Do you like to keep your eyes open or closed

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by bridgelover on Friday, June 17, 2016 and has 18 replies.

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@bridgelover
12 Years

during sex? And conversely do you like your partner to open/ close his or hers?
I'm curious about this and keep going back and forth as to my preference.......
I try to notice eyes in love scenes in movies. I think it runs about 50-50!

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@malloryor
12 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Open. I find it a turn on staring into my partner's eyes as they experience their own personal nirvana. But sometimes your eyes are closed just our of being in the moment.

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@CurlyAries
11 Years

Open for both me and my partner... occasional closing of the eyes is definitely fine. Especially when it signifies total pleasure 😄
lol
I just like intensity

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@bridgelover
12 Years

Lol
Posted by K_1018
I like them to wear a pillow case on their head. Doesn't matter if the eyes are open or closed

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@xtina
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Both.

Sometimes when you close your eyes it cuts off that sense so the other senses are heightened and I can feel a oneness with the other person. But also looking into their eyes creates a connection. Plus, it's a turn on to see them turned on.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
12 Years10,000+ Posts

I kissed a guy and realized that I close my eyes and he has them open why are you watching it. And I'm trying to feel the power of your kiss. Two different ways of display of affections I suppose.

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@bridgelover
12 Years

Thanks for the input. I've been experimenting! Firstdecantaureanwomen is right on. Why are we watching it? Keeping them open loses something individually soulful but has its own special "flavor"

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@Gennie
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I tend to close my eyes, since I'm pretty much blind without my glasses my eyes take on that doll-like glazed look. Kinda freaks my partners out, although my current partner has kinky tastes, I think the glazed look does it for him.

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@tbird
15 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

I have them both open and closed. and I like my partner to do the same. Just depends.

@Gennie - I just hopes he doesn't want you to sit in ice cold water before you put on the glazed look for him. lol

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@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Deep kissing are closed. During sex without kissing open n stare at each other's eyes instead ..! If kissing while sexing then close. 🙂

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@ariesdaredevil
10 Years

Open.

Closed eyes with open mouth with a good pitch of moan is also good.

Else close the eyes and bite the lips.

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@LynxSA
10 Years

Posted by LillyPetal
Depends on what's going on! 🙈³

Spot on! Lilly is like my favorite poster on here. It's like I'm quoting myself half the time ‚

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@Pnmee
10 Years

Both. If I feel shy or too excited of the moment I close my eyes. Also depends on partner. If it's just a lay it doesn't matter. If you have a relationship or are into them then prob open to feel the intensity.

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