
Smilebhappy0715
@Smilebhappy0715
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Posted by cluelessgirlTry OkCupid. Like just try it. If nothing else.. You can weed bad eggs out quickly. Believe me I'm all about romance but I also value time. And it let's you get a good glimpse of people before you decide whether or not to engage with them. Like I'm positive my profile probably says "responds selectively" lol
Thanks @Smilebhappy0715 and @FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 for the advises.
But @Smilebhappy0715 I probably won't get online dating, I feel it's like online shopping or job hunting, you talk to too many people at the same time, it's just lack the romantic flavor. I'm more of getting to know one person at a time person.
We texted daily right now, mostly silly cartoon pics. Not much of real communication. I'm just too direct to play aloof, I probably just ask him directly about meeting up, it won't kill me, lol.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Taurian I get the feeling you probably don't put up with a lot of sh1t haha
Relax, sit back, and vacate to the nearest exit.

Posted by Smilebhappy0715I have put up with alot of challenges and struggles. Due to certain experiences. We all have..Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Taurian I get the feeling you probably don't put up with a lot of sh1t haha
Relax, sit back, and vacate to the nearest exit.click to expand

Posted by cluelessgirlJust be careful I'm hearing horror stories of oh you are not my type to killing the woman..You have to do alot of weeding out online first before meeting.
Thanks @Smilebhappy0715 and @FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 for the advises.
But @Smilebhappy0715 I probably won't get online dating, I feel it's like online shopping or job hunting, you talk to too many people at the same time, it's just lack the romantic flavor. I'm more of getting to know one person at a time person.
We texted daily right now, mostly silly cartoon pics. Not much of real communication. I'm just too direct to play aloof, I probably just ask him directly about meeting up, it won't kill me, lol.

Posted by Smilebhappy0715Try POF 10x better than OKC.Posted by cluelessgirlTry OkCupid. Like just try it. If nothing else.. You can weed bad eggs out quickly. Believe me I'm all about romance but I also value time. And it let's you get a good glimpse of people before you decide whether or not to engage with them. Like I'm positive my profile probably says "responds selectively" lol
Thanks @Smilebhappy0715 and @FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 for the advises.
But @Smilebhappy0715 I probably won't get online dating, I feel it's like online shopping or job hunting, you talk to too many people at the same time, it's just lack the romantic flavor. I'm more of getting to know one person at a time person.
We texted daily right now, mostly silly cartoon pics. Not much of real communication. I'm just too direct to play aloof, I probably just ask him directly about meeting up, it won't kill me, lol.click to expand
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I think You gotta relax a little bit. You guys have just been casually texting/emailing. Asking about your idea of a perfect date and stuff is a basic get to know you question. Believe me I totally know that Cap mystique can totally make you feel like it's more.
Second..
Go on your dates. First off, he doesn't have to know about them. Second, doesn't mean you have to marry the guy. Or even kiss him. My cap dumped me, I was so heart broke but I immediately got on dating websites mainly to get my confidence back. (Recommend okcupid fyi lol) we recently started talking again, I let him know I went on a date or two but nothing physical happened (truth) and he wasn't mad, we weren't together.
so.. Yeah. Date girl, date. He has never had any claim or hold on you.
Third..
In my experience with Caps.. It's like they have got to have if they want you. It's a mission, it's their cause and for the most part you have no doubt about their intentions.
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From what I've been reading, they do take it slow sometimes. But you know what? Life is short! You gotta keep on keepin' on lol date! If it's meant to be, it will be! Don't take this to heart. Get on a dating site where you have like a sea of choices so you don't have to worry about just one. Don't be a whore lol but there isn't anything wrong with getting to know a few guys all at once. Just eventually simmer down with one. Lol
My best friend always said, they're all wrong until one is right so you can't get stuck on this guy who is making no effort! He is wrong, maybe for just right now.. But if it's meant to be it will be. Knowing caps, his silence might not have anything to do with you.. He might have other life stuff stressing him out.. So don't sweat it girl. Let him go! (For now anyway)
And if he pops up and emails/texts you. Let him make the moves, stay aloof. Don't you initiate making plans... Let him be the man and he makes the plans.. But maybe hint if you want lol they can be shy.