PLEASE HELP

I am a Pisces and Iv been seeing a Virgo for a few months,we clicked right away,we open up to each other and have amazing talks.Our 1st date he didnt try to kiss me,but we hugged alot,which was fine,Iv been hurt alot so i also want to go very slow. Now over past while this virgo man compliments me and few weeks ago virgo man told me he has feelings for me.But he doesnt date alot for fear of bad relationship and rejection.I also developed feelings for virgo man,an so that he wouldnt feel rejected I told him,and we both said we want to go slow..He still hasnt kissed me.This past weekend he took me to meet is father and step mom,and his parents told me Im all he talks about..Now that was 4 days ago,after meeting his parents and before i left to go home I kissed him on his cheeks.now since he said he has feelings for me he doesnt treat me the same,he ignores me and pushs me away.And today i get a message telling me he only wants to be friends and this isnt ment to hurt me.How can it not hurt me,He just a few weeks ago told me exactly this..in such a short time youv have become a very special woman in my life,and always know you are very special to me.Then his parents tell me that im all he talks about,he tells all his friends about me,Im so Hurt and dont understand..PLEASE HELP