As someone who won't be vulnerable unless I feel absolutely safe doing so, I like the idea of seeing vulnerability as a show of strength, instead of weakness. Can anyone relate?
I remember reading or hearing something similar. That there is nothing wrong with loving someone and you should never feel ashamed for expressing love. No one should ever make you feel dirty or worthless or negative for LOVING them. Its a gift, a blessing and a strength; even if they do no return your affections they should appreciate it for what it is.
Vunerablity, corniness, even begging as a strenght when you love another this is how it should be wasting time aside. Being strong when you do stuff kills emotions and goodness inside relationships. Theres a time and a place for everything. There is also strenght in admitting something most men or women discard as weak. When your not weak you pop up weak here. O-O
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Here's the article
http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-07-31/girl-talk-redefining-vulnerability/#more-2426342
As someone who won't be vulnerable unless I feel absolutely safe doing so, I like the idea of seeing vulnerability as a show of strength, instead of weakness.
Can anyone relate?