Long Distance with a Libra man, are we coming to the end?

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Scorpio9341
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7 Years

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Hi, I have been in a LDR with a Libran man for 2.5 years. I am a Scorpio. We have the most amazing times together and the biggest issue we’ve had throughout the relationship is not being able to see the end of the long distance. We have tried almost everything and the one thing that would end the distance is getting married so I can move over to be with him. He actually offered to do it in the beginning of the relationship as I had just graduated and would have to move home, a couple months before we planned to do it he freaked out and said he couldn’t do it. It’s 2 years later and we have just been flying back and forth, sometime living a couple months together. I have always been ready to jump in, wanting to close the distance as it is much harder for me. He keeps saying that he’s worried that we are too different and not sure we will be happy for the rest of our lives. He bought a plane ticket to come over and see me but then 3 days later told me he didn’t feel excited to see me after 6 weeks and just wanted to stay at home. I freaked out cause I was really looking forward to seeing him and this isn’t the first time plans have changed though it is mainly always due to his freelance jobs. We had a very long call where i was hysterical and refusing to break up. And the next day he said he still hadn’t changed his mind about not coming over. I didn’t reply his text for 4 days and he contacted me again asking to skype but I told him that if he needed more time and space he should take it. He said ok thanks and that was a good idea cause he is still up and down but doesn’t want to leave me hanging. What do you think the chances of us moving on and being stronger together are?
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DonnaLibra
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Not very good. We Libras are very intuitive and can tell if we could go the distance with someone (marriage). He may be afraid of your jealousy as Scorpios seem to get jealous easy and want to hold on too tight. I think you shouldn't hold out hope but start getting over him. If he comes back don't take him back unless he makes a commitment. Libras are not afraid to commit at all if they feel they have their soul mate.
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LibraSupreme
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It is very good to give a Libra space like you did but acting hysterical could have scared him away. I have had very good success dating scorpio women and I did love their intensity and passion but being a Libra air sign I did not like to feel the restraints that came with Scorpios. To make the relationship work with that Libra for any Salvage you would need to let him go back and forth with the pros and cons and there is a slight chance he could return as long as you let him know you have worked on yourself and not squeeze him.