libra guys.. why oh why

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by slowdance on Sunday, August 10, 2008 and has 4 replies.

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

''women who have been involved with libra men''

You just don't know I'm sorry to be a downer. Air signs get stuck in 'analysis paralysis' where they have to evaluate an emotion. However, with libra, they live for the idea of being in love but at the same time have to be very shrewd, logical and balanced. These can't be easy to live with as the two conflict.

How I usually try to sort out the BS is by getting them to talk through their actions - but as a Leo, you like flattery, and libra will deliver this in heaps so watch out!

Mental and emotional connection is strong between fire and air signs...

''what would be an obvious libra way of showing someone that they like/love them?''
There's not an obvious way - but they're usually very attentive, seductive, romantic, etc but may just be in love with love. Get them to see 'YOU' in a logical/cool/seductive manner - that's the only way you'll be sure.

I'll give you an example; my male libra friend was doing the same with a girl he just met - and I asked him, 'you know you're giving her the wrong impression with all that romantic crap you're doing?' and he said 'well I didn't mean to - you know I just love doing all this romantic stuff, I missed it when I was single'. I made him promise he'll think about the girl first before doing it and when he did, he said, I'm not sure I want to be in a relationship with her...still LMAO.

Prob didn't help you much - sorry!

Good luck

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

''i guess i'll just have to see how things play out.''

yea patience is needed - Libra's generally fair so he may want to see you giving back 50/50 by observing your actions.

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@lady-a
17 Years

hello all,
thanks for your multiple advices that's why i decided to join the forum. However, i need advices or better still other people's opinion on my issue. I dated this this libra men for four months, the communication, the sex, everything was great. However, too young to make my own decisions, we seperated because my parents did not approve of the way things were developing. Story short we kept in touch. All through he has been asking me to move on with my life and forget about him. At the same time, we would remember and talk about all our great moments. As if it was not enough, after talking with him about my feelings for him despite the years, he told me that he was with someone else and could not leave her just like that. However, the weeks after he came to my place. How am i suppose to interpret that? I am very confused? Could anybody help me read between this actions?

Thank you

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@b_bs4u
18 Years

@lady-a......I think it's the case of his caring side coming through. Him coming to your place wouldn't mean that something is on. Librans care for people in their life, even after they are gone. Doesn't mean that nothing is there. But if something is there, it will show through in his actions. In my opinion, just be patient and see how things proceed.