bellamarie822
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Cancer woman/Libra man.good but FRUSTRATING!!
I want to add to this for more interpretation...
I am a cancer through and through (a big ol ball of emotional mess), but my gemini venus i feel is pretty strong - I thrive off of intellectual conversation, I tend to distance myself, i've never been too affectionate, and although i am emotional i have a very cool exterior and you'll rarely if ever catch me crying. i've always seemed to get along well with male air signs more than any other. I find their intelligence sexy and interesting, and I like how they ground me. I've done the water+water (cancer & pisces) it was a hot mess. We were the definition of emotional trainwreck together, never again.
We have a good relationship, he's 5 years older than me and in the ready to settle down phase which i am perfectly happy with. He tells me he loves me all the time, he's thrown little light-hearted comments in about how he should 'just marry me' and have talked to me about children, etc... I can deal with his constant preaching and logical standpoints with everything, we have fun and are the two most competitive people ever so it's never a dull moment... But he is MOODY! When i say moody, his moods can last for freaking hours. Even moodier than me, and i'm the cancer! sheesh. He's the silent angry type. He'll sit there and tell me nothings wrong with the most sour look on his face. I am the type that ALWAYS knows when something is wrong, and wants to talk about things right then right there on the spot and then let it go. I'll try to be silly, be sweet, anything.. nothing works. We just gotta sit there in silence until he decides to get over it. It's aggravating to say the least.
Everything i read says mostly bad things about libras. One of my best friends boyfriend has the same birthday as my boyfriend just different years and he is hell on earth. Cheating, lying, manipulative, sneaky. I'm not being dumb and naive when i say my boyfriend doesn't do any of that and i know it for a fact. I'm the one who told HIM to put a password on his phone because of pictures i've sent to him lol. I know his passwords to everything and have never once even tried intruding on his business he told me the password when he asked me to log into his fb for him and then proceeded to tell me it was the same for everything, we even will switch phones sometimes if he has to do something and i have more charge or whatever. He has a wandering eye which is very annoying but as far as being faithful i trust him.
Although the other libra habits i am beginning to see.. he is lazy, he is distant at times, I have caught him in a few little lies that were nothing of super big importance but still caught my attention, his reliability is questionable, i see some very selfish qualities, and i hate to say it but sometimes he's a little boring to me. I say boring because for example, he loves watching tv and movies and i NEVER watch tv. TV can't hold my interest for more than maybe 20 minutes and i'm over it. He takes forever to do things and procrastinates and i'm always ready to go exactly on time. But then again, i know i also see alot of things like that because I am the type to do the absolute most for somebody, i am self sacrificial and for some dumb reason expect people to treat me the same way which rarely works in my favor (hello, constant dissappointment!).
We do get aong very well and we are extremely open. We tell each other everything, i've never felt so comfortable with a man before.
We are moving in together in about a month, i am making a move an hour away from home which doesn't seem like much but is enough to have me kinda nervous for what's to come. I know obviously zodiac compatibility isn't the answer all the time but any feedback would be nice..
Do any cancer women (or really any sign at all) have any experience with libra men?
I am a cancer through and through (a big ol ball of emotional mess), but my gemini venus i feel is pretty strong - I thrive off of intellectual conversation, I tend to distance myself, i've never been too affectionate, and although i am emotional i have a very cool exterior and you'll rarely if ever catch me crying. i've always seemed to get along well with male air signs more than any other. I find their intelligence sexy and interesting, and I like how they ground me. I've done the water+water (cancer & pisces) it was a hot mess. We were the definition of emotional trainwreck together, never again.
We have a good relationship, he's 5 years older than me and in the ready to settle down phase which i am perfectly happy with. He tells me he loves me all the time, he's thrown little light-hearted comments in about how he should 'just marry me' and have talked to me about children, etc... I can deal with his constant preaching and logical standpoints with everything, we have fun and are the two most competitive people ever so it's never a dull moment... But he is MOODY! When i say moody, his moods can last for freaking hours. Even moodier than me, and i'm the cancer! sheesh. He's the silent angry type. He'll sit there and tell me nothings wrong with the most sour look on his face. I am the type that ALWAYS knows when something is wrong, and wants to talk about things right then right there on the spot and then let it go. I'll try to be silly, be sweet, anything.. nothing works. We just gotta sit there in silence until he decides to get over it. It's aggravating to say the least.
Everything i read says mostly bad things about libras. One of my best friends boyfriend has the same birthday as my boyfriend just different years and he is hell on earth. Cheating, lying, manipulative, sneaky. I'm not being dumb and naive when i say my boyfriend doesn't do any of that and i know it for a fact. I'm the one who told HIM to put a password on his phone because of pictures i've sent to him lol. I know his passwords to everything and have never once even tried intruding on his business he told me the password when he asked me to log into his fb for him and then proceeded to tell me it was the same for everything, we even will switch phones sometimes if he has to do something and i have more charge or whatever. He has a wandering eye which is very annoying but as far as being faithful i trust him.
Although the other libra habits i am beginning to see.. he is lazy, he is distant at times, I have caught him in a few little lies that were nothing of super big importance but still caught my attention, his reliability is questionable, i see some very selfish qualities, and i hate to say it but sometimes he's a little boring to me. I say boring because for example, he loves watching tv and movies and i NEVER watch tv. TV can't hold my interest for more than maybe 20 minutes and i'm over it. He takes forever to do things and procrastinates and i'm always ready to go exactly on time. But then again, i know i also see alot of things like that because I am the type to do the absolute most for somebody, i am self sacrificial and for some dumb reason expect people to treat me the same way which rarely works in my favor (hello, constant dissappointment!).
We do get aong very well and we are extremely open. We tell each other everything, i've never felt so comfortable with a man before.
We are moving in together in about a month, i am making a move an hour away from home which doesn't seem like much but is enough to have me kinda nervous for what's to come. I know obviously zodiac compatibility isn't the answer all the time but any feedback would be nice..
Do any cancer women (or really any sign at all) have any experience with libra men?
Hmmm I'm dating an air sign but he has his Venus and moon in water so I feel we understand eachother emotionally. Air and water is tricky unless you have balance.
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Hmmm I'm dating an air sign but he has his Venus and moon in water so I feel we understand eachother emotionally. Air and water is tricky unless you have balance.
It definitely is tricky... I think in our case it helps that my venus is air. Which makes me able to detach myself from the crazy clingy cancer feeling and think logically, it can even make me somewhat aloof at times. But that's really the only balance I can see as far as our charts go.
Posted by bellamarie822Do you feel you guys are emotionally compatible?Posted by Moonbutter
Hmmm I'm dating an air sign but he has his Venus and moon in water so I feel we understand eachother emotionally. Air and water is tricky unless you have balance.
It definitely is tricky... I think in our case it helps that my venus is air. Which makes me able to detach myself from the crazy clingy cancer feeling and think logically, it can even make me somewhat aloof at times. But that's really the only balance I can see as far as our charts go.
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Posted by MoonbutterPosted by bellamarie822Do you feel you guys are emotionally compatible?Posted by Moonbutter
Hmmm I'm dating an air sign but he has his Venus and moon in water so I feel we understand eachother emotionally. Air and water is tricky unless you have balance.
It definitely is tricky... I think in our case it helps that my venus is air. Which makes me able to detach myself from the crazy clingy cancer feeling and think logically, it can even make me somewhat aloof at times. But that's really the only balance I can see as far as our charts go.
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It's kind of hard to say. Mostly yes.. We are definitely emotional/logial. Me being emotional, him being logical, He's a thinker i'm a do-er, etc. I feel like right now it works for us because i understand him, but i do get concerned if down the line it's not going to be enough for me. Ugh
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