How do you deal with hot and cold behavior?

Curious to your approach when someone becomes hot and cold with you. Leo I'm talking to is like this and it drives me nuts but I try my best to play it cool like it doesnt bother me lol 😎

Seriously, how do you guys deal?! Do you play along, run away, call them out, etc?

Posted by wiseblood
If you don't speak up it's going to keep happening.. If it bothers you, say so. If you play along, then you're just on for the ride. I try to save myself time and heartache by making what I want clear from the get go.. The right person won't play games but the wrong person will make themselves apparent when you lay out your standards.

Actually I have called him out recently. I told him to let me know if he isnt interested since it appears that way and he said that he is very interested in me, he has a lot of shit going on. He wont explain what so I left it at that. Then he got back on his "hot streak". Im paranoid he is going to pull the same shit again but we'll see.

Posted by RooSagicorn
Leo guys? I think that means they aren’t all that interested. Or are not sure about the situation.

How about how do you get rid of one? 😂😂

That's what I assumed! Haha but he recently reassured me he was very interested. He just wont explain wtf is going on with him! Haha leos man...

Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by Viper7717

Posted by RooSagicorn
Leo guys? I think that means they aren’t all that interested. Or are not sure about the situation.

How about how do you get rid of one? 😂😂

That's what I assumed! Haha but he recently reassured me he was very interested. He just wont explain wtf is going on with him! Haha leos man...

Pay attention to the actions not necessarily the words. Plus sometimes they want something but can’t do it. So you get to choose what you put up with.

click to expand

Very good point! I'll definitely keep an eye out for that. I think I wont be waiting around much longer if theres no action soon anyway lol

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
Don’t show weakness cause if you do. They will use it against you.

Interesting. I usually act aloof when it happens and disappear altogether unless I'm really into the person, then I call them out for it lol. Guess I should stick to aloofness lol