Need help! Virgo women trying to win back Taurus man

I am a Virgo woman. I had a 3year long relationship with a Taurus man. He and I were perfect together. Just had a connection that people would die to get!
We Virgos we over analyze situations and often forget to appreciate things. I was understanding at first but then as soon as I started to get more involved, I started to analyse him more. It's wasn't bad. He'd understand.
Some of the analysis was my nature but some was because of the past experiences of mine that just prevented me to think good or trust anyone.
I often used to burst out on him.
Things got worst when I got sick. I couldn't handle my anger. I started analyze him more. And I wouldn't appreciate him and the things he did. He'd try to understand.
I can't say he made no mistake. In the starting, he was scared if commitment so he'd push me away because of little little things. Little fights. I was his world at first and he stopped all of a sudden, stopped treating me special. He stopped caring little by little. It was more like he wanted to care but he was afraid of rejection.
My constant nagging during the period I was sick and constant put bursts hurt him alot.
When I got a little better I tried to make up to him but he had already pushed himself away from me so much that my efforts were going to waste. That would make me mad. And me being a Virgo, I used to say it.
He didn't like to talk about things, problems. He avoided conflict so he'd leave things bad. I was the opposite.
Let me just say that these are just the bad parts. The good parts were 3 times more than this.
Right now he has lost his trust in me. He loves me, but he says he has lost his love for me. He is afraid of me that I will fight. He doesn't think we can be fine again (since I much better now). He wishes that it could be fine again, but he thinks it wouldn't be!
I tried to give him space, but I'm being honest, I'm very emotionally and physically weak right now so I wasn't doing a good job at keeping myself together.
I tried to talk to him but we'd end up fighting and bursting out on each other since he'd try not to talk about it.
He got really mad, he is hurt. He said he is starting to hate me. He doesn't want to see my face anymore. He said what little love he has for me is also fading.
I asked him to give it another chance.
But he just too hurt and he doesn't trust me anymore. He doesn't trust that I will be better.
Much of what happened was my fault. I was wrong to not appreciate him. He did so much for me. And I said really hurtful things to him that I didn't really mean and I'm really in deep shit right now.
Please help me.
How do I regain his trust? How do I make him see our connection again? How do I make him see how good we were together and that we just hit a rough patch?
I really believe that we can make it work. We just hit a rough patch!
I don't want to loose him. Please help!

Posted by busyeyes88
To be honest, I have a virgo mother and I could NEVER picture myself with a virgo male.. Virgos are too analytical for the sensitive taurus nature... You have pushed him beyond the will of tearing his own hair out which means he has put up with a lot of your shit for a long long time.....

My advice: give him SPACE... Gather yourself and concentrate on YOU. You will have to put yourself back together again he can't do this for you... Make improvements on yourself if not for this relationship but the next one....

You sound like you have an emotional and physical dependency and taurus would not like that.. You need to leave him be and work on you. If you don't, you will never get him back... He has lost confidence in you. You have sapped the life out of your relationship. Relationships are supposed to be fun and enjoyable...

Thankyou. You are right, when I got sick I became very dependent on him, emotionally and physically.
I know I ruined alot of the relationship. But I'm being very honest, if I hadn't gotten sick, I would never had been so over analytical about him.
I will try to give him space. But knowing him, wouldn't he just push me away even more? That is what I am scared off. I don't want him to give up on me.