scorpio female/leo male

hello hello this is my first post
& i need some advice
so i have been dating a male virgo who is a couple years older than me and he always treated me very well and taken such good care of me but lately i have not been feeling attached to him at all, maybe because now we live in different cities blah blah blah, i get annoyed with him so quickly now, he is so automatic and logical about everything it drives me nuts he doesn't FEEL anything.
SOOOOO that is my boyfriend and now i have met: a beautiful leo guy. we have been friends for a year and ive always felt a connection with him but i never realized it until we fell asleep on a couch together at his friends house one night after drinking. ever since then we've had this really intense connection where we can just look at each other and grin. but i am so so soosooo skeptical about trusting him in a relationship or anything beyond this flirtation/lust we have. i have read so much about leos, but i still do not know this guy very well. i brush him off a lot, im playing a lot of games because im testing him out. i think about him al the time, im really obsessing but whenever i see him i just smile non-chalantly. we joke around a lot, sometimes he feels like my comrade and other times i feel like he has too mcuh to do to even look at me. (that drives me nuts) i also stroke his ego and admire him because i know thats what a leo likes. i just feel this really strong strong passion between us and im not sure if its just lust. or maybe he just wants me because he knows i have a boyfriend? anyway, this has been going on for a month or so and i just dont know what to do. its really starting to affect me. its weird too because we've been buddies for awhile then all of a sudden one night things just clicked and ever since then we've been so much more alert of each other.

oh yes i am a: scorpio sun, a moon in cancer, and my ascendent is pisces. (triple water sign!!!!!!)

oh yes and also i know that imake him nervous sometimes.like his hands shake, or one time when he was sitting down painting and i approached him standing above him he seemed really nervous. one time i pointed out that he seemed nervous and he got sorta defensive, like he said yeah so everyone gets nervous. hahah maybe this isnt significant at all but i like to have this power 🙂🙂 🙂

yes yes, i think you're right. i have just been delaying it because i do not want to hurt the virgo, and i will be back in his city in a couple weeks. but i see the leo every other day or so and i cant decide if he's just this temptation or if there is actually something there.
does anyone else have advice for leo and scorpio??

here is something funny that happened today:
we were both sitting on the ground on either side of this dog petting the puppy and we tried to see who the dog would pay more attention too. we were like competing for the dog's attention, so i let him win.

this reminds me of somewhere i've read that scorpio and leo can be at odds with each other and feel as though they've met a match with one another. sometimes i dont feel on his level, because he attracts so much attention and seems to be so outwardly energetic and playful. leos, do you have any advice? what does a scorpio make you feel like?

Whatever you have observed and felt, is quite natural in a leo male and scorpio female realtionship. Leo male have following characteristics:::

1) Very daring
2) very caring for the ppls to whom they feel worthy for it.
3) Very confident
4) Very possesive about their likings.
5) Fond of most beautiful and best things.
6) Kind hearted & generous
7) gregarious

All the above personality traits are liked by scorpio females but one thing I would like to say that inspite of all these traits a scorpio female thinks herself very uncomfirtable and insecure with a leo male. Reason, is that both are ambitious, both are passionate, both are confident, both have very high sex drives, very possesive. Alongwith these common things, there r lots of differences as follows::

1) Leo believs in show off and scorpio beleives in reality.
2) Leos are open and scorpios dont reveal most of the things.
3) Leos are fire but scorpions are water.
4) Leos like ppls around them all the time but scorpions prefer less number of ppls. Scorpions r committed to very few number of ppls.

At begining, there is tremendous attraction between these two, but beleive me this attraction will go off, if scorpion female is really ambitious and can lead her life herself. Leos want to possess their wives which is very difficult for an scorpio female. Leos want to rule but it is almost impossible for an scorpio female to be ruled. Beleive me sex is not everything, there must be some equality on mental level and emotional feelings, which is not the case in case of this pair. If you r finding, a leo male always kissing you or asking for sex, you can never trust him. If alongwith all these, he also keeps the record of ur hr to hr life of everyday, and you also like this then only u can trust and expect for a working relationship.