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Do you find that your man/woman /significant other resembles that of your mother, or father's chart?
or maybe it is your children's? or someone you love dearly?

i find this is very signifcant in astrology.

i noticed that the charts of my ex's mother were very similar to mine, and also my current man's mother and grandmother. lol

i thought jeeeez. this is not coincidental.
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it's like your man is gravitating to the woman he sees , he LOVES, WANTS DESIRES....

is his mother? his grandmother? 😕

help. lol 😆

then i looked up lilith.

Lilith is the indicator of a man's desire and FEAR of a woman he is gravitating to.

Juno is the marriage indcator but Juno is the faithful, and Lilith is the darkness.

what's your man's, ex's, significant others astrology and their mothers, or fathers? grandparents?
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I haven't previously noticed this. I've only ever known my parents' charts, and never my partners parents' charts, so I have less to go off of. I've only know their sun signs. Only one had a pisces sun parent and she was batshit crazy.

If I had to make connections, I'd say that one ex had the same elements in their personal planets that my father has: 2 water, 3 air.

My s/o's lilith is in 0 degrees leo and his juno is in 0 degrees pisces. Funny because the mother of his kids is a leo but obviously that did not work out for him.

My other two ex's Juno is in cap, which I am not...however, I am cap dominant if that counts for anything.
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I haven't previously noticed this. I've only ever known my parents' charts, and never my partners parents' charts, so I have less to go off of. I've only know their sun signs. Only one had a pisces sun parent and she was batshit crazy.

If I had to make connections, I'd say that one ex had the same elements in their personal planets that my father has: 2 water, 3 air.

My s/o's lilith is in 0 degrees leo and his juno is in 0 degrees pisces. Funny because the mother of his kids is a leo but obviously that did not work out for him.

My other two ex's Juno is in cap, which I am not...however, I am cap dominant if that counts for anything.
how interesting!! one of my exs has juno taurus if i recall...and i'm not taurus but i am dominant taurus. how strange!!!!

i love the "connections".
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Do you find that your man/woman /significant other resembles that of your mother, or father's chart?
or maybe it is your children's? or someone you love dearly?

i find this is very signifcant in astrology.

i noticed that the charts of my ex's mother were very similar to mine, and also my current man's mother and grandmother. lol

i thought jeeeez. this is not coincidental.
No. They are all very different.Or feeling wise ..they feel different. dunno.
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did you look at your ex's mother's charts? i mean know their bdays? and their grandmothers?
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I haven't previously noticed this. I've only ever known my parents' charts, and never my partners parents' charts, so I have less to go off of. I've only know their sun signs. Only one had a pisces sun parent and she was batshit crazy.

If I had to make connections, I'd say that one ex had the same elements in their personal planets that my father has: 2 water, 3 air.

My s/o's lilith is in 0 degrees leo and his juno is in 0 degrees pisces. Funny because the mother of his kids is a leo but obviously that did not work out for him.

My other two ex's Juno is in cap, which I am not...however, I am cap dominant if that counts for anything.
btw, my current man's mother has pisces moon and his grandma is pisces sun. However i have to go look at his father's side. He is not close to his father's side, i think it's because they are the more colder version, meaning, they were never really WARM....in the way of being CLOSE to family. but i think it deserves a look into his father's side. They are the "Intellectual" side of the family, all ambitious types.

my ex, i spoke of before, has a pisces sun mother but i'm very very sure has capricorn and aqua...i mean ...lol she is with a man 30 years her junior. 😄 😄 that's a very capricorn/aqua trait. heeehee. 😄 😄
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or was it lilith taurus? i have to re look at all their charts again.

my husband's juno is perfect for me. and it sits in the house where i like. lol

his lilith is beautiful, just the way i like.


what is your current man's lilith, Scenic?
Lilith is 0 degrees Leo.

Does juno work the same with women?
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i have to look into juno with women.

i've read that lilith is the woman the man FEARS...but can't help himself because he loves her. He is going to be drawn to her no matter what.

and Juno, as explained here...

http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!juno-in-the-natal-chart-and-synastry/cskw


In Astrology, Juno represents the “good wife”. According to the myth, Juno was Jupiter’s wife. He cheated on her, yet she still stayed with him, and fulfilled her traditional duties. Think of Juno as the “Eve” of Astrology. Consider Juno as the antithesis of Lilith; Juno is seen as the ‘wife’, while Lilith is seen as the ‘mistress.’ Juno remains loyal and faithful to Jupiter regardless of his indiscretions, while Lilith disallows any man to cross her.





In the natal chart, the house and sign placement of our natal Juno reveals the kind of person we are meant to marry. While Venus and Mars represent our ideal mate, Juno represents loyalty and attachment. Juno represents what we need in a mate, rather than simply who we are attracted to. Many astrologers have gone as far as to say Juno represents our true love or marriage partner.
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or was it lilith taurus? i have to re look at all their charts again.

my husband's juno is perfect for me. and it sits in the house where i like. lol

his lilith is beautiful, just the way i like.


what is your current man's lilith, Scenic?
Lilith is 0 degrees Leo.

Does juno work the same with women?
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oh yyyessss no wonder your stellium leo man is drawn to you....you have capricorn. ^______^

you're his kryptonite. 😄
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https://starscopestoday.wordpress.com/tag/lilith-womans-chart/

One of my longest relationships featured a Lilith-Sun/Ascendant conjunction in synastry. I was the Sun/Ascendant person, while he was the Lilith person. It was a complicated, intense, spicy hot love affair that changed both of our lives.

In Hebrew tradition, Lilith was Adam’s first wife. Unlike Eve, Lilith was created from the ground, the same way Adam was created. She was highly sexual, but not out of desire for procreation. Indeed, she was not satisfied with traditional forms of love-making. Lilith refused to submit to patriarchal authority, and decided to leave the Garden of Eden. This angered Adam, and he threatened that if she didn’t return, 100 of the children she birthed ever day would die. Lilith, however, became angry and did not return to Adam. Instead, she continued to birth children (despite the fact that they were destined to die). She would seduce men when she was bored, then murder them or drive them to insanity. Adam eventually had God create Eve from his rib, as he found Lilith too difficult to handle.

Lilith in a woman’s chart shows how and under which circumstances her sexual energy is released. Lilith also relates to where and how we use our feminine power, and shows us the place where we hold vengefulness. Prominent feminists and women in positions of considerable power have strongly placed Liliths in their charts. Think Gloria Steinam and Hilary Clinton. Think Samantha from “Sex and the City,” who refused to submit to men in the workplace, and in bed. She had sex “like a man,” and didn’t apologize for it, despite societal expectations.

Lilith represents the temptress, seducer, and is often compared to a “home wrecker.” Lilith represents the scary side of women, and what men fear the most. The fulfillment of her sexual appetites and desires was what Lilith cared for the most, and any attempt to hamper her sexual self-expression was met with hostility and violence. Lilith is magnetic, and has the power to mesmerize those she comes in contact with. She uses sexuality to further her own goals, and takes no prisoners.

In a man’s chart, Lilith represents the type of woman he fears, and craves, the most. It is the type of woman that can drive him over the edge with obsession and desire. As evidenced in the story of Adam and Lilith, (many) men are inherently uncomfortable with sexually liberated and unapologetic who break the mold of Eve, who represents the “traditional wife”. They feel threatened by her, and seek to suppress and limit her, while affording themselves the rights to do as they please. This is why men label “promiscuous” women as “sluts”, yet congratulate themselves and one another for their own sexual conquests.
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or was it lilith taurus? i have to re look at all their charts again.

my husband's juno is perfect for me. and it sits in the house where i like. lol

his lilith is beautiful, just the way i like.


what is your current man's lilith, Scenic?
Lilith is 0 degrees Leo.

Does juno work the same with women?
oh yyyessss no wonder your stellium leo man is drawn to you....you have capricorn. ^______^

you're his kryptonite. 😄
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I've never heard of cap and leo having that sort of relationship, but that's interesting. I sort of figured it was an opposites attract sort of deal since all of our placements are close to being on opposite ends of the wheel. When that one person was giving out romance reports, they said our synastry chart balanced each other out due to the opposites and that our relationship would be very libra-like. That was interesting.

Anyway, thanks for the explanations on juno and lilith. I'm curious to know at least what the leo's mothers chart looks like now. We'll see if I can figure it out.
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also in that juno link....for synastry:

According to a study, certain Juno aspects were commonly found in the synastry charts of married couples, including: Juno conjunct North Node, Juno conjunct Juno, Juno trine Venus, and Juno trine Mars. If these aspects are not presents in the synastry chart of your and your mate, don't fret! Other Juno aspects are indicative of a potential marriage partner, as well.”‹


For example, my sister and her fiancé have several Juno contacts in Synastry. Her Juno in Libra conjuncts his Sun and Mercury. His Juno in Capricorn conjuncts her Mars.


My mother and father (who have been married for over 30 years), have strong Juno aspects in synastry, as well. His Juno conjuncts her Jupiter (a perfect match) and opposes her Mars. Her Juno opposes his Saturn/Mars conjunction.


Angelina Jolie’s Juno is conjunct Brad Pitt’s Descendant, and his Juno trines her Venus and Saturn.


Paul Newman’s Juno is opposite Joanne Woodward’s Jupiter, and her Juno is conjunct his Venus and Mercury, and opposite his Pluto.


David Beckham’s Juno is square Victoria Beckham’s North Node and Juno.

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Linda McCartney’s Juno is located in Paul McCartney’s first house, while Paul’s Juno is conjunct Linda’s Venus.


http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!juno-in-the-natal-chart-and-synastry/cskw
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or was it lilith taurus? i have to re look at all their charts again.

my husband's juno is perfect for me. and it sits in the house where i like. lol

his lilith is beautiful, just the way i like.


what is your current man's lilith, Scenic?
Lilith is 0 degrees Leo.

Does juno work the same with women?
oh yyyessss no wonder your stellium leo man is drawn to you....you have capricorn. ^______^

you're his kryptonite. 😄
I've never heard of cap and leo having that sort of relationship, but that's interesting. I sort of figured it was an opposites attract sort of deal since all of our placements are close to being on opposite ends of the wheel. When that one person was giving out romance reports, they said our synastry chart balanced each other out due to the opposites and that our relationship would be very libra-like. That was interesting.

Anyway, thanks for the explanations on juno and lilith. I'm curious to know at least what the leo's mothers chart looks like now. We'll see if I can figure it out.
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it's the draw to saturn and sun ....the love/hate....

opposites attract.


this also goes for any opposite attracts.

mercury loves/hates Jupiter.

venus loves mars, vice versa.

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i'm a bit hurt that you don't know i'm a man or woman lol

my hubby is scorp like yours i hope you remember now 😉. i did check my juno and lilith before but i cannot remember at the moment lol. the elements i was/am attracted to are virgo, scorp/pisces and libra. scorp has all 3 i guess that's why i married him. my parents charts lack those elements except my dad's pisces venus which i love
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There is a book called "Getting the Love you Want" that talks a LOT about this...not astrologically but psychologically and emotionally. All about how we instinctively go after a partner who has traits (good or bad) similar to one or both of our parents, and we do so in an attempt to heal our childhood wounds via this partner.
interesting. if you put it that way (bold), then how i instinctively do not go after traits my parents have actually means i do not have child wounds to heal? lol sounds great but in reality, i am aware that i bitch about how insensitive mom can be sometimes regardless how devoted and loving i know she is
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i'm a bit hurt that you don't know i'm a man or woman lol

my hubby is scorp like yours i hope you remember now 😉. i did check my juno and lilith before but i cannot remember at the moment lol. the elements i was/am attracted to are virgo, scorp/pisces and libra. scorp has all 3 i guess that's why i married him. my parents charts lack those elements except my dad's pisces venus which i love
maybe your partner has something in aquarius.

my man doesn't have any aquarius, but...still.
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Posted by ashley1734
There is a book called "Getting the Love you Want" that talks a LOT about this...not astrologically but psychologically and emotionally. All about how we instinctively go after a partner who has traits (good or bad) similar to one or both of our parents, and we do so in an attempt to heal our childhood wounds via this partner.
well this is astrology im talking about. Energies you gravitate to and are comfortable with.

so i guess in turn yes, i'm very comfortable with the energies of my man and he is with me.

we find comfort and security and love in our energies, phsyical presence, the way we love and act.
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There is a book called "Getting the Love you Want" that talks a LOT about this...not astrologically but psychologically and emotionally. All about how we instinctively go after a partner who has traits (good or bad) similar to one or both of our parents, and we do so in an attempt to heal our childhood wounds via this partner.
interesting. if you put it that way (bold), then how i instinctively do not go after traits my parents have actually means i do not have child wounds to heal? lol sounds great but in reality, i am aware that i bitch about how insensitive mom can be sometimes regardless how devoted and loving i know she is
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I wondered the same thing as I have been reading the book. If I come up with an answer I will tell you haha. I think we all have things from early, early childhood. The reason for this is that no parent is perfect and no parent can meet all of a child's needs. So from an early age, an age we probably cannot remember, we have these deficits. I didn't have a rough upbringing, and certainly no abuse or anything of that nature, but it is evident to me that there are still wounds and holes and I completely see traits in partners I pick that are similar to my dad...good AND bad traits.
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There is a book called "Getting the Love you Want" that talks a LOT about this...not astrologically but psychologically and emotionally. All about how we instinctively go after a partner who has traits (good or bad) similar to one or both of our parents, and we do so in an attempt to heal our childhood wounds via this partner.
well this is astrology im talking about. Energies you gravitate to and are comfortable with.

so i guess in turn yes, i'm very comfortable with the energies of my man and he is with me.

we find comfort and security and love in our energies, phsyical presence, the way we love and act.
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Oh I know, I was just suggesting the book as well because it is a similar concept. And actually the men who have exhibited traits most like my dad have also been Cancers (like my Dad). So there you go.
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There is a book called "Getting the Love you Want" that talks a LOT about this...not astrologically but psychologically and emotionally. All about how we instinctively go after a partner who has traits (good or bad) similar to one or both of our parents, and we do so in an attempt to heal our childhood wounds via this partner.
well this is astrology im talking about. Energies you gravitate to and are comfortable with.

so i guess in turn yes, i'm very comfortable with the energies of my man and he is with me.

we find comfort and security and love in our energies, phsyical presence, the way we love and act.
Oh I know, I was just suggesting the book as well because it is a similar concept. And actually the men who have exhibited traits most like my dad have also been Cancers (like my Dad). So there you go.
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i see. . thanks for sharing.🙂
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venus 1st conj sun then? lol okay maybe libra is cardinal and i'm cardinal with sag rising?
are you cardinal dominant? maybe.... what's your mars/venus?
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cap sun venus mercury / pisces mars

i like libra energy intellectually. emotionally and romantically i NEED water. i know that for sure my ex is libra. it'd be perfect if he was my brother lol. actually i have a libra brother who i admire very much lol

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venus 1st conj sun then? lol okay maybe libra is cardinal and i'm cardinal with sag rising?
are you cardinal dominant? maybe.... what's your mars/venus?
cap sun venus mercury / pisces mars

i like libra energy intellectually. emotionally and romantically i NEED water. i know that for sure my ex is libra. it'd be perfect if he was my brother lol. actually i have a libra brother who i admire very much lol

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so now you're with a Scorpio man?? and he has libra?

well that's good you admire your brother. 🙂
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This thread just went over my head.....
it was just a simple question,

i was noticing it in the charts of my ex's mother grandmothers, ect and my man's.

so i wondered what other people who are into astrology like me, thought and what their experiences are.
leos mom was scoprio I am NOTHING like that woman...i hope......... I am nothing like my x cappie's mom either. She was nice though but nothing like me.

I am not discounting the theory. :-)
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😛

thanks for sharing...

one of my ex's had a horrible mother, very very plutonic and cruel (the dark side/shadow) it's either extreme. and my ex Always wanted a woman like his step father who was so kind and passive and sweet. I'm like omg...*smh*

i was hoping i'm not THAT passive and sweet though. lol but i am horrified at the cruelty of his mother. Probably one of the reasons why i stayed, too, i felt so sorry and wanted to help/heal/fix him.

anyway, past is past.

and also i dont think i'm anything like my other ex's mother. lol She's awesome and sweet but 30 years her junior? 😛 😆 no thanks. heehee.
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libra mercury and venus. he is a smooth talker. i love lol. i think i'll go insane with a man without cardinals lol. my brother is a very well rounded and loving libra with pisces energy. his wife is lucky lol
my sister aries is married to a libra with pisces. yes, she's very Lucky. also my other sis is with a libra dominant man, not libra though. virgo man with leo mars.

the consistent thing we all have with the three men is that they have virgo energy.

my other sister's man doesn't have leo energy in her man, and the other one doesn't have cancer energy. (i'm not really sure though, they might have 5th house)

but virgo is the consistent.
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btw i dont even know if it's "theory" ...just going by consistencys in our partner's charts and their family/mothers ect.

i just thought it's awesome to see the clues.

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i loved/hated virgo sun. more hate lol. virgo moon / venus i really like. not sure why. my scorp has virgo moon.
i just realize you have my sister's pisces mars. lol and she's with a libra/pisces.

did you know marilyn Monroe has a pisces mars too? and she chose to be with Arthur Miller, libra/aqua moon.

and also, i notice this with 12th house mars as well. Sooooo interesting!!

Beautiful Pisces sun Emily Blunt has pisces mars....and guess who she's with. see— the consistency is uncanny!!!

but of course it depends too.

every one of these folks have 7th house prominent, like my sisters.

and marilyn Monroe has moon in 7th house. how uncannily accurate.

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Marilyn_Monroe

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