confused about sag guy...

so, i have been hanging out with a sag guy for a month now, but we have known each other for a little over a year. everything was great at first, and now he seems to be pulling away from me. i am a cancer so it could be that i am too pushy and i may be scaring him, idk. also, i just got out of a 2 year relationship, so i know it bothers him b/c he thinks he is just a rebound and nothing else. i really value his friendship overall, but i would like to get to know him better, only he is pushing me away already. he has had a crush on me for months, and now that i am hanging out with him he is so distant.
before he was begging me to hang out with him, and now when i ask him to do something he gives me an excuse not to hang out...i don't get it. should i back off and not contact him anymore? will this allow him to chase after me, or will he just forget me? any advice is appreciated...thanks!

Hi Moonchild. I have been with a Sag for over 15 years some good some not so good. One thing I know for sure is that mine is always thrilled with the idea of the chase. It's kind of like the thrill of catching a big beautiful fish, looking at it and then tossing it back in to try to catch another one. Also, while you were attached to someone else there wasn't much threat of you becoming commited to each other. Saggies I've known are very light-footed in that they like to go where they want when they want and do what they want whennever. Sooo I guess my advice is to just sit back and do your own thing and show interest when he shows interest, but never be clingy. Who knows maybe he's even scared of his own feelings. It's hard to tell at this point in the game. Just go slow and be versatile. GOOD LUCK.

Hi again..I saw the post on the the Sag board and took Archer's answers into concideration too. I think after pondering a bit that the chaser DOES like to be chased as well. To a point that is. And yes they are EXTREMELY open and blunt and mine has no shyness at all expressing any emotion whether it's love, distate, anger, tears, friendship,lust,anything but......insecurity. My Sag will on occassion talk himself down,and speak of improvement but never can I or anyone else bring those same things up or else it's WAR. 'Course that's the one I know...Boy they sure can be cuddly, sentimental and just plain lovable. So many moods and faces in this sign really you'll want to take the time to really KNOW him. If your Sag has a dark side you should be finding that out because the dark here is pitch pitch black and the light side is the same.....the brightest you will ever see shine!LOL

yes, he is extremely moody!!! that is one of his downfalls 😢
and also his moon sign is aqua, so he has a lot of aqua characteristics, especially when it comes to one on one relationships. but, he is a very logical person and i have yet to see his emotional side...i think he hides it very well (typical aqua traits!!!)...but i LOVE that he is logical, witty, very intelligent and extremely goofy...i am very comfortable around him and it's nice to be able to feel that way with someone. but like i said, i have yet to see emotions and he is a little cuddly, but not too much (which is good)...it seems the only time he is more touchy feely with me is when he has been drinking...
personally, i think he is hiding a lot of his feelings from me, and i understand that he is being cautious...but i hope he doesn't continue to be that way ...

the dark side is that he is very anal, very moody, and he has a BAD temper...so at least i already have seen that side of him through knowing him for a year.
the worst part is that he is regimented, like i said to archer...and he hasn't had a girlfriend in so long that he doesn't know how to act...he is very much accustomed to being on HIS own schedule, if you know what i mean...not much time for me...

oh, one more thing...what is funny is that when we hung out one night as friends a while ago (before we started hooking up)he told me that when he has a girlfriend he does everything with her, includes her on everything and would rather be with her than be with anyone else, or do anything else. so, it seems weird that he is acting the way he is now. but i guess it is b/c technically i am not his girlfriend. we are still in the getting to know each other phase!