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What comes naturally to each sign?
What Each Zodiac Sign Naturally Does and Struggles With
Each zodiac sign has natural strengths and challenges. For example, Capricorn and Taurus are naturally courteous and generous but may struggle with expressing feelings. Understanding these tendencies helps interpret their actions and know when to look for genuine emotional effort versus surface gestures.
Sag here.
Don't be too impressed if we flirt and talk to you a lot.
Be impressed if we take the time to hang out with you and put you before other people. That's truely someone special in our books.
LoL@PiscesPosterBoy! So that darn Pisces had me fooled, huh? He did everything I shouldn't be impressed by and I thought he was in love lol.
These are good yall! Learning a lot here.
Virgo:
dont be impressed if I tell you how you can improve things (anything!) 😉
do be impressed (and not quietly stunned or shocked) if I share my feelings with you
My previous post should have read:
Dont be impressed if I tell you what I think
DO be impressed if I tell you how I feel
Capricon here,
Don't be impressed if we are polite and helpful when with you
Posted by deepcappy
Capricon here,
Don't be impressed if we are polite and helpful when with you
Be impressed if we show different sides of us and we accept you for who you are not what you do, that mean we let many things slide 'cause we love you. If we give you advice and really try to help you that mean we care. If we become parental we are trying to protect and shield you from any harm even though we know it can't be done, we just want you in one piece.
Aqua;
Don't be too impressed if I drop everything I was doing to help you with your shit ! What would everyone do without us! 🙂 lol
What comes naturally:
Sincerity. Ever be in a situation and think, if I say something or step in, they might judge you? Yeah they might judge me, but heck if that will stop us. If we feel it that moment (and most likely we do) we act on it / say something. YES! I have been misguided and thought something was one way and it was another. And when I see someone in this situation I have a bit of compassion if they are sincere. I will fess up when I am wrong, if I did something wrong 😉, but it just comes natural to break the rule that says we must stay quiet and sit on our hands.
what you shouldn't be impressed by? .... not sure anybody will admit to being impressed by us. Maybe privately and off-record to try to get us in bed they will throw us a compliment.
I guess you shouldn't be impressed by our kindness, and think we are saints. Everybody has many sides and layers to them. Don't look at our shiny-happy-funloving and think that is all there is to us. We don't like being disappointed by our naive ideas and for sure we don't like being told we let someone down because we show our other sides and people thought we were just dumb and fun and "didn't think we would ever _____".
Pay attention to us when ... I am not sure. We may brood and be more self-centered than you might like at times, but just guide us and be gentle from time to time. We are great learners, we can become better and strike better balance with those in our life, we can be more faithful than you will ever will have a taste of ever again. All it takes is some tenderness and good faith and we surprise you in unsuspecting ways.
What do Aries struggle with?
Growing up and being something we are not. All people have to fit in this world to make it by. Yes it can work to our favor to do it on our own, or we find that next big job right after we get fired for telling the boss how it is. Still, there is something I at least struggle with, and that is being the perfect joiner just to please a boss. I want it good for all of us, and anything less I struggle with. I would guess other Aries find it hard like me to please everyone, I will let them speak as I don't think I can speak for all of them lol
i'm a pisces-aries cusp, virgo rising.
unimpressive: 1-ask a load of questions about you and take an interest. 2-flirt coyly/come off as charming. 3-have no problem hanging out with you.
impressive: 1-confide in you, about anything. even the seemingly trival things. 2-be comfortable around you, this is when the showcasing of flaws kicks in. 3-a randomly romantic gesture, a song dedicated to you or buying your favourite sweets, etc. 3-bringing you around my family. at that point, you might as well start shopping for rings :p
just realised i can't count.
*4-bringing you around my family
Virgo
Women naturally come to us.
What do we struggle with?
Getting rid of some of them!
Don't be impressed if I give you knowledge and depth, because that is just a snowflake on the tip of a big ass iceberg. I have to bring you in to give you the whole shabangabang. It's a Gemini thing.
Like Donald Trump's motormouth? 😛
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Like Donald Trump's motormouth? 😛
Nah, more like Jared Loughner. 😉
Irrelevant exhibit, he was always known to be a quiet/private guy.
Pay attention to us when ... I am not sure. We may brood and be more self-centered than you might like at times, but just guide us and be gentle from time to time.
lMm, My mother is an Aries. I've noticed the self-centered side of her quite a bit lately, she praises herself for being selfless and a martyr, when in reality I think she enjoys being the martyr because it gives her something to be proud about and complain about. She spent 2000 $ on breast implants, 17000 $ for law school, all recently and it's starting to get on my last nerve when she complains about my father spending the smallest bit of money for himself. I feel like what little ego Aries does have completely destroy's them because no matter how good you are you never really feel good enough. My mother has accomplished SO much in her life, and she's just spending money on things that she thinks will add value to her life. I don't know what the implants were all about; so uncharacteristic for her. I think I want to talk to her about what she's been acting like lately but as you said, tenderness..I must remember tenderness or else I know I'll hurt her. Aries come off strong but inside your weaknesses haunt you.
The strength in Aries truly does make them honest, brilliant, and faithful people. Absolutely consistent with success.click to expand
Yes we can be annoying, and especially to Scorpios. I had to live 6 months absorbing silent contempt from my scorpio ex. I get it, we suck. As far as being annoyed with her recently consider we are on a big upswing from a horrible 3-7 years of astrological mess in our lives. Taurus and now Venus crossing our sky this June brings a focus for material possessions and buying things that suit our life and coupled with Uranus and other planets moving in and out of Aries means for big upheavals and zany changes in our lives. It might suck for you as the daughter, but I bet your Mom deserves at least to live through this interesting time as fits her as an Aries. Basically this upcoming year(s) is our time and if it was your time, believe me I would be rooting for you Femininitywild.
Lol, we will never be loved, indeed ; )
You do try your hardest, Shaka, I'll give you that. Carry on. Maybe Tim Burneres-Lee or Clint Eastwood are better exhibits and meets your irrelevant standards. 😛
Leo... Don't be impressed if I approach you, am friendly, and a little touchy-feely. I am interested in getting to know you but it does not mean I want you for a lover. I am like that with everyone.
Do be impressed if I make an effort to stay connected and make you more of a priority.
Dont be impressed if im open and friendly with u,and take the time to help you.
Dont be impressed if im comfortable around you,if I defend you,or stand up for you when you are unfairly treated. Dont be impressd if i listen to u,and gve u advice or a shoulder to cry on.
Be very impressed if i notice everything about u. Means im rly interested in getting to knw u better. Be majorly impressed if i flirt with you,it means I have picked up on the connection btwn us,and i see a potential relationship.
Be very very very impressed if i show my emotions around you.means you have an effect on me.
And also, my rising sign is Aries, so I can relate.
I know chaotic energy.
Regarding your kind message after I got confused over your relationship with your mom I really give you a lot of respect for speaking your mind regardless of how you feel. I was worried I got a bit defensive of your mom and made you feel like you were being too weird about her (I totally didn't feel that, I just didn't want you too feel wronged by her quirkiness). I totally understand not understanding a certain person in your life, but I just want everyone in this world especially you, to know as long as they aren't completely ruining your life that there can be at least peace. My sister was done wrong growing up by folks in our life by telling her she had to do this or that cuz she was a woman etc, and I totally don't want that for anyone to happen, that crap bothers me to no end. Glad to see so many amazing folk like you around.
LOL be annoyed for sure! I am sure she can be just absolutely bonkers at times and you are like wtf. It's all good, I am sure you are chill in general, way to be, take care.
Posted by leilaxxlovez
Dont be impressed if im open and friendly with u,and take the time to help you.
Dont be impressed if im comfortable around you,if I defend you,or stand up for you when you are unfairly treated. Dont be impressd if i listen to u,and gve u advice or a shoulder to cry on.Be very impressed if i notice everything about u. Means im rly interested in getting to knw u better. Be majorly impressed if i flirt with you,it means I have picked up on the connection btwn us,and i see a potential relationship.
Be very very very impressed if i show my emotions around you.means you have an effect on me.
This was a great answer..I for the life of me can't answer this question..i dont know if that means something..I'm sure I struggle with a lot..but when it comes to relationships..i don't know what is a 'struggle' for me.
Posted by leilaxxlovez
Dont be impressed if im open and friendly with u,and take the time to help you.
Dont be impressed if im comfortable around you,if I defend you,or stand up for you when you are unfairly treated. Dont be impressd if i listen to u,and gve u advice or a shoulder to cry on.Be very impressed if i notice everything about u. Means im rly interested in getting to knw u better. Be majorly impressed if i flirt with you,it means I have picked up on the connection btwn us,and i see a potential relationship.
Be very very very impressed if i show my emotions around you.means you have an effect on me.
sowi,4got me sign. Capaqua cusper,aqua venus,pisces moon
Saggi - Don't be impressed if I smile at you a lot or joke with you or give you a nickname. Don't be impressed
If you ask me a question and I give an honest answer.
Be impressed if I show you my sensitivity. Be impressed if I tell the deeper "goings-on" underneath the smile. Be impressed if I attempt to hold my tongue. Be impressed if I attempt to wear a less revealing outfit because I see how insecure you get from all of the attention I receive.
Posted by leilaxxlovez
Dont be impressed if im open and friendly with u,and take the time to help you.
Dont be impressed if im comfortable around you,if I defend you,or stand up for you when you are unfairly treated. Dont be impressd if i listen to u,and gve u advice or a shoulder to cry on.Be very impressed if i notice everything about u. Means im rly interested in getting to knw u better. Be majorly impressed if i flirt with you,it means I have picked up on the connection btwn us,and i see a potential relationship.
Be very very very impressed if i show my emotions around you.means you have an effect on me.sowi,4got me sign. Capaqua cusper,aqua venus,pisces moon
But your answer sounds like if it`s from Libra!!
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i am simply myself.so if that sounds like a libra then so be it:-)
It so does nt:-o
Posted by GeminiMind
Don't be impressed if I give you knowledge and depth, because that is just a snowflake on the tip of a big ass iceberg. I have to bring you in to give you the whole shabangabang. It's a Gemini thing.Okay, fine, and do be impressed if or when . . . 🙂
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you speak and when you do! 😉
Cancer - don't be impressed if i ignore you.
...wait, what?
Aries/Taurus
Do not be impressed if I make you laugh, flirt a bit or dazzle with wit.
Do be impressed if I open up, talk to you a lot, introduce you to things that matter to me. DO be impressed if I pull you into my circle and include you in daily and mundane. Do be impressed if I'm about for you. Whether it's a shoulder to lean on ( or soak ) and definitely be impressed if I want to cook for you.
Posted by Mebs
Saggi - Don't be impressed if I smile at you a lot or joke with you or give you a nickname. Don't be impressed
If you ask me a question and I give an honest answer.Be impressed if I show you my sensitivity. Be impressed if I tell the deeper "goings-on" underneath the smile. Be impressed if I attempt to hold my tongue. Be impressed if I attempt to wear a less revealing outfit because I see how insecure you get from all of the attention I receive.
I love this Mebs, you are right on!
And, don't be impressed if I am friendly and talkative with you, don't be impressed if I loan you a little money.
Do be impressed if I show even a HINT of jealousy, do be impressed if I am quiet around you (might be nervous), and do be impressed if I always show up on time and rarely cancel a date with you, because that means I am really making an effort.
Don't be impressed if we lend a helping hand in your time of need..its in our nature, don't be impressed if I hang out with you every now and then cause its the only time I think of you..every now & then! Don't be impressed if we respond "briefly" to your text..we are not rude unless we have to be...
Do be impressed if we contact you,it means we are thinkin about you, do be impressed if we want to spend time with you,it means we think your special...do be impressed if we open up to you & let you in on our personal on-goings..it means your in the circle of trust. Do be impressed if we remember details about you you've shared in the past..since we are only in to details when we care about you..do be impressed if we want you around anytime we can have you...it means we feel as one since we like our alone time
@Claire thanks for the insight, i may have to stop stressing about my Cancer. unless this is gender specific :p
Oooo another..
sag again..
Don't be impressed if we have sex with you.
Be impressed if we want intimacy with you and want to be with just you
Don't be impressed if I fall over, spill something, knock something over or break something in front of you. Don't be impressed if I smile and talk to you, joke with you, maybe flirt with ya. Don't be impressed if I don't return your texts, phone calls or you don't hear from me in weeks...possibly months. Don't be impressed if I cancel meeting up with you a few times. Don't be impressed if I say the wrong thing at the wrong time.
Be impressed if I call you out the blue, respond to your texts and make time to share thoughts and feelings with you. Be impressed if I listen to you, and think before speaking. Be impressed if you make me laugh a lot. Be impressed if I always make time for you. Be impressed if I share the deeper parts of me with you.
Saggie x
So all you Pisces chicks, does this mean I should be impressed because my Pisces love intrest has totally opened up to me in the last year and let me into her bubble, asking for advice and telling me about her personal problems... I rarely initiate contact with her if we're talking online because I don't want to be a pain in the butt, she has enough of those hanging around her, so she has started to contact me instead
I'm Leo... you shouldn't be impressed if I'm super-nice to you after you've stroked my back 😛
You should be impressed if you can get me to truly commit to you, I hear Leos are womanizers... and having the moon in Cancer does not make things easier.
if forgot to add, if i cry in front of you, also be impressed 😄
Posted by enfant_terrible
So all you Pisces chicks, does this mean I should be impressed because my Pisces love intrest has totally opened up to me in the last year and let me into her bubble, asking for advice and telling me about her personal problems... I rarely initiate contact with her if we're talking online because I don't want to be a pain in the butt, she has enough of those hanging around her, so she has started to contact me insteadI'm Leo... you shouldn't be impressed if I'm super-nice to you after you've stroked my back 😛
You should be impressed if you can get me to truly commit to you, I hear Leos are womanizers... and having the moon in Cancer does not make things easier.
yeah, i would only initiate contact with someone i liked in that way. or she thinks of you as a friend. maybe you intrigue her? not being a member of her fan club :p
Aquarius...
Don't be impressed if we end up giving you advice or our "2 cents" even if you didn't ask for them. It's natural for us to feel the strong urge to bring a sense of logic to any situation or person that seems to be lacking it
Don't be impressed if back off, disappear & allow you to finish out your temper tantrums whenever you're mad at us or at the world. We're actually quite patient creatures who actually DON'T mind living/being without you until you get your ish together. And yes, there are actually people alive in today's world who can have fun & find peace/love all by themselves w/o needing the company or aid of others
DO, however be impressed if we're actually tonguing you down in public, telling you our deepest darkest secrets & professing our love for you in the 1st 6 months to all our friends & family without hesitation or a 2nd thought!
Posted by krysrenee7
Aquarius...Don't be impressed if we end up giving you advice or our "2 cents" even if you didn't ask for them. It's natural for us to feel the strong urge to bring a sense of logic to any situation or person that seems to be lacking it
Don't be impressed if back off, disappear & allow you to finish out your temper tantrums whenever you're mad at us or at the world. We're actually quite patient creatures who actually DON'T mind living/being without you until you get your ish together. And yes, there are actually people alive in today's world who can have fun & find peace/love all by themselves w/o needing the company or aid of others
DO, however be impressed if we're actually tonguing you down in public, telling you our deepest darkest secrets & professing our love for you in the 1st 6 months to all our friends & family without hesitation or a 2nd thought!
nothing but the truth
Aries (myself) - Pretty much anything that has to do with ourselves. Selfish trait, unfortunatley.
Taurus- Making $ $ $
Gemini- Talking (my current boyfriend)
Cancer- Love
Leo- Laughing, having fun.
Virgo- Critisizing*
Libra- Shallowness...
Scorpio- Deep feelings
Sag- Talking, Fun
Caps- Making money & giving others advice (my ex-husband)
Aqu- Great friendships
Piseces*- Freedom, yet deep thought.
This is JUST MY opinion & what came to my mind first =))
Libra
Don't be impressed if we had a great talk on the phone (or wherever ) that lasted for hours. . . our minds work like that with any person
Be impressed If i am with you on the phone ( or somewhere) and you didnt need to talk an it still lasted for hours.
Don't be impressed if I'm compassionate to your situation, don't be impressed if I agree to hang out with you in your comfort zone,don't be impressed if I'm here to listen when you feel the need to talk...we feel and we are always compassionate & sympathetic to others its who we are it comes naturally.....Do be impressed if I share my inner-most feelings with you..my secrets,my sorrows,my insecurities, Do be impressed if I bring you to my home my santuary, do be impressed if I want you to hang with my family..I don't introduce to the family unless I'm keeping you! Do be impressed if I want you around more often then not...it means I genuinely love your company & want to be in it as often as possible
Don't be impressed if I am flirting with you. Most of the time I think I'm just being friendly. Don't be impressed if I offer to help with something. That's just the kind of person I am.
Do be impressed if I make time to spend time with you, especially if it's on a regular basis. Do be impressed if I allow you near me or cuddle up with you. Do be impressed if I reallystart opening ip to you, more than just the small things, and start including you in my life.
Forgot to mention that I am a leo.
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And what do each sign struggle with?
In other words, don't get too impressed or excited if he/she does "this" for you, but pay attention if they do "that"..
I know that Capricorn men are pretty generous with money. Not in a sense that they give it away, but when it comes to dates etc. they will most likely pay. Also, Capricorn and Taurus are gentlemen type in that they will open and close doors. It's natural for them, so its easy to think that you mean more to them than what you do by them doing these things, but that may not be the case. This is the easiest and sets a good impression, so don't get too impressed by it.
What seems to come hardest for these two signs imo, especially Taurus, is voicing their feelings towards you. A Capricorn male will probably have an easier time, because he will probably lie, but you can tell sometimes by how fast or nonchalant they are when they say certain things. If he can't dig and give an answer that has heart and depth behind it, then keep it moving until he can. If these guys would rather lose you then finally put effort in and do something they normally struggle with then possibly it's not worth it.
Anyone else want to chime in? Hopefully this will be a little bit helpful to us ladies, and us all really.