.

And now I'm here crying my tears out cause the guy was just perfect, I mean you could say that it was fake but I know when something's fake and I keep regretting every wrong thing I said. I feel guilty like I'm going to hell for this. I want to make it up to the guy but I want him back and I want him to understand that I'm sorry. It's hard cause he's blocking all my calls and emails and messages off. My friends are willing to message or do whatever to contact him for me but I just need so tips and confirmations on what to do.

Posted by hoanganh
Right so my guy and I have been together for a bit now. It was heavy at first. We met online and we met a few times and we were both extremely open to each other. Like we talked about kids, I don't know how and why we even talked but we had the same visions for things. He was so affectionate in the beginning and till I actually got pissed at him.

Then a few weeks later; he deletes every social media. I mean every thing. I panic and don't even hesitate to go to worst conclusion; i call him and ask him to tell me if he's alright. I worry, I can't help it okay. (By the way, it was out of no where when he did this, like no convo or text about it).

He says that he's going to go off media and not do online dating because he feels he's not being "real". I go bitch mode, like "wait so this whole time you've been fake to me?" and yah dah dah like that stuff. He's trying to reassure me and say that wasn't the case and I honestly don't believe him. But then it got bitter and a lot of hate happened after.

And now I'm here crying my tears out cause the guy was just perfect, I mean you could say that it was fake but I know when something's fake and I keep regretting every wrong thing I said. I feel guilty like I'm going to hell for this. I want to make it up to the guy but I want him back and I want him to understand that I'm sorry. It's hard cause he's blocking all my calls and emails and messages off. My friends are willing to message or do whatever to contact him for me but I just need so tips and confirmations on what to do.

Coming from a cancer female who has been in that guys situation my best bet is someone caught him with you and told him off about it since it's an online relationship, what us Cancers like to do is retreat. Now I'm not saying to chase after the Cancer who has cowered back into its shell, if you're really into him wait because any money bet that he's still thinking about you day and night but He's really scared so he's contemplating on what he should do instead of making moves. There is also this thing that us cancers like to do which is sort of like a test to see if the other person cares, we will not talk to a person for a while to see if they respond. We do this self-pitying act because we realize that sometimes we're too generous and would like to see if the person is willing to do the same for them. I hope everything works out for you and I hope this helps.