My Gemini Girlfriend

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Aquarius213 on Sunday, September 30, 2018 and has 20 replies.

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@Aquarius213
9 Years

Hey guys i need some advice on a very confusion situation in my relationship..

I'm an Aquarius and ive been dating my Gemini girlfriend since last November..

Everything was great until April when she cheated on me with her ex..

Her excuse for this was she was drunk and didn't know what she was doing..

The next day she calls my phone crying begging me to forgive her..

Now here's where the story gets tricky..

During her explanation of what happened she said that she was very drunk and forgot what happened..

but then she says the only thing she remembers is that her ex was forcing himself upon her and even tho she repeatedly

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@Aquarius213
9 Years

..even tho she repeatedly told him "no and stop"he wouldn't stop

basically trying to make it sound like he took advantage of her..

Months have passed since that situation and i forgave her..

Recently he has been coming to her house to "chill with her brother"..

in my head I'm thinking why would let someone into your house who took advantage of you and basically raped you?

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@Aquarius213
9 Years

Her excuse for this was "I can't force my brother to not chill with him"..

Also we recently found out a couple weeks ago her ex a 22 year old man was having sex with a 15 year old..

And i recently found out she follows him on every social media platform

even after she told me she had him blocked on everything..

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@Aquarius213
9 Years

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by Aquarius213

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by WarDog

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

She’s full of shit. If she was so drunk she couldn’t control herself how can she remember saying no? If she said no why hasn’t she gone to the Police?

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-life/11811538/New-evidence-proves-drunk-rape-victims-can-remember-their-attacks.html

So where is the police report if it happened as she said?

Exactly..

Offer to go to the station to support her and see what she says.

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Good idea i just might do that

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@Aquarius213
9 Years

it just sucks to think she might be lying about being raped or "taken advantage of".

and it sucks to think she might've cheated on me with a pedophile

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@bkbella86
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Posted by Aquarius213

Her excuse for this was "I can't force my brother to not chill with him"..

Also we recently found out a couple weeks ago her ex a 22 year old man was having sex with a 15 year old..

And i recently found out she follows him on every social media platform

even after she told me she had him blocked on everything..

She’s a fucking liar. If you continue on with her the lies will get bigger and it could be something that will really hurt you. Heed the red flags before they slap you in the face.

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Posted by Aquarius213

Hey guys i need some advice on a very confusion situation in my relationship..

I'm an Aquarius and ive been dating my Gemini girlfriend since last November..

Everything was great until April when she cheated on me with her ex..

Her excuse for this was she was drunk and didn't know what she was doing..

The next day she calls my phone crying begging me to forgive her..

Now here's where the story gets tricky..

During her explanation of what happened she said that she was very drunk and forgot what happened..

but then she says the only thing she remembers is that her ex was forcing himself upon her and even tho she repeatedly

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@777
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by JanMayMarry

Posted by nanobot

This ex already sounds like a sexual predator. 22 year olds don't have sex with 15 year olds.

But yea, lets ignore that and just focus on her being a hoe, because she is a gemini and was cheating - but actually might have been raped.

This site is so disgusting and fucked up sometimes. Just sick

LoooL! Exactly...I am leaving this site, soon forever. I am getting married next month so it is best to just leave astrology once and for all.

Geminis has always been the hoes. 😆

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Getting married after 3 months lol

You dont waste any time

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by nanobot

This ex already sounds like a sexual predator. 22 year olds don't have sex with 15 year olds.

But yea, lets ignore that and just focus on her being a hoe, because she is a gemini and was cheating - but actually might have been raped.

This site is so disgusting and fucked up sometimes. Just sick

And it’s the same dudes out here with the same line of thought. Why doesn’t she report? She would report if it really happened?

Her own boyfriend doesn’t believe her and thinks she’s a ‘cheater’. Really inspires one to go to strangers when your own ‘loved ones’ label you a ho and refuse to believe you. Smh.

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Posted by Aquarius213

..even tho she repeatedly told him "no and stop"he wouldn't stop

basically trying to make it sound like he took advantage of her.

If you don’t trust her then this relationship means fuck all.

Also, you didn’t forgive her like you claimed. Don’t be fake and say you have.

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by nanobot

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by nanobot

This ex already sounds like a sexual predator. 22 year olds don't have sex with 15 year olds.

But yea, lets ignore that and just focus on her being a hoe, because she is a gemini and was cheating - but actually might have been raped.

This site is so disgusting and fucked up sometimes. Just sick

And it’s the same dudes out here with the same line of thought. Why doesn’t she report? She would report if it really happened?

Her own boyfriend doesn’t believe her and thinks she’s a ‘cheater’. Really inspires one to go to strangers when your own ‘loved ones’ label you a ho and refuse to believe you. Smh.

Yep.. ignorance really. "If they didn't report it to the police, then they are lying" yet most victims don't do that .... well because... just look at this thread. No one will believe them.

This thread and the OP is particularly annoying to me because this aqua has accused her of cheating just because she was a gemini in the dating phase a year ago. Then he accused her of cheating with his best friend because she touched her hair in his presence. Additionally, he's come in here talking big: "Oh I will just dump her, I won't tolerate it"

And yet here he is, making these threads being a beta a year later. Hating his gf, resenting her for a year now for various things, yet too weak to break up with her. Saying that he's forgiven her for potentially being raped but is very angry and hateful towards her still. I hate weak azz men

Check his topic history

Ok I browesd and found some gems...

Posted by Aquarius213

I love her very much and i would never do anything in any type of way to betray her trust.

Except when she comes to you in confidence about her ex forcing himself on her and you a) don't belive her and b) take it to the internet to badmouth her with strangers calling her a ho.

Great job not betraying her trust.

This one also made me chuckle..

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I notice everytime they talk to each other they both make a lot of eye contact and sometimes when he walks into a room she'll touch or lightly fix her hair.

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God what a whore! Touching her hair??! Slut.

I have the scarlet letter ready. Shall we brand it into her forehead so the whole world will know?