I need this off my mind

Soo! Leo and I hung out and we had fun. Leo and I made out and he wanted me, but because of how I am, I didn't give in. We cuddled and we both needed to go. I saw he was stuck in a parking lot and I helped him out and he asked me for another kiss to thank me. What baffles me, is that I had friends tell me he's not interested, but why in the world would he asked for another kiss in the first place? After I helped him, I walked away and he had to chase me to ask for another one. ANYWAYS! This guy is confusing because he didn't text anything after that and treat it as if nothing happens. Currently 6 months later, we're not talking. I'm not happy with it. I was wondering if you Leos or anyone experienced could help me approach him in a non-creepish way to bond with him again. I'm over my interest in him, it's more I want to be friends with him again. We've known each other for 1 year and a half. His birthday is August 7. Leo with Cancer moon and Venus(R) Mercury and Mars in Virgo. I was thinking of going over to his place, but your advice is welcome. You can ask for details.

Posted by libraqueen
Go over to his place? He clearly wants just sex because he didn't seem to care for you for 6 months. And a kiss is just a kiss. If he's trying to get into your pants and he thinks a kiss will make it easier he will kiss you. Don't be naive. Astrology aside you're setting yourself up for a situation that doesn't seem to be in your favor.

Most likely the case.

Although, he won't chase if she rejects him. She said no, he walked, she's still curious.

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Posted by libraqueen
Go over to his place? He clearly wants just sex because he didn't seem to care for you for 6 months. And a kiss is just a kiss. If he's trying to get into your pants and he thinks a kiss will make it easier he will kiss you. Don't be naive. Astrology aside you're setting yourself up for a situation that doesn't seem to be in your favor.

Most likely the case.

Although, he won't chase if she rejects him. She said no, he walked, she's still curious.

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Well, because I don't open myself up easily unless we're mutually committed.. I left details out because no one cares unless they asked. I just went straight to the point in this post. Anyways, we talked a bit afterwards, but didn't mention the hangout. I think it's awkward, but I should've brought it up. He sent me stuff from Reddit to laugh at, I didn't respond because I forgot. I texted him and he didn't respond which lead to this. He has an ego and pride issues and it doesn't help that I have them as well.

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Posted by libraqueen
Go over to his place? He clearly wants just sex because he didn't seem to care for you for 6 months. And a kiss is just a kiss. If he's trying to get into your pants and he thinks a kiss will make it easier he will kiss you. Don't be naive. Astrology aside you're setting yourself up for a situation that doesn't seem to be in your favor.

Most likely the case.

Although, he won't chase if she rejects him. She said no, he walked, she's still curious.

Well, because I don't open myself up easily unless we're mutually committed.. I left details out because no one cares unless they asked. I just went straight to the point in this post. Anyways, we talked a bit afterwards, but didn't mention the hangout. I think it's awkward, but I should've brought it up. He sent me stuff from Reddit to laugh at, I didn't respond because I forgot. I texted him and he didn't respond which lead to this. He has an ego and pride issues and it doesn't help that I have them as well.

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They're not issues. They are part of him. It's who he is. They are issues to those who can't accept someone for who they are.

He sent you stuff to say hey and see what's up. You couldn't be bothered to even send an lol reply so he bounced. It's becoming more clear now

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Posted by libraqueen
Go over to his place? He clearly wants just sex because he didn't seem to care for you for 6 months. And a kiss is just a kiss. If he's trying to get into your pants and he thinks a kiss will make it easier he will kiss you. Don't be naive. Astrology aside you're setting yourself up for a situation that doesn't seem to be in your favor.

Most likely the case.

Although, he won't chase if she rejects him. She said no, he walked, she's still curious.

Well, because I don't open myself up easily unless we're mutually committed.. I left details out because no one cares unless they asked. I just went straight to the point in this post. Anyways, we talked a bit afterwards, but didn't mention the hangout. I think it's awkward, but I should've brought it up. He sent me stuff from Reddit to laugh at, I didn't respond because I forgot. I texted him and he didn't respond which lead to this. He has an ego and pride issues and it doesn't help that I have them as well.

They're not issues. They are part of him. It's who he is. They are issues to those who can't accept someone for who they are.

He sent you stuff to say hey and see what's up. You couldn't be bothered to even send an lol reply so he bounced. It's becoming more clear now

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At the time, I transitioned to becoming a manager. I have a lot of my plate. He knows this. No one can be that sensitive if the other person is busy with work over play. I even tried to apologize. He even MIA on me several times, but you don't see me crying because I keep myself busy.

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Posted by libraqueen
Go over to his place? He clearly wants just sex because he didn't seem to care for you for 6 months. And a kiss is just a kiss. If he's trying to get into your pants and he thinks a kiss will make it easier he will kiss you. Don't be naive. Astrology aside you're setting yourself up for a situation that doesn't seem to be in your favor.

Most likely the case.

Although, he won't chase if she rejects him. She said no, he walked, she's still curious.

Well, because I don't open myself up easily unless we're mutually committed.. I left details out because no one cares unless they asked. I just went straight to the point in this post. Anyways, we talked a bit afterwards, but didn't mention the hangout. I think it's awkward, but I should've brought it up. He sent me stuff from Reddit to laugh at, I didn't respond because I forgot. I texted him and he didn't respond which lead to this. He has an ego and pride issues and it doesn't help that I have them as well.

They're not issues. They are part of him. It's who he is. They are issues to those who can't accept someone for who they are.

He sent you stuff to say hey and see what's up. You couldn't be bothered to even send an lol reply so he bounced. It's becoming more clear now

At the time, I transitioned to becoming a manager. I have a lot of my plate. He knows this. No one can be that sensitive if the other person is busy with work over play. I even tried to apologize. He even MIA on me several times, but you don't see me crying because I keep myself busy.

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all this new info. When you come on here asking for advice, the entire story really helps. I retract all past comments. Good luck

Posted by fairytale
Soo! Leo and I hung out and we had fun. Leo and I made out and he wanted me, but because of how I am, I didn't give in. We cuddled and we both needed to go. I saw he was stuck in a parking lot and I helped him out and he asked me for another kiss to thank me. What baffles me, is that I had friends tell me he's not interested, but why in the world would he asked for another kiss in the first place? After I helped him, I walked away and he had to chase me to ask for another one. ANYWAYS! This guy is confusing because he didn't text anything after that and treat it as if nothing happens. Currently 6 months later, we're not talking. I'm not happy with it. I was wondering if you Leos or anyone experienced could help me approach him in a non-creepish way to bond with him again. I'm over my interest in him, it's more I want to be friends with him again. We've known each other for 1 year and a half. His birthday is August 7. Leo with Cancer moon and Venus(R) Mercury and Mars in Virgo. I was thinking of going over to his place, but your advice is welcome. You can ask for details.

What's your set up?

Sun and moon, please 🙂

It just sounds like both of you are just not on the same page. Best if you just go your separate ways. I'm sure he got a bit stung you rejected him. I mean that is natural. Ego, and pride be damned. Nobody wants to be on the losing end of something. It is also very difficult to judge off of your posts, but maybe things were going along smoothly, and your resistance kind of killed the vibe.

Anyway, as someone who has pride and ego, I will tell you that it would probably be difficult for me to accept a "friendship only" from a woman I am attracted to sexually. Especially a woman who there was mutual interest and attraction to, and who I dated. Being friends would only create sexual tension, confusion, and unnecessary drama imo. I also feel like you still like this guy, but due to insecurities, commitment issues, w/e you want to call them, you want to use the friends approach to buy yourself time, and keep the guy around and "see what happens". That is cool if both of you are on the same page. So communicate your intentions very clearly, and if he accepts then by all means proceed.

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Posted by libraqueen
Go over to his place? He clearly wants just sex because he didn't seem to care for you for 6 months. And a kiss is just a kiss. If he's trying to get into your pants and he thinks a kiss will make it easier he will kiss you. Don't be naive. Astrology aside you're setting yourself up for a situation that doesn't seem to be in your favor.

Most likely the case.

Although, he won't chase if she rejects him. She said no, he walked, she's still curious.

Well, because I don't open myself up easily unless we're mutually committed.. I left details out because no one cares unless they asked. I just went straight to the point in this post. Anyways, we talked a bit afterwards, but didn't mention the hangout. I think it's awkward, but I should've brought it up. He sent me stuff from Reddit to laugh at, I didn't respond because I forgot. I texted him and he didn't respond which lead to this. He has an ego and pride issues and it doesn't help that I have them as well.

They're not issues. They are part of him. It's who he is. They are issues to those who can't accept someone for who they are.

He sent you stuff to say hey and see what's up. You couldn't be bothered to even send an lol reply so he bounced. It's becoming more clear now

At the time, I transitioned to becoming a manager. I have a lot of my plate. He knows this. No one can be that sensitive if the other person is busy with work over play. I even tried to apologize. He even MIA on me several times, but you don't see me crying because I keep myself busy.

all this new info. When you come on here asking for advice, the entire story really helps. I retract all past comments. Good luck

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I did put ALL of my details in a post a few weeks ago and everyone ignored it because I assumed it may be too long for most people here. I tried the direct approach and it worked. I did say in my post that you're welcome to ask details/

Just text him see if you two can meet up. If he ignores then just move on. Guys don't really want to befriend a girl that they are attracted to once you have already begun the stages of dating.

Posted by Moonbutter
Just text him see if you two can meet up. If he ignores then just move on. Guys don't really want to befriend a girl that they are attracted to once you have already begun the stages of dating.

Well, I deleted his number a long time ago. Besides, I like to think of old school to settle problems. Just going over and settle in person instead of hiding behind a screen. If it's not received well, at least I tried and I can finally get over it.

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Posted by libraqueen
Go over to his place? He clearly wants just sex because he didn't seem to care for you for 6 months. And a kiss is just a kiss. If he's trying to get into your pants and he thinks a kiss will make it easier he will kiss you. Don't be naive. Astrology aside you're setting yourself up for a situation that doesn't seem to be in your favor.

Most likely the case.

Although, he won't chase if she rejects him. She said no, he walked, she's still curious.

Well, because I don't open myself up easily unless we're mutually committed.. I left details out because no one cares unless they asked. I just went straight to the point in this post. Anyways, we talked a bit afterwards, but didn't mention the hangout. I think it's awkward, but I should've brought it up. He sent me stuff from Reddit to laugh at, I didn't respond because I forgot. I texted him and he didn't respond which lead to this. He has an ego and pride issues and it doesn't help that I have them as well.

They're not issues. They are part of him. It's who he is. They are issues to those who can't accept someone for who they are.

He sent you stuff to say hey and see what's up. You couldn't be bothered to even send an lol reply so he bounced. It's becoming more clear now

At the time, I transitioned to becoming a manager. I have a lot of my plate. He knows this. No one can be that sensitive if the other person is busy with work over play. I even tried to apologize. He even MIA on me several times, but you don't see me crying because I keep myself busy.

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Being courteous in recognizing a sentiment, isn't really classified in the same category as, "play"

Basically, you ignored him and try to pass it off as justifiable by saying you were too busy for play time ... and I'm calling bullshit on that.

That wasn't you being too busy ... it was you being ungracious

Posted by fairytale

He sent me stuff from Reddit to laugh at, I didn't respond because I forgot.

You forgot.

He reaches out to you to make you laugh after a misunderstanding ... and you forget about him.

His sun sign is irrelevant here ... all people are going to become disillusioned once they realize that you're not even present .. you're somewhere in the ignorance of forgetfulness.



Nobody wants a partner who can't stay in focus of them, who cannot remember they are there.

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Posted by libraqueen
Go over to his place? He clearly wants just sex because he didn't seem to care for you for 6 months. And a kiss is just a kiss. If he's trying to get into your pants and he thinks a kiss will make it easier he will kiss you. Don't be naive. Astrology aside you're setting yourself up for a situation that doesn't seem to be in your favor.

Most likely the case.

Although, he won't chase if she rejects him. She said no, he walked, she's still curious.

Well, because I don't open myself up easily unless we're mutually committed.. I left details out because no one cares unless they asked. I just went straight to the point in this post. Anyways, we talked a bit afterwards, but didn't mention the hangout. I think it's awkward, but I should've brought it up. He sent me stuff from Reddit to laugh at, I didn't respond because I forgot. I texted him and he didn't respond which lead to this. He has an ego and pride issues and it doesn't help that I have them as well.

They're not issues. They are part of him. It's who he is. They are issues to those who can't accept someone for who they are.

He sent you stuff to say hey and see what's up. You couldn't be bothered to even send an lol reply so he bounced. It's becoming more clear now

At the time, I transitioned to becoming a manager. I have a lot of my plate. He knows this. No one can be that sensitive if the other person is busy with work over play. I even tried to apologize. He even MIA on me several times, but you don't see me crying because I keep myself busy.

Being courteous in recognizing a sentiment, isn't really classified in the same category as, "play"

Basically, you ignored him and try to pass it off as justifiable by saying you were too busy for play time ... and I'm calling bullshit on that.

That wasn't you being too busy ... it was you being ungracious

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K. How? I already told him. I initiated and try to hang out. It's okay for him to go MIA due to work, but I can't?

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He sent me stuff from Reddit to laugh at, I didn't respond because I forgot.

You forgot.

He reaches out to you to make you laugh after a misunderstanding ... and you forget about him.

His sun sign is irrelevant here ... all people are going to become disillusioned once they realize that you're not even present .. you're somewhere in the ignorance of forgetfulness.



Nobody wants a partner who can't stay in focus of them, who cannot remember they are there.

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What are you talking about? What misunderstanding? There was none. We just didn't talk about the hangout.

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Posted by fairytale
Soo! Leo and I hung out and we had fun. Leo and I made out and he wanted me, but because of how I am, I didn't give in. We cuddled and we both needed to go. I saw he was stuck in a parking lot and I helped him out and he asked me for another kiss to thank me. What baffles me, is that I had friends tell me he's not interested, but why in the world would he asked for another kiss in the first place? After I helped him, I walked away and he had to chase me to ask for another one. ANYWAYS! This guy is confusing because he didn't text anything after that and treat it as if nothing happens. Currently 6 months later, we're not talking. I'm not happy with it. I was wondering if you Leos or anyone experienced could help me approach him in a non-creepish way to bond with him again. I'm over my interest in him, it's more I want to be friends with him again. We've known each other for 1 year and a half. His birthday is August 7. Leo with Cancer moon and Venus(R) Mercury and Mars in Virgo. I was thinking of going over to his place, but your advice is welcome. You can ask for details.

What's your set up?

Sun and moon, please 🙂

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Sun in Aries Scorpio moon