@dietdrpepper
15 Years
Does it take a while for Virgo to say the L word
I can't speak for Virgos. I have to say I am in the same situation right now. Been dating 3 months now and it does feel like longer. We too don't see each other much between kids and work, plus the distance we live from each other. I am giving it another 3 months before I expect those words...if they come at all. Or even 3 months just to see how much our relationship blossoms.
Dude 3 months is kinda early to drop the LOVE bomb. True, the pisces I'm dating said it after a month in a half, but that kinda made me sit up and wonder if he was serious, over analyze and stuff.
It's been 3 months! Give the man some time!! Calm down, no need to rush things, especially when kids are involved.
BTW I'm 32 with 2 kids.
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And, does it even matter if he says it when his actions and other words show how much I am cared for? It's been 3 months, but being parents with jobs, a little slow to start compared to "normal" relationships?
He is 45, I am 37.