Pluto square Venus Synastry

What hasn't been your experience with this in synastry? Did it end up being a controlling situation?

I had it with my Cap ex. She was the Pluto person. She wasn't controlling in the traditional sense of monitoring every move I made, but she did have and still has jealousy issues with me. Even though we broke up 5 years ago, she still gets pissy if I'm seeing someone else or if she even thinks I am. Any woman that enters my sphere, she assumes is fucking me and she gives me crap about it. I just laugh it off.

The relationship itself was very warm-blooded. It had an initial unnerving quality, but it became more comfortable over time.

Posted by Bricks195
I had it with my Cap ex. She was the Pluto person. She wasn't controlling in the traditional sense of monitoring every move I made, but she did have and still has jealousy issues with me. Even though we broke up 5 years ago, she still gets pissy if I'm seeing someone else or if she even thinks I am. Any woman that enters my sphere, she assumes is fucking me and she gives me crap about it. I just laugh it off.

The relationship itself was very warm-blooded. It had an initial unnerving quality, but it became more comfortable over time.

Would you say you still feel that way about her?

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Bricks195
I had it with my Cap ex. She was the Pluto person. She wasn't controlling in the traditional sense of monitoring every move I made, but she did have and still has jealousy issues with me. Even though we broke up 5 years ago, she still gets pissy if I'm seeing someone else or if she even thinks I am. Any woman that enters my sphere, she assumes is fucking me and she gives me crap about it. I just laugh it off.

The relationship itself was very warm-blooded. It had an initial unnerving quality, but it became more comfortable over time.

Would you say you still feel that way about her?

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Yeah. No hard feelings really. We're still involved in each others' lives. I was probably closer to her than I've been to anyone else.

Posted by Shadowcat

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Bricks195
I had it with my Cap ex. She was the Pluto person. She wasn't controlling in the traditional sense of monitoring every move I made, but she did have and still has jealousy issues with me. Even though we broke up 5 years ago, she still gets pissy if I'm seeing someone else or if she even thinks I am. Any woman that enters my sphere, she assumes is fucking me and she gives me crap about it. I just laugh it off.

The relationship itself was very warm-blooded. It had an initial unnerving quality, but it became more comfortable over time.

Would you say you still feel that way about her?

Do you have it with the cap? Are you pluto?

I can onlyspeak of the conjunction and the trine.

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No I am trying to keep my distance from him although he has tried to wiggle back in my mind. I have this with an Aquarius I told him I feel like pulling away because I feel like I might get too possessive and he says he has had that type of influence on people before he attracts crazy or people who just want to try him he says. He also has Scorp Rising but his Venus is in Aqua so that would mean he would have this Square Pluto with a whole generation.

Posted by Nevermore

Heyyy 😭

I have Pluto Venus conjunction with my SO. It's a lot to push and pull; but it doesn't seem like we can ever part. It's a growth relationship that we know we'll be connected in. It feels like we couldn't part if we tried.