Curious about this gem

I didn't get much feedback about this elsewhere, so I figured I would try here. First off, I'm a virgo (with a scorpio moon). My track record with Gem boys has not been great at all. In fact, I tend to stay away from them at all costs (although, I get along well with the gem girls). However, over the past month, I've been growing closer to a Gem since he first began speaking to me. At first, I tried to keep him in the friend zone because of a developing relationship with a cancer, but that fizzled fast after the cancer moved on to someone else. Even before then, I found myself liking the Gem, but I didn't want to put him (or myself) in a position where I'd be leading him on. After the cancer disappeared from my life, I continued to speak to the Gem casually, but I found myself liking him more (even more than the cancer). We clicked very well, and I could honestly say that it was the first time in a long time that clicked with a guy on a mental AND emotional level. He made me feel very comfortable, and it was also the first time in a long time that I felt like I wasn't putting in more effort than was needed. I could easily carry on with my daily activities and not worry about him in the slightest. He even said that he loved how motivated and dedicated I was to my work. He makes it easy for me to take things at my own pace, and I even felt comfortable enough to ask him out for some time together. Ironically, he turned out to be the very sign I could never warm up too, and he was also the kind of guy I tended to not be attracted to at times. He's incredibly sweet (maybe a little rough around the edges)and he actually seems to care for me. Anyway, I was curious and looked up his chart, and this is what I got (I don't know his birth time, though):

Sun Gemini
Moon Virgo
Mercury Taurus
Venus Taurus
Mars Aries
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Scorpio
Asc node Aquarius

How would this affect his general gem nature (besides the obvious, I guess, lol)? I've never clicked this well with a gem, so it makes me a little nervous, however I can tell he's quite genuine. I'm not relying on his chart completely, but I'm just curious. Here's my chart just for comparison's sake:

Sun Virgo
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Virgo
Venus Leo
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Sagittarius
Asc node Aqua

Well you both have a few similiarities in your charts, thus that could explain why you both click alot more than all those astrology websites/books claim. Sure, it could be possible that you didn't click with other Gems in the past b/c they were simply Gems, but don't forget that there are other factors OUTSIDE of astrology that affect/determine compatibility. Maybe you didn't click with those other Gems for reasons that had nothing to do with personality, but instead circumstance, for example.

This guy's sun is in Gem but his Moon & Venus symbolize how he loves and/or connects with others. So look at it this way, instead of reading up on how Gem's love (Venus), look into how Taurus' love and/or connect with others, & it might make a little more sense to you. And since your Venus is in Leo, it's almost as if you can look at this situation as if there is a Taurus & a Leo friendship/relationship moreso than a Virgo/Gemini thing. Like you said best, don't put all your eggs in the astrology basket and/or start messing up the flow of things just b/c of what "astrology" says. If you're feeling him, go for it & let things happen & flow as they should. Don't start over-analyzing or wondering why it's working, b/c honestly, there really is NO book or website (astrology) that claims it's NOT possible at all for these combinations to work.

You 2 have alot of similarities in your chart, thus that might explain why there was an automatic/immediate mutual understanding/connection b/w you two. Plus, this guy might really have his ish together, & we all know that has ALOT to do with how well we click/vibe with someone. Don't be nervous or focus too much on things just b/c he's a Gemini. If you're vibing, go for it! And especially if you feel you are defying the odds. Those are the best friendships/relationships!