Is he interested or playing games?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by ruffles on Monday, September 8, 2014 and has 4 replies.

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@ruffles
14 Years

Him: Sun in capricorn, aquarius moon, mercury capricorn, venus aquarius, mars taurus
Her: Sun in virgo, libra moon, mercury leo, venus virgo, mars gemini

He sent mixed signals, then said he just wanted to be friends when I was leaving. There's something about him that makes me think he fibbed though and I just freaked him out because I was a little too emotional.

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Posted by ruffles
Him: Sun in capricorn, aquarius moon, mercury capricorn, venus aquarius, mars taurus
Her: Sun in virgo, libra moon, mercury leo, venus virgo, mars gemini

He sent mixed signals, then said he just wanted to be friends when I was leaving. There's something about him that makes me think he fibbed though and I just freaked him out because I was a little too emotional.

But really, I don't see the game in this. He's being honest with you. He says he just wants to be friends. I don't see how that's twisted into a game.

Yeah, would have been nice if he told you this before you slept with him, but that's your fault for not clarifying things before giving your body to him.

I'm not judging you or anything, just trying to bring this perspective to your attention for future rference.

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@Este8
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When a man tells you he just wants to be friends after getting intimate with you, it means he does not that serious about you and isn't looking for a relationship with you. If he really cared about you and wanted to explore the possibility of a relationship, he'd never say let's be friends. He'd either saying nothing to keep the door open or ask you outright to be his girl. You're in the FWB zone and if I were you I'd move on.