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CancerianGoddess
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17 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

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What was it like in your house growing up? My house was chaotic, my parents had 8 kids. Yea, it was a mess sometimes but we made it work...

My mom: Pisces
My dad: Virgo
Oldest sister: Scorpio
2nd oldest brother: Leo
3rd oldest brother: Gemini
ME: Cancer
5th sister: Aquarius
6th sister: Capricorn
7th sister: Capricorn
8th Brother: Saggitarius

My dad was my hero, and my favorite sibling .. My gemini brother...

So what was the astrological mix in your house growing up?
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aquarius21
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14 Years

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mom: cap
dad: libra
bro: cancer
sister: scorp

me: aqua

lol growing up i hated my family. i was the black sheep and seriously bumped heads with my mom. we're cool now and the arguments we get into r small and harmless compared to b4. dad was always working but he was the only one who stuck up for me (fellow air sign! lol). my bro was a mama's boy (cancers love their mommies baaah lol) so he always sided w/ my mom. we don't talk @ all. im closer to my sister even but we get into occasional fights.

i don't hate them n/e more but i still think they suck. it'd be cool if i had fire (except leo lol) and other fellow air signs in my fam. its was me a positive sign vs 3 negative signs =P
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LostPisces
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19 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by MadameAthena
I wonder how your dad and older sister got along?

Virgos and Scorpios bump heads sometimes. Power Struggle.



Because sometimes Sun signs dont play the master role in a relation. (thats my case, Aries plays much bigger role in my case)

PS: I have invented a crazy wild form of showing your 3 most powerful signs and also to calculate a match with another person. (see Relationships & Astrology)
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LostPisces
@LostPisces
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I grew up with my father, mother and brother. With whoom I had many conflicts:

Father: Taurus
Mother: Aries
Brother: Aries

But my father even being a taurus I had many discussions with him, he wanted always to be right, and for him I was always wrong.

So now I can prove it, I ivented a crazy form with 3 power signs instead of one sun sign.

Father: FFCM4222 - Leo, Taurus, Cancer, Gemini
Mother: CFC522 - Aries, Leo, Libra
Brother: CMM322 - Aries, Sagittarius, Virgo
Me: CMM322 - Aries, Pisces, Gemini

Note that my father has 4 powers.... and a super Leo. He is a really amazing person, but I discussed with him until I quited. With my brother and mother we just clash with each other, mainly because my biggest power is Aries afterall and conflicts with theirs.


Summing all up:

My Father and me:

We clash at gemini
Cancer clashes with aries

My Mother and me:

We clash at aries and she overpowers me

My brother and me:

We clash at aries
Virgo Clashes with gemini
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brianafay
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19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

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Dad: Aqua
Mom: Leo

Me: Sag
Sister: Aqua


My parents were teen parents. They did their best. I never knew we struggled. I had very loving and supportive grandparents on both sides. My mom's parents are both Caps (my heroes, favorite people in the world.) My dad's father was a Taurus and his mother a Scorp. They had a bitter divorce, hated each other, but loved us and were good to us separately.

My sister and I are only 13 months apart. We fought a lot in middle school/high school, but had each other's backs at the same time. No one messed with just one of us, we were always a team (even ganged up on our parents.) Became closer as we got older. We get on each other's nerves in large doses, but we get along.
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LostPisces
@LostPisces
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Completing relations between all my family. I have/had big conflits with all of them. My brother was sometimes neutral as a child but as a grown up he just seems a diffrent person, we conflict in a form that wounds never get healed. When adult my relation with my parents was getting worse all the time also.

At the opposite side, My parents get along with my brother just fine. So at home there's always 3 against one.
When I got away from home my brother got very jelous of me because I have a much better life in all aspects and then he started alot of new big conflicts.

My parents discuss alot themselfs and when they discuss is explosive, and it is almost daily, impossible to mediate.

With all this I was lost, with no confiddence, with no expectations for this life.

Then My love one appeared and she saved me!

Me: Aries + Sun Pisces + Gemini Ascendant
My Love one: Capricorn Sun + Libra + Sagittarius

My relationship with her sums up to a perfect match of my Gemini ascendant along whith her Libra.
Other main signs neutralize eachother. Any discussion is solved rather rapidly.
My Sun in pisces and her Sun in capricorn are opposites attracting.



Detailed RELATION MATCH Calculation with my family with whoom I grew up:

Me: Aries + Sun Pisces + Gemini Ascendant
Father: Leo Ascendant + Sun Taurus + Gemini + Cancer
Mother: Sun Aries + Libra + Leo Ascendant
Brother: Sun Aries + Saggitarius Ascendant + Virgo

My Parents:

My father??s Gemini match well with my mother??s signs.
Sun Taurus conflicts with my mother, and my mothers Libra cant compensate it
My father??s Cancer causes an enourmous conflict between the two, time to time

My Father and me:

His Leo ascendant is ok with me.
But his Taurus, Cancer and Gemini clash with me, and my Pisces Sun can't compensate it most of the time.

My mother and me:

We clash sometimes and when it happens its an inferno, but only when my gemini ascendant cant cope with it.

Me and my Brother:

We clash almost all time and there is no compensation possible most of the time, no turning back...

My brother with our parents:

My father is rather nice with my brother,
Few conflicts happen and only when my brother??s Sagittarius ascendant cant compensate.

My brother and my mother get along fine, they have few discussions.
My mothers Leo ascendant and my brothers Sagittarius ascendant compensate the Aries clash.


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leilaxxlovez
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Me : Cap

Dad: Virgo
Mom: Taurus
Sister: Virgo
Sister: Virgo

My parents hardly fought...like, i remember just detecting some kind of harshness in my parents' voices would get us 3 nervous. So never happened around us. I was the blacksheep, middle child lol and I always fought with my younger sister about everything. Now, that we're all teens and stuff, me and my mom have power srtuggles that I will always remember..it's like this thing that won't stop. I wish I had a sagi big bro or something...EARTH EVERYWHERE IS DULL...
My mom is a strong woman...you will never see her sad or anything, but when we do, it's heartbreaking. My dad is super stubborn! I mean really. He's quiet...if he talks, then you know it's important, very soft spoken. When my sisters and i would fight, he would tell us to stop. My mom would come there and be the sunshine breaking through the clouds... 🙂
My sis excelled at everything, straihgt As, me and my younger sis tried to carry on with the trend...my dad talked about achievements, goals, blahblah...it was a big thing in our family, still is! When we fight, it is big. the tension in the house is crazy. Takes us forver to get over it... :-/
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Lady Aries
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16 Years

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Ongoing war!

Dad Aries/gem: cool guy. Got a long with everyone. Can lose his temper at a drop of a dime if things don't go his way. So he was a mean guy at he same time.
Mom aqua/leo: pill and a half. She needs everyone to be her friend, at the same time she must let us know she is better than all of us. Ha she treats a house full of Aries that way and wonder why no one runs to console her. very mental.
Me Aries/scorp: the protective older one. Quiet, but never hesitates to get in people's faces.
Sis Taurus/cancer: ha! This the one I tend to forget I had. She will side with anyone who will benefit her most. Family or not.
Sis Aries/Pisces : there are two of these (twins) they got a long with everyone. I think it is safe to consider them our peace treaty among the whole household. They got along with everyone in the house allthewhile none of the rest of us can get along with eachother.

The Aries in the house are uber private about everything, but aqua/Leo and taurass blabs to the world. Good thing we have a friendly nature and forget easily. Parents have screaming matches everyday. Dad put up with the mom for 30 years until she said, "I'm leaving for real this time." He said, Awww. He was sad for a full 90 seconds and left with a gf. My mom has been threatening the family to leave all these 30 years.... We tell her to leave and she's confused (cancer influences I think). Hahaha I just aired my dirty laundry. No. No. I'm not bitter at all. I'm just glad my youngest two won't be suffering life long issues. Only trauma caused by their eldest's torment on them all these years.

this is our normal day-in, day-out. Ought to visit us during the holidays.
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LostPisces
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Lady Aries, thats matches that I do, work also with family members, do you want me to do that? Maybe you can understand your mother better.

Thats why I Believe in the formula, I confirmed first with my own family, and I was atonished.

For instance, I have the worst of relationships with my own brother, we are tottally opposites. The formula says exactly the same, there is no point of return, negative relation all the way.
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nimbue
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dad-sag/scorp cusp
mum-aqua/pisces cusp

sister-taurus
sister-leo/virgo

brother-cap/aqua cusp
brother-capricorn

everyone walks on eggshells, as if they're afraid to disturb the mass of emotions everyone has inside them. detatched, i'm the only person who raises important issues but mostly i leave them to it cos i literally can't be bothered to be the fall out guy all the time. my mum understands me. bonus, i suppose.

the only person who didn't internalise was my dad. but, ah he was a little too demonstrative 😄
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fishoutofwater
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when I was little I lived with my grandmother who is aquarious and I am a pisces and it was peaceful. Then I moved with just me and my mom and she is a sag and when I was younger we never saw eye to eye and it felt like we were two totally diferent people. She is into education and I am singer who loves music and the arts and really never like school I thought it was a waste of time. When we would argue it was like hell because I needed the space to be free and she wanted to have control. Now we are really close and I think that it all came from learning to understand and accept eachother I'm 24 now. But whats funny to me now is that when my grandma the aqua and my aunt the cancer and me the pisces are around eachother the energy is so calm a peaceful and when my mom the sag comes the energy becomes more dramatic its just cool for me to see how we all interact its so hilarious because my mom is really dramatic.