Help me if you know about Capricorn Males!

Ok... so a great guy friend and I became more than friends about three years ago... and we have been on and off romantically ever since. However, he rarely tells me what he is feeling, and it is very hard for me to read him. Everytime we see eachother, which is every few months, because we dont live in the same place... things go back to romance again. I however, though I really care about him, and could see potentially dating him, dont think that the romance can continue without more commitment. I know Cap males dont talk about feelings, or the future much, and I would love advice from anyone who knows more than I do. He tells me he loves me all the time... I just dont know if thats an, I love you like a friend I love you, or more than that. At times, he can really go back a forth between hot and cold, and its confusing. I also dont want him to feel backed in to a corner by me bringing up some big conversation.... because i dont want to do that either... just a little clarity would be nice.

lol....you'll never know.

Blonde~ You have just brought up a very taboo topic!! LOL They're alot of women who have been scorned by cappies on here, there's a few who have made it with their caps but not many. I have been married to a cap for almost 14 years.

First of all what you have described is very typical cap behavior. And on getting them to discuss their feelings, good luck, my cap still has to be poked at for awhile before I can get him to open up. Now if you wanna know if he loves you as a friend or a lover, you need to be straight up and specifically ask. I say specifically b/c if I don't say specifically what I want to know then my cap will give a varied answer to try and throw my off the actual question. Back him into a corner if thats what it takes to get answers. You need to be one step ahead of him at all times (a difficult task).

If you look through the capricorn board, you'll find alot of useful info from other women with caps.

Good Luck....