Gemini Woman

Hi! I met this gemini woman at the office. She was Always looking at me and I became interested in knowing her, so I arranged a meeting (I really needed to talk to some people from her department, so I just choosen her as one of 4 people).When we met she was delighted to see me, just like "Ooooh it's you!" and gave me a cheerful smile and a big hug. I was amazed and after talking about business we talked a lot about ourselves. She talked about so many things about herself I was amazed.

After our long talk, she said the loved to meet me and we should talk more one day, and I couldn't lose the chance to invite her for a coffee two days later after work. At first, she said she would be working late night and we may try. One hour after the normal working hour she saw me still in the office and sent me a message saying she didn't knew I was there waiting, she was sorry to have let me waiting that much but she would not be able to talk to me that day. I laughted and said her it was ok, we could meet another day and I was leaving, and 2 minutes after my message she asked me to wait, that we could met and she needed just about 5 minutes.

That night we talked a lot, a real intelectual estimulation like I love (I'm a libra man and intelectual and sexual estimulation are a must, and good looking too lol) and it was clear both of us felt absolutely at home with each other. It was amazing as I hadn't experienced for a long time. I was surprised she oppened her personal life and even some details about her daily routine she never said to anyone because she think is weird, and she also said that she broke up with her husband 6 months ago and already met someone who is already talking about marriage and she thinks it's too early. Well, she showed herself absolutely vulnerable to me without any question from my side, she just started talking a didn't stop until I dig deeper into spiritual and personal growth. She was amazed, she loved to hear so many things I know and I felt amazing with her as myself never felt with my 2 years girlfriend.

We said goodbye, she thanked me for our night together, and said about meeting again. We exchanged some texts through the next days and I said her I'll be leaving the company for another challenge, and on my last day I got to the office really very early in the morning (6 am) to let a Lindt under her keyboard, since I've noticed she is very discret at the office, and me too, like a good libra.

I sent her a message saying how much I appreciated meeting her in my life and how she is special, and that I had left a small gift for her under her desktop keyboard, to preserve our discretion in the office. She loved, said she was really very happy to read my message and to have met me in her life too, and right after she arrive at the office she sent me a second message saying she loved the gift and asking me wha time would I leave the office, because she wanted to say goodbye and give me a kiss (not a romantic one, sure).

We met at the hall, we were both clearly without many words to say, just looking and smiling to each other, and she gave me two hugs and kisses, and I said her I would be around to meet her again many times yet, and she agreed smiling.

Well, that weekend something really unexpected happened at the company and I had to stay for undetermined time, so at monday I was back and I said her what happened. We exchanged a few messages about the situation, she laughted and we talked about meeting again after the work. From this day (last week) we exchanged few messages, including one where I said her that I like clear and objective communication and that she could talk to me on WhatsApp without ceremony, and that I was saying that through message just because our encounters at the office are very brief and both of us are very discret, but I'd prefered to say that personally.

She just said she was very, very busy and she was going to answer right when she could give me the attention deserved. I said that's ok and she sent me kisses. I sent her kisses back and she didn't even saw my message. This was last Friday, almost a week ago, and since then I didn't sent any message, neither received from her.

I'm really interested in her and want to take this to another level within the proper time, but I'm not sure she is really interested or just being nice or playing. To be honest, my intuition never failed me before, and it says that she is interested, maybe even confused because she already have a boyfriend (a very anxious one, for what I could notice from her words), and is very busy and maybe thinking about what to do or not with me, and she just can't answer until she's ready or have her mind clear. I'm not sure.

Opinions, please!

Hello, a Gemini here....we’re very fickle and actually very big on loyalty. I think she’s feeling very shitty about the whole situation and I’d not be surprised if she genuinely liked you. However if her Boyfriend has opened up and explained himself and stuff she’ll stay with him for sure because she clearly likes him enough to not just end things. We usually snip things in the bud right away if we know we don’t like it. She ...hung on which makes me think she likes him him.

Also no actual cheating went on? Again geminis are ...sneaky, we like to bend the rules a lot. She never actually cheated on her boyfriend but she was testing the waters with you maybe? Have you thought that she didn’t quite realise until after what you said. And then she thought “oh shit...I’m about to become a cheater” and stopped everything?

I’ve been in awkward situations at work because... I flirt like crazy, and I push boundaries but I don’t realise how bad until things get awkward... then I reflect on them.

I have an example of a Geminis way of thinking

“Fluid Is juice!” (Gemini)

“No juice is from a fruit!” (Cancer)

“Not always! What about eye juice huh? Yeah, that’s what I thought” (Gemini)

“Huh...” (cancer)