recurring themes in significant relationships

well, yeah. how many times have you built strong connections with the same zodiac sign, whether it's a work colleague, best friend, parent or s.o?

i seem to have a natural affinity with sagittarius males. dad was a scorpio-sag cusp (Nov. 24). first ever crush in school, a sag. he was the funniest boy in my class. nothing ever happened, i was like 12? but we formed quite a strong bond. first tryst of a sexual nature- a sag. first boyf, yup, a sag. one of my best male friends...and just recently, the guy i was with...sag, scorp rising.

it's making me curious how many others have the same thang going on?

as a pisces, i love how i can relate to sags. they may be explosive! but they have so much wit, warmth and generousity about them. it's like they can be your own personal ray of sunshine. up for adventure. loves to travel, and mostly they challenge you intellectually. right, i'm off to bag another sag!!

Posted by Reason
oh, nimbue, how sweet to know 🙂

now, am i supposed to talk about pisces in return?

.. oh, may i take a pause, lol?

oh, stop it you love us really :p

so you're a sag? that explains the username!

Posted by PiscesPosterBoy
Aquarius 🙂

My Mother's one, my Best Friend's one, My FWB/Lover/Other Best Friend's one. Can't get enough of em 😛

aww, that's lovely 🙂 they must get your watrs all shook up

it sniffs of sag! a broad expression of soundness, wisdom and rationality...🙂

i love that description! yes, utterly bottomless, just dress it up with a little bit of cranky attitude so it's not too obvious :p

no, i still love him. i might always? my heart sings his name. and whatever will be, will be. moving upwards!

For me its gems, aquas and cappys

I do realize that I tend to gravitate towards Taurus a lot, my first love was a Taurus, my summer fling was a Taurus and now my ex also an Taurus.

I have a lot of this. So far I seem to have significant relationships with these:

-Cancer moons. These people seem to seriously gravitate toward me out of anyone. I usually love them back too so it's nice. I often find myself having the hardest crushes on men with a cancer moon. I don't have crushes often either. The females are just as awesome as long as their sun isn't in cancer. I have a hard time being friends with cancer sun women and I grew up with one. However, one of my closest friends is a Libra sun/Cancer moon and she kicks so much ass it's not funny.

-Taurus sun people, particularly those born in April through the first 2 weeks of May. I am usually attracted to the men at first but it fades quickly and turns into genuine friendship. I have a lot of strong platonic ties to Taureans.

-Those with strong Leo influence in their chart EXCEPT when in sun. If they have a Leo moon or rising then it's one of the best! Actually, my best friend of 11+ years is a Taurus sun/Leo moon person.

All in all, as I repeat myself, I attract, and am attracted to, water and earth people the most. Fire is always 50/50. I like them but they can really bug me if they don't keep the ego in check. Air is just... too flippant and non-chalant. Don't get me wrong, I love them too, but there is no real getting close to them unless they have strong water or fire placements. I harbor a kind of intensity and that can be too much for true air signs.

My reoccuring theme is Virgo...

One of my oldest friends (since 2nd grade) is a Virgo
My best friend from 8th grade to 10th grade is a Virgo
My current boss who I've become rather close to in the last 6 months is a Virgo
A friend I made at work in the last 2 months who I feel I could become close to is Virgo
My current best friend is a Virgo....

So much for Leo & Virgo not being very compatible!

Its hard to say. At different points in my life, I attracted alot of different signs. Consistently, I would say it's AQUARIUS.

I reconnected with an old friend a few months ago from elementary school and she is an Aquarius. It feels like we have never stopped talking. Most of my friends are either Aquarius, Gemini or Virgo.

My uncle, who is a mentor and father to me is an Aquarius.

My first crush was an Aquarius and so was two of my exes.

The Former Director of my Dept. was an Aquarius. She did a wonderful job and truly admire her work ethic and leadership abilities. The New one is a pisces, god help us. Neopotism destroys. lol

Aquarius without a doubt.

Two of my closest friends are Aqua's plus there are another couple in my wider circle.

Romance wise these are the ones I seem to attract/be attracted to the most, along with Scorpio.

Posted by MissPirate
Aquarius without a doubt.

Two of my closest friends are Aqua's plus there are another couple in my wider circle.

Romance wise these are the ones I seem to attract/be attracted to the most, along with Scorpio.

what is your sign?

Two Taurus, Two Leos, Two Capricorns, One Aqua, Two Virgos, Two Saggitarrius...in no particular order.

Yah, no real pattern from what I could see in that..

My father is an aries....my mother was a cancer?

Not sure I really gravitate toward any sign in particular. Pisces is the only one I've seen two of (married one, big mistake and for the wrong reasons) - oh, let me take that back, I dated a Cap (whom I'm still friends with and can rely on him for anything and vice versa) and have another Cap whom, although haven't really dated, have a deep connection with and he wants me as his sig other, just our timing is always off (although it scares us both the connection we have), so that counts as 2 Caps I guess.

does anyone think these themes are karmic related?

Posted by nimbue
does anyone think these themes are karmic related?

good question.

Posted by nimbue
does anyone think these themes are karmic related?

they very well could be. i attract a lot of venus in scorpios. and honestly, sex is fucking mindblowing with them. i'm a venus in taurus, mars in cancer. attract a lot of firey scorpionic personalities, probably cause i'm heavily scorpio & aries too.

i almost think it's like an energetic rub-off. i get into modes where i'll be attracting ppl of the same sign for a period of time. like i'll be dating someone and then more will people of that sign pop up out of the woodwork, friends and suitors. right now it's sags & caps. before it's been libra, aqua, scorpio trend; you get the gist. the universe works in mysterious ways.

Taurs - My two best friends are taurs and I seem to attract them (my moms a taur)

Scorpios - I seem to attract them in my life. Mostly guys tho, and they stick around.

Leos - I seem to form powerful bonds with leos...I've found that a lot of them seem to get me.

Cancer and pisces, ahh. 🙂 My moon is in pisces,, so that may have something to do with it. 😉

Leos i get along well with, but not so much for a relationship.

Scorpio i have yet to meet one that i've gotten along with at the very slightest. (and my ascendent is scorpio) 😉

i attract a lot of geminis even though im a scorpio