Playing the victim, looking for sympathy.

Sounds like she let him be the lazy slob he wanted to be.

His chart is the same as mine with the exception of my Mercury being in Taurus. If I was behaving like that and saying those thingsto you, it would be because I needed help owning up to my horrible horribleness and needed an honest kick in the butt from a safe friend. He isnt trying to convince YOU, he is trying to convince himself that he is the victim. Kindly voice your opinion on his ridiculousness… and maayyybe cancel that date.

Don't give him any money or buy him shit! Not even phone minutes or gas money!

Posted by ellle
the simple fact you aren't disgusted by his behaviour tells him...."Hmmmmmm, new victim!"

Plus, she might like the fact he's a user

Posted by PrincessOfLight

His fiance supported him through the rough time the best she could. But things changed for him and he broke up with her.
He came to me for support, we hit it off pretty well and we planned a date that will happen this Friday.

Looks like you need a light bulb change there princess....

I don't understand how a person could type all of this out, so they KNOW these things are true ..... and yet, not enough wits about them to actually apply the information.

Why does a person have to be told that his actions will be the same with her, as they were with the first woman?

do women actually believe that they are so fucking special and that a loser will change his colors just for her? Well, they must be that delusional because they bombard dxp with their ridiculousness.


to OP: As I was reading this, I got the impression that from the beginning you wanted him romantically and only agreed to be friends. because you seemed to know details about his life that you should know. Like you said, " For months he stayed home and did nothing but play video games and complained about how life sucked, without doing nothing to change his situation." ... when in reality, unless you are living with him 24/7 you really don't know the ins and outs of his daily life.

So, if you do know .. then it means you were prying into his life on levels that a platonic friend wouldn't do. So, from my perspective, you were probably operating under false pretenses. You probably even got closer to his woman, just so you could be closer to him.

It's clear in your presentation that you have no interest in being a decent person, since you will say things like this, while pretending with him that you're all in.