Interested In Swinging

Hi All,

So lately I've been intrigued by open relationships and swinging. I'm more open to the idea of swinging as I prefer to be involved or there during the 'fun'.

Although my Sun and Moon are both earthy Virgo/Taurus and known for possessiveness or monogamy... I think my Venus/Mars (more so Mars - Sagittarius) has a lot to do with my curiosity and open mindedness to the idea.

Are there any couples/individuals here that swing?

If so, what are your signs?

Do you have any worries? (I.E. your partner enjoys sex with others more than you Or feelings are developed... visa versa.)

I recently became a webcam model - Pretty fun stuff!

Thanks,

Milani

Oh I could never do open relationships, especially not with my Jed. Imagining someone else putting their hands on him.......ooooh fuck no. Yeah it does product a massive stab of jealousy just thinking about it, and he thinks it's hilarious.

But on the cam thing, I've half-jokingly assured him that we'll become millionaires within 6 months if we go on cam and do our thing. He can't figure out whether I'm joking or not so he bounces back between ready to burst out laughing and looking incredulous.

Oh btw, we're probably open to a 3some camming 😄

The cam thing sounds hot - would love to watch :-)

Hey there ive just left a relationship of 6 years 2 and a half swinging. I am a Scorpio she was cancer she had worries at first as she wasn't comfortable with the idea of me with someone else but That changed. I was fine with it as long as I was there to enjoy the fun aswell. Please feel free to ask more info

These type of relationship dynamics just

Are set up for failure and wasting time.

People are looking for any reason not to have a real relationship. They think exploring there sexuality will help when in reality it will fuck them up more.

There are few exception but there are and these people just don't need to be in a relationship. It is only an elision of some emotional stability that obviously is not truly there...

The same is fwb...

Piscesmoon

Its not for me but one of my close friends is a swinger, he and his wife have been for 7 or 8 years, he says it pushes your limits and even when you know what to expect, you cant expect the depth of feelings and they also experience jealousy but he says its been worthwhile for them and get more out of it than the brief moments of jealousy.

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Posted by TaurusinTexas
Its not for me but one of my close friends is a swinger, he and his wife have been for 7 or 8 years, he says it pushes your limits and even when you know what to expect, you cant expect the depth of feelings and they also experience jealousy but he says its been worthwhile for them and get more out of it than the brief moments of jealousy.

And what does his wife say....hmmmmm?

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She also likes it, the jealousy was him talking about her doing it. It was her idea, she swings with both male and female, he only swings with women.

Hands up

Swinging couples are actually the happiest couples lol google them.

Don't get me wrong it's hard but very rewarding. A lot of resurch should be done and start of slowly only have social at first with like minded people. Another thing to remember while swinging that sex with someone else doesn't mean it's better having sex with each different person is going to be different. No two will be the same. For me now the problem I have is being able to trust that someone can differentiate the love they have for me withe the passion the get from a new experience and I'm not sure that's something I should have trusted my ex with and I a way I blame myself. I was always head strong with someone who I'm not in love with is just fun sex to me when I'm in love sex is very different.

Ain't nobody sliding into my girls vag but me

I think people who do are crazy and love drama. The highs.

it just happens when one of the two people is very beta and the other one is very dominant and self centered

Posted by piscesmoon2
These type of relationship dynamics just

Are set up for failure and wasting time.

People are looking for any reason not to have a real relationship. They think exploring there sexuality will help when in reality it will fuck them up more.

There are few exception but there are and these people just don't need to be in a relationship. It is only an elision of some emotional stability that obviously is not truly there...

The same is fwb...

Piscesmoon

Pretty sure you said something about bias and "nobody is perfect" in another thread.

And here you are spouting this.

Good job.

Scorpiomoon

Lool no insight into swinging at all here my advise try as a single person first and start with socials and clear boundries see how you feel then take it from there