Sag man advice, eh eh

Hello, I've just got out of a non relationship with a Sag man, we'd been floating around each other for ages and he'd made it clear he liked me.. but said he was too shy to say anything, after hearing this i tell him i feel vaguely the same. Then take ages (ages being the entirety of my Easter break, which was a good 3-4 weeks) to think if i wanted a relationship with him, so when we go back i ask him if he wants to be with me.. he said he really likes me but he doesn't want a relationship as it would be too long distance
I had been planning to transfer uni's, but then decided to stay....so... I told him this and asked him again. I am very persistant..
he said this time he didn't want a relationship full stop.
Is it me or just his Sag ways? He's got quite a bit of Scorp & aries going on in there too... Merc & Mars in Scorp, Moon in Aries... weirdly enough he wasn't very sexual, i had to instigate anything.. and we did nothing, he freaked out everytime i kissed him
lol, independence and all that..? i mean i'm not the typical taurus (mostly) i find it difficult to settle down and i like my independence...but i also like my closeness at times, and having somebody i can go and see after being in my world.

any advice, be as blunt as possible.

for advice on the sag man [ironically enough...] go to the cancer board...all that advice about ignoring him won't really work with a cancer...for a time maybe, but that's only pride and he'll get over it - and you...HOWEVER - the advice is right on for a sag man......run away from them and they will chase you - they are fire signs - they like action - and are forever chasing an ideal - I have a lot of sag male friends...almost all of whom by the way have asked me to marry them....I won't date them however because they literally think I'm perfect - they tell me all the time that I am the most perfect and amazing woman they've ever met....WHO COULD LIVE UP TO THAT? no one - and that is how it happens with sag men....they idealize you and when their ideal is shattered [which it eventually will be when they realize you are human...] they run away looking for a new ideal - this truly the man who wants what he can't have - so [don't] give it to him !

Moi agreeth big-time with Archer on this...........because of their independent nature and joie de vivre (I'm sure I have spelled that incorrectly!), after one or two iniital "chasings" that's it........fintio pre me tempti....closure before finishing!!! Why is he freaking out when you do the initiating—?? Cos, he's master of the chase and and it's up to him to be the "chaser" and initiator - not you:-)......OK so I once had sag lover....I know when I contacted him initially, he was all smiles and sunshine:-)........if I overstepped the line, he retreated..........today four years on, he is still my pal and I am his:-) he is on another continent with another lady.....we still communicate flirtily:-).....that's the way with the saggis;_0 and they don't hold grudges as far as I can tell:-) so let him do the "chasing":-) ...... abd let him be Mr. Sag....there's two types of sags....the outgoing and the slightly introverted.....whichever one you are with.......go with the flow:-)

A x

Thanks, i think i'll just stick to being friends with him unless something pops up again.. He said himself he is a very confused boy... He's definately NOT shy in most parts of life.. maybe soft spoken, but not shy. but i guess he might just be a little underconfident in the love department lol who knows hes a Cap venus..
It took him three months to come out and say he liked me, of course it took me even longer 😛 oh dear i need to learn to be more proactive, problem is there are way too many fish in the sea. hmmm, hopefully next sag i meet (and i do seem to meet alot) will be a little less confusing! ... even if that is part of the fun