I have been lurking for some time- and am quite shy- but I have been having a hard time lately and thought I would take a risk and reach out.
There are several relationships in my life right now that are puzzling me. Although I've been an amateur astrologer for years and am fairly adept at reading others charts, I wonder if I can't quite see the forest for the trees when it comes to my own situations.
It seems that I have been subject to a number of collisions lately- romantically, professionally, spiritually, personally- and I am not sure how to untangle them all.
My current partner and spouse and I have been living across the country from one another for 2 years now. His grandmother just died today and he did not call me to tell me the news- my sister-in-law did. We have since talked, but our conversation was stilted. We have always had such a solid relationship but I feel very disconnected right now and I am not sure if this is a permanent feeling or a temporary one.
I have some other situations with some other folks as well that are tangled up in this one, but I don't want to bombard y'all with so many things! And this one is the most worrisome. Would anyone be willing to give me some quick advice on anything at all? I would so appreciate it! I can certainly try and return the favor!
My birthdate is 5:45 AM, Sept 2, 1983, Patchogue, NY.
If you are so inclined:
My partners birthday is March 13, 1984, 3:00 AM, Berkely, CA.
Is this the first time you have felt disconnected from him? I noticed from his chart Venus is in Aquarius.. have you read up on this? It's quite a unique placement and could help explain. After his Grandmother has died he is obviously going through a lot so his first instinct is to withdraw for a while. Living apart must be pretty tough :-/
His grandmother died...today. Imo, your relationship is of secondary importance atm. Right now it's all about his needs. This is his time to grieve - give him that. Observe his cancer moon; I think you can count on him hiding away for a while. All you can do is to lend an ear and travel over there if he wants you to and if it is possible.
Best wishes to the both of you!
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I have been lurking for some time- and am quite shy- but I have been having a hard time lately and thought I would take a risk and reach out.
There are several relationships in my life right now that are puzzling me. Although I've been an amateur astrologer for years and am fairly adept at reading others charts, I wonder if I can't quite see the forest for the trees when it comes to my own situations.
It seems that I have been subject to a number of collisions lately- romantically, professionally, spiritually, personally- and I am not sure how to untangle them all.
My current partner and spouse and I have been living across the country from one another for 2 years now. His grandmother just died today and he did not call me to tell me the news- my sister-in-law did. We have since talked, but our conversation was stilted. We have always had such a solid relationship but I feel very disconnected right now and I am not sure if this is a permanent feeling or a temporary one.
I have some other situations with some other folks as well that are tangled up in this one, but I don't want to bombard y'all with so many things! And this one is the most worrisome. Would anyone be willing to give me some quick advice on anything at all? I would so appreciate it! I can certainly try and return the favor!
My birthdate is 5:45 AM, Sept 2, 1983, Patchogue, NY.
If you are so inclined:
My partners birthday is March 13, 1984, 3:00 AM, Berkely, CA.