I keep longing for a relationship but..

I keep longing for relationships, but sabotaging it whenever it comes why it sucks , I'm a libra sun, Scorpio rising,libra moon, venus in virgo, mars in Scorpio

How do you sabotage it?

If you really want to understand why you have a tendency to sabotage your relationships, you could probably benefit more from looking up your aspects on your chart...like for instance..I completely agree with you on the relationship tip..and I found in my chart that my venus and mars are square...meaning several things..

What i'm attracted to isn't what I tend to attract...

What I want, and what I do to get it are not working in my interest..

What I desire in a relationship and what moves me are two different things..

So yah and that was just from..one aspect...there could be several things that could explain how you feel the way you do...where your planets end up on your birth chart, what house they are in..your Eros sign, your Chiron sign.

Etc..etc.._??

Posted by mystiquelibra93
I keep longing for relationships, but sabotaging it whenever it comes why it sucks , I'm a libra sun, Scorpio rising,libra moon, venus in virgo, mars in Scorpio

you're testing them subconsciously way too much, and you dont like what you see.

you end up being disgusted with them, and therefore, sabotage.

I'm guessing...and it's only a guess....that you are caught into wanting what you know isn't going to make you happy because you can't have it or think you can't have it. I can relate to these feelings you are having of being my own worst enemy in the love dept, and in my case I was a young woman who wanted the one I couldn't have because I didn't feel lovable and so choosing Mister Unavailable to Me was a way to avoid real intimacy. I needed to get Mister Unavailable to Me to fall madly in love with me as a way to prove that I was lovable. Of course, if he actually managed to do that, that would prove he's a loser....like me so there's no winning that game. I know. Really messed up but I played out a sad self-defeating script in my early days. Maybe you're not actually sabotaging your relationships but merely choosing the wrong ones. And if a man causes you to feel afraid and feeling not good enough, that's a red flag. Choose the man who makes you feel good about yourself. But Lisbeth above is also very right: you gotta work on feeling better in yourself b4 you can share love with another. You'll get there but the first step is the one you're now taking: realizing the pattern. Good luck!

Just flip the bird more often, it's good for health.