Scorpio male and Scorpio Rising female

Hi, this is my first post and I really need advice/help/opinions, etc. I have been deeply involved in an 'online' relationship since Feb. 2011. We plan to meet in October when it's near both our birthdays. Things are really steamy and also we tell each other we love each other - every day. He seems to be a very sweet and caring guy with a heart of gold. The only thing I am wondering about is if there is a chance for long-term relationship. This is the guy I want to marry and we haven't even met yet. We are very much alike. He is: Scorpio sun/Cancer Rising/Libra moon. I am Libra sun/Scorpio Rising/Pisces moon. We are honest with each other and we both admit we still talk to our exes. That is not a problem with either of us. The problem is: I live in the US and he lives in Canada. Not extremely far, but far away enough. He tells me that he loves me. I believe he is 'in love' with me, but what about the future? Would he marry me? I just want to know if he really loves me. He admits crying over me...not sure if he's crying because he loves me so much or crying because he's secretly worried that maybe we can't be together, forever. One of us would have to move. That's a big thing. I want to know what feelings are making him cry. I know this to be true because I have seen him cry in video chat. I think we are made for each other. The thing is that our emotional talks and times seem to come in cycles. Like we will talk very deeply for a week then the next week just make small talk. I guess people can't be intense ALL the time. I just wonder if he is trying to keep things slow and not show his emotions, but then he will out of nowhere open up and show me all his feelings. I've never been in this type of relationship before. Any advice? I will tell you more if you need it. I would like to hear opinions from people I don't know...that is why I signed up for this message board. thank you.

Scorpiorising23, I'm an air sign sun (Gemini) with a Scorp rising and a Pisces moon. I'm married to a Scorpio. It CAN work, but PLEASE find ways to spend extensive quality time in person. It's easy to get along "electronically", but to mesh when you're spending time in person and meeting the challenges of daily life is a different story. And, be thankful for the periods of emotional talks. Getting meaningful conversation out of a Scorpio man can be as difficult as wrestling a bone out of a pit bull's mouth. They can be silent as the grave, even when all that emotion is swirling inside of them. I can tell you that if a Scorpio wants you, you won't have to wait long to find out. He'll find a way to have you.

Not the best match! Libra and Pisces Moon together is too weak of pairing and that Ascendant/Ascendant combination is a real killer. I have known many with such combination, couples, siblings etc and it has always been negative. In one case the Scorpio AC woman caused her Cancer AC husband's untimely death and in those sibling cases there has been alot of jealousy, argues and backfiring. So I would not recommend it.

@ Whimsy: to quote you - "It's easy to get along "electronically", but to mesh when you're spending time in person and meeting the challenges of daily life is a different story. "

I agree. And luckily neither one of us is a big spender or into material possessions. Money is one thing that can be a problem in any relationship. Thank you for the advice.

@ Femininitywild: Everything you said is what I suspected was going on. It just made me feel a whole lot better to hear it from another person. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

@ SamiChief: Sorry, I do not feel this way. Things have been way too intense with this man right from the beginning to think that something in our signs is off. I have already been jealous over him when he went out with some friends, but recognized what I was starting to do and then later apologized to him. I don't ever want to hurt him. Especially if he is my 'soul mate'. I just want to love him and respect his feelings.

A note to everyone: I am proud to say that we have made a very strong sexual connection also. We have shared secret fantasies with each other and even made each other some special videos.

The reason why I wanted advice is because 99% of me thinks of him as husband material, but I wanted advice... and if most of my advice given was negative then I would probably start to be wary. But the advice I was given goes with the feelings I was having all along.

Thank you everyone for your input and opinions. I have a great feeling this can and will work!!