Hurt Libra or is he gone for good?

I'm a cancer woman in my 50's and just broke up with a libra man in his 50's yesterday. We are madly in love and planned on marrying next year. We have children from previous marriages and we live in different states, but I have no doubt that he's been honest as I have been with our relationship. He's a womanizer at times and I've called him out on it several occasions. Yesterday was the last time I've decided to deal with this issue.

I text him and told him of his short coming and that I was moving on and for him not to text or call just enjoy him view because I was through. Life is short and I want a man that will love me for me and someone to build with. Can I be sure that he will/has moved on as I heal and move past this relationship?

Well for starters it has only been a day, so it would really depend on if he even feels like he's wrong. If he doesn't see a huge problem with what he did then it may take a while for him to reach out even correct his ways. At the end of the day most men are flirts, ESPECIALLY Libra men I hate to say it but it's true. Finding a man that won't look at other women, or lightly flirt is going to be extremely hard. Finding a man that's respectful enough not to cross the line with his flirting or to do it in your presence is a bit more realistic. If he's a womanizer I'm sure you knew this about his personality before you got into a relationship with him, therefore you knew he was a bit of an attention whore. Trying to get him to rid a side of his personality completely after he's been this way for 50 years, is again, unrealistic. I would suggest he tone it down to a respectful level and learn not to do it in your presence since he knows it upsets you.
My dad is a womanizer too, he loves women, period, BUT there's no other woman on the planet more beautiful and unique to him other than my mother. They??ve been divorced 24 years, and my dad is still very much in love and would drop any woman at his side to have a 2nd chance with her. My dad would make cat calls, flirt heavy but he would never put another woman before my mom, plus he never made her feel uncomfortable with his flirty nature when she was around. One time he pressed his luck and got caught damn near breaking his neck to look at another woman while in the care with my mom, and my mom told him she could easily snap his neck to give him a better view if he doesn't stop. Lol. They laughed and he apologized.

Basically what I'm saying is, I understand you not wanting to feel like your man is desiring other women. No woman would, and you feel you are getting far up in age to waste time repeating yourself. However again, I must reinerate he has been this way for a very long time, which means it's not going to turn around over night. I do agree you needed to light some fire under his butt to make him understand you mean business, but if you are madly in love as you say, then I'm not certain I think you should walk away. Sure he needs to know that you will and can walk away if he doesn't straighten up, which is why I suggest you give it a little times to cool off on both sides, and when he comes after you, because my best guess is he will once he's had to cool off and see what life is like without you for a week or two, then that's when you let him know —Hey, I understand you enjoy female attention, but when it gets to the point that I feel disrespected because of your need for attention from other women, we have a problem. You need to learn some boundaries; I should never be out with my man feeling like you are desiring the next woman because you make it so damn obvious. Now if you cannot tone it down to a respectful level then keep it moving.??

Posted by Dymundz
I'm a cancer woman in my 50's and just broke up with a libra man in his 50's yesterday. We are madly in love and planned on marrying next year. We have children from previous marriages and we live in different states, but I have no doubt that he's been honest as I have been with our relationship. He's a womanizer at times and I've called him out on it several occasions. Yesterday was the last time I've decided to deal with this issue.

I text him and told him of his short coming and that I was moving on and for him not to text or call just enjoy him view because I was through. Life is short and I want a man that will love me for me and someone to build with. Can I be sure that he will/has moved on as I heal and move past this relationship?

How rude...You telling him of his short comings...WTH? If your moving on then move on. Why does it matter if he doesn't? Do you...and worry of nothing else. You weren't in love with this man or you wouldn't have dumped him so quickly. Find a man you can love unconditionally..short comings and all.

I thought the same thing, but I also dont believe in being disrespected. If i tell you I dont like something and you continue to do in my face,then i will assume you dont care about my feelings which is a big deal we would need to cancel before we walk down that isle. Being considerate of your partners feelings is huge especially if you intend to spend every...single...day together until death do you part. Why set yourself up for divorce court, handle that shit now. Nip it in the bud. Quite frankly I dont see myself walking away because my guy flirts, Id leave because he was disrespectful with the flirting. If you disrespect me then you obviously dont love me, because that's not what love is. She has a right to tell him the real, and if he doesn't want to get it right then yea she should move on. Just because you love someone, doesn't mean love yourself less and settle for whatver they give.