I cant seem to give up on this taurus man! Want him back!

I am sagittarius and we dated for three months. He was inconsistency and that made me insecure. He called me needy and childish before. And when he felt like i started to being like that he just stopped messaging me and ignored me. thought he like the attention that i would be so submissive and trying to get him to talk to me. Because it happened lots of time and when he felt like that we wouldn't hangout. And yes i felt like he's a bit controlling sometimes. He thought that we were not a good match and i agreed. we stopped dating status and agree to be friends.
2 days After this agreement with no contact. He messaged me and i replied very shortly. He thought that i was ignoring him and he wanted to see me and had a talk. And he said that he misses me and want to try again. I said yes.

After that im more calm with his inconsistency and can feel like myself in this again. I even happier with myself who just tend to trust him and stop overanalyzing things. But he was too quiet and said that he has plan when i wanted to see him. Normally he would tell me about it but this time he just said that he has a plan. I left it at that and then he confessed that he think he met someone that he might like. Nothing happens yet. He just met her and he wanted to pursue things with her. Because deep down he has never truly believe that it would work between us. I said i was disappointed but we have never yet talked about being exclusive anyways. And he said i want you to stand for yourself. I just met this girl and i want to tell you first as i don't want to date two girls at the same time. I told him that i appreciate your honesty. And i want a week to think about it as he asked that if we could be friends. And i ask him not to contact me

That night he went out with the new girl and her friends. I got back to my flat and found that my bathroom glass door fell off the floor no idea how it happened and the glass just exploded all over my bed. I could contact anyone so i texted him i need some help and what i got from him was you know that i am busy tonight. That when i got so furious and didn't reply anything.
Today (6 days after the glass door incident) he msged me on Facebook (i deleted all his contact including facebbok) ask me if my flat is ok and what happened. I gave him some short ans and told him that i don't want him to contact me. Because its messing with my head. He said he's sorry and he wont do that again. He said he's just worried about my flat. I said i know you miss me. Even you aren't going to admit it. Or else you wouldn't msg me. He said no comment. You smartass! I said seriously i do like you and we had such great time. Think about it. If you don't want to try again. I wouldn't want you to message me anymore. And he said that he will think about it.

I know that he still like me but would a taurus guy say he will think about it ? If he wants to get back? What should i do to make it work more? Keep in contact or wait for his ms

How a Sag always deceive themselves like that (and don't pretend it's positive thinking cause that just lead you to another mistakes).
He definitely cheated you and took advantage from you. He wants to maintain a backup plan while he's continuing to search for others girl. If you keep continue with this guy you're the only one getting hurt.

Hmmm. Deja Vu

Leave him be.

Honestly... not to be mean or anything. You couldn't clean up the mess yourself? Why even contact him AFTER he told you he isn't going to go anywhere with you?

If a Taurus made plans with someone else, the new girl, he's there. He isn't going to leave there to help you clean up a mess.

He said things are not going to work. Bulls are honest for the most part. Trust that. He said that he's looking at the other chick, trust that he's doing that. If you want to be friends with him, leave it as that. If you cannot do such a thing, leave that man alone.

You're going to end up being hurt, if you're not careful. This is a slippery slope.

Yes, he cares...if he didn't, he wouldn't ask to be friends, but that is ALL he wants from you. Yes, it hurts and yes, it sucks. You need to worry about YOU and not HIM.

Self-preservation time, darling. Walk or stay, but know what's happening if you stay...friendship only and you overanalyzing everything.

Don't you want someone who wants ONLY you? If so, keep it moving shorty. Someone out there is going to love the hell out of you. You can't and won't find him, if you're wasting your time on this dude.